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First, let’s talk about core beliefs. Your core beliefs are the sum of your past experiences. From the moment we’re born, we’re constantly trying to make sense of our world. What do you think when you think about yourself? Do you think you’re kind & deserving or bothersome & undeserving? Our brain automatically answers these questions using the direct & indirect messages we received during childhood. A direct message could be “Jenny, aren’t you clever?” or “You are so lazy, Sam”. An indirect message is a belief your brain accepted via experience. They are the beliefs that control your actions without you even knowing. For example, if one of your parents were often too busy to spend time with you, your brain may have created the indirect (subconscious) belief that you are unimportant & unlovable. Your parents didn’t blatantly tell you that, but it’s how your brain perceived their actions, hence the term ‘indirect’ or ‘subconscious’ belief. The bad news is that until you reframe those beliefs, there’s a good chance they will continue to influence your decisions & ultimately run your life. The good news is that it’s never too late to reframe our beliefs! Take a moment to think about what subconscious beliefs are running your life. If they aren’t contributing to your happiness & well-being, then it may be time to replace them. Once you have identified the root cause of your negative beliefs, you can begin to reframe them using neuroplasticity & psychology, which I will discuss in my upcoming posts.
In simplest terms, if you don’t believe something is possible under any circumstances, you have limiting subconscious beliefs that need to be reframed. If you believe something is possible & just not possible for you, you likely have a poor self-concept and/or have been conditioned to subscribe to low self-worth stories. In either scenario, the first steps towards change is reframing your beliefs.
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How I imagine:
I remember my only goal is to BECOME the one I want to be IN IMAGINATION ONLY.
So I think about something I want to be, anything. Then I assume I AM that IN IMAGINATION, and in Imagination I can be all things.
When I say the words, “I AM” I am not speaking about this outer-body but the Inner Man. The Inner Man to me is I AM and I know that all I must change is I AM to change my life.
I accept that I AM that Inner Man EXPERIENCING in present tense what I desire.
Let’s give an example. Suppose I wanted to go to Las Vegas but I am in New York. While I am in New York, I would imagine myself in Las Vegas at the MGM Grand lobby. So while I am looking around in the MGM Grand’s lobby, I assume that the Inner Man who is looking around is the REAL ME, the I AM. So I say, “I AM in Las Vegas.”
If I identify myself with the Inner Man, then yes, it is a PRESENT FACT that I am in Las Vegas. To deny this is to be delusional. I am looking at the lobby and I see people walking around. Of course, I am here.
Now take this example and multiply to anything in Imagination. Suppose you wanted to be in a happy marriage. Then go in Imagination and look at your imaginary hand and look at your ring. Feel incredibly proud to be married and feel that your marriage is wonderful.
Then identify yourself with that I AM, with the Inner Man. I AM experiencing myself being happily married. I must be for that is me! Not something I will become but am NOW. Suppose you wanted to hear good news from a friend. Bring them before you and imagine them telling you the good news. Respond as you would normally if you actually heard this news. Then after you listen, are you going to deny that you heard those words? How can you deny it? You, the Inner You, experienced it. Don’t doubt the experience, you heard it!
“Should you tomorrow or in the interval between now, this night, and you do it, and the fulfillment of it, should one little doubt enter your mind, do this: just remember “But I experienced it, I experienced ownership, so I don’t care if at this very moment something denies it, I experienced it!” - Neville
A Grimoire is a journal in which a witch or group of witches puts their research of all magickal related texts. Grimoire can be shared amongst certain families, or covens. Some people consider this sacred and share with nobody, whilst others happily share their works to help inform. The choice is up to you, if you even desire a Grimoire, and what you might wish to do with it.
Generally most practitioners use these terms interchangeably. However, if you research into their origins, you will discover that the first Book of Shadows was a book of information about demons and spirits by an anonymous author. This information is not to impose on anyone’s person uses of the term, but educate those who desire wisdom.
The earliest recorded written magical texts originate from ancient Mesopotamia in which they were inscribed on cuneiform tablets of Clay. The ancient Egyptians also employed magical incantations, which have been found inscribed on amulets and other items. The Egyptian magical system, known as Heka, was enormously altered and expanded after the Macedonians invaded Egypt during 332 BC at the orders of Alexander the Great. Under the next three centuries of Hellenistic Egypt, the Coptic writing system evolved, and the Library of Alexandria was opened.
Intentions:
Basic intentions such as Warding, Binding, Banishing, Charging, and Grounding are always worth research and writing notes on, even if they are quick and sloppy. These topics can really benefit any practitioner.
Birth Chart:
Did you know that each individual being has more than one zodiac sign? In fact, each person on this planet has a zodiac sign for each and almost every celestial body in our solar system.
Your Favorite Plants:
Are they a flower, herb, spice, tree, or a shrub? Are they an annual or perennial plant? What do they represent for me? What is their collective magical prosperities? Is it safe for pets or humans, why or why not?
Numerology:
Numerology is a form of Divination that reveals introspection into your soul, life, and potential healing, much like a Birth Chart. Each person inherits a Life Path Number, Soul Number, and Destiny Number and moment they are born.
Birthday Correspondences:
Do you know your birthstones? What about your astral Color, flower, or foods? What do these embody for you, as well as in common magic? What is your Numerology, or Birth Chart?
Daily, Weekly, and Monthly:
Time Magic is usually not what people imagine it is. Rather than forcing time to bend to your will, Time Magic often means working alongside it instead. Each hour of the day, day of the week, and month of the year have meanings.
Sabbats and Seasons
If Time Magic such as Daily, Weekly, or Monthly, overwhelms you or you simply don’t have time to practice in that manner, you can always look into the possibility of seasonal magic or working with the Wheel Of The Year.
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Success story
Hi, witchy! I remember asking you for advice a few times and I once promised to come back with a success story. In fact, many of my imaginal acts included me sharing my success on your tumblr. I'm glad I'm able to say they are no longer just "imaginal acts". I hope you like to read because I'm about to spill all the tea.
To give a bit of context, I had never been in a romantic relationship before and all of my knowledge was based on other people's experiences, social media, sad movies, and as you can guess, it was pretty toxic. I met my SP last year (2020), I manifested him without knowing. I literally created him in my mind, he was all I ever wanted in a partner, except he came a little bit earlier than I thought, haha. When I first started talking to him things were so magical, I honestly couldn't be more thankful. He was mature, kind, respectful, I was feeling a connection I had never felt with anyone before.
But my fairytale started it's conflictive part when the pandemic hit my country and we were quarantined. Even with the quarantine we were still talking and we were basically dating. Not officially, but the only thing missing were the tags. Unfortunately I may have shared a bit too much with some of my friends who then started to reflect my inner fears in regards to relationships. I started questioning my SP and wondering if all of this was real or just me falling into a fuckboy's trap. My friends kept fueling my fears and although I had no evidence of him being a fuckboy, I was definitely considering him to be one. Also at that time, an old trigger of mine resurfaced. Ghosting. I was so worried that because he couldn't see me in person, he was going to get bored of me and eventually ghost me... as the master manifestor I am, you can guess that I got exactly what I was persisting on. He ghosted.
I had been ghosted before, but this was the only time that I was actually hurt. I could feel the pain in my chest and couldn't hold my tears back. I even cried infront of my parents. I started receiving therapy and I wanted to give up on my SP, because I found out I was codependent, and he was "bad" for me. I was constantly watching videos on how to get over someone. I knew about subliminals and was using one to get over him. Here comes the fun part... thanks to subliminals youtube started suggesting me videos of the law of assumption. To be honest, the first manifestation coach I saw talking about EIYPO was Roxy Talks and when miss girl said that "anything others do is basically your own manifestation" I WAS OFFENDED. I wanted to sue Roxy, but another part of me was recalling my thoughts before my SP left, AND IT MATCHED. He did nothing out of the script. Everything he did, I had imagined. My wig was snatched, besties. Now I was both, sad and happy. Sad because I didn't know how to change that shit, happy because I didn't have to hate him. Out of everything, having to hating him was what hurt me the most. It was the same as with our pets, no matter what they do, we cannot hate them. I couldn't hate my SP because deep down in me, I genuinely believed he was a good person.
I was still not fully grasping this concepts tho, that's when witchysleepingbeauty comes into my story, and let me tell you, I WAS OFFENDED AGAIN. If you want tough love, witchy is your person. No bs allowed. I started doing exactly what she said. For the first time I was putting in the work.I have to be real honest, I didn't know what I was doing, it was not natural for me to think that everything works my way, and it made me feel weird at the beginning. I did some forgiveness meditations (Ho'opponopono specifically) to help me let go of the old story. I have to admit that it was until I was able to forgive myself and him, that things started to shift. I was no longer thinking about the past, and I was not thinking of him as a piece of ****. In new years, he came back for the first time, he texted me out of nowhere, and disappeared again. I was cool, I kept doing my shit. He then reached out a few other times but nothing consistent. Now this is when it got tough and I couldn't persist, I was bored and wanted to move on from him. I couldn't handle his inconsistency. I started talking to someone else and truly giving myself the chance to fall in love again, and try again with someone new. I was not even thinking about my SP during this time. I was all in for new beginnings, but I was not really feeling it.
This guy was cool, he was handsome, fun, but I was not into it. You could say he was basically an upgrade, even my friends liked him and told me I was finally getting someone better HAHAAA. I kept trying, but at some point I was just feeling like it was a loss of time (for both of us). So I decided to leave it there. I didn't go back to manifesting my SP tho, I started focusing solely on self concept. Enjoying being single, feeling like an actual goddess queen. Not needing anyone or anything in my life. I had a feeling while doing this, that my SP was going to come, it was natural, I was not forcing it. I was not even affirming for him. Like two weeks into this mindset and this bitch (my sp) texts me again out of fucking nowhere, joking like we never stopped talking, and this time it was consistent af. I hadn't even responded to his texts, when he was already answering back. I was taking hours to answer, and he kept answering me within seconds. He was acting all sweet, romantic and even asked me out on a date, haha!! I was hella nervous about the date, because we had never interacted in person. We had seen eachother but never interacted.
My first date with him was not perfect, I have to be honest about it, even the food was trash. It was a mess, but in hindsight it was cute because were just too nervous to be with eachother for the first time. Some great things I can recall from that date is that he was a gentleman, he even asked my parents for permission to take me out when he picked me up at my house. He admitted to be nervous about doing that, but the fact that he still did it makes my heart melt. No one had ever done that for me before, haha. After that one date, he started making more plans to hangout and showing so much interest in me. I have been feeling so good lately, and I just know that there is so much more for us to experience together. I'm glad I could find the law, and your amazing blog. You really helped me during this journey. I was watching so many videos, but it was until I found you that everything clicked for me. Everything started to make sense, and thanks to your tough love I was also able to leave the bs in the past.
*I did have undesirable circumstances once he was back, my only advice and the only thing there is to do, is to keep persisting. Be firm in your mindset. Most importantly, be happy, do what feels good. If at any point you don't feel like you're getting what you want, do not settle.
**Also this is living proof that circumstances do not matter, EVER. Trust me. I had so many circumstances that sometimes made me question if this relationship was even possible.
***Self concept did wonders for me and it's truly all I needed in my life to accomplish what I wanted. My biggest advice for people manifesting an SP (or anything really) is to focus on self concept, and start embodying the person that you desire to be. Usually when we are aiming for love, we tend to forget ourselves in the way, and focus mostly on the other person. Do not forget you should be your main priority all the time.
I’m jumping in to add some comments here guys:
First of all I loved reading your story, though it was on the longer side it was very exciting and I love the way you write!
Second, the part where you said you were offended had me crying 😂. Guys it’s so important to take responsibility for the shitty things that happen to us because then we know we can create good things if we put our mind to it!
I am so happy to hear that I could help you! People don’t usually come back to share their success but it’s honestly so nice when they do because it shows me I’m doing something right and I’m actually helping you guys!
Finally I know manifesting is a lonely journey a lot of times because most of us don’t share it with our friends or family. In case you didn’t have anyone tell you this: you did such an amazing job. I am very happy and proud of you. 💖
From now on you’ll be able to find all success stories under the hashtag #success stories
I win.
- things I have manifested + how
BEFORE LOA:
☆ my body was shaped like a rectangle 💀
☆ I didn't have a lot of friends
☆ I was very average looking-
☆ I was really dissatisfied with my life
☆ I used to have a second-hand mobile phone that didn't work well...
☆ I was struggling with my sub channel ( I had like 800 subscribers when I started using loa )
☆ I was a huge introvert
☆ I used to have uneven skin tone and acne all over my face
AFTER LOA
☆ I have a curvy pear shaped body <3
☆ I'm friends with literally every single person in my school lmao
☆ I love living my life istg
☆ I look ETHEREAL- my eyes have def gotten bigger and my lips got plumper ++ I had a growth spurt making my legs longer than before !!
☆ I have a brand new, *really pretty* phone [ I have a phone reveal in my ig highlights 'me being me' if anyone's interested 😀 ]
☆ my channel is growing rapidly :))
☆ I am the most extroverted person you'll ever come across in your life sksksk
☆ I have clearer skin and I love myself now
[ based on true facts, I'm not scripting here lmao, I'm just telling y'all this because sometimes even I doubt whether ppl on internet are just scripting or they actually manifested smth 💀 ]
( ♡ ) I'd ignore the fact that I have acne all over my face and then I'd pretend I'm a model with perfect skin
( ♡ ) I'd look in the mirror and admire my body like "ermm I'm so pretty damn", and then as usual, daydream of myself having my desired body
( ♡ ) while making my subs, I'd make them as if I'm making them for thousands of people, putting out my best I could
( ♡ ) I'd talk to myself all the time while pretending I'm a celebrity 😩
( ♡ ) STOP TRYING SO HARD.
this is the best tip i can give you ngl-
i manifested so many things with 0 effort and you can too !!
the easiest way to manifest is to decide something is yours and then completely forget about it
( ♡ ) to make people interact with me, I'd make up scenarios and conversations in my head :D
I'd say their lines in my head and think their thoughts for them, p.s. I'd narrativize the whole thing as if it's a fanfiction
( ♡ ) I wrote in my diary that I want a new phone ( this reminds me, you know there is ALWAYS a method that works for you yk? it can be scripting, visualising, subs, 3-6-9 method or simply persisting <3 for me it's DEFINITELY scripting tbh )
🎀 act 'as if' you already have what you desire, fake it till you make it
🎀 literally be delusional af istg, let people call you crazy or whatever just ignore them
🎀 don't 'wait' for it to arrive, know it's yours
🎀 pinterest vision boards >>>
🎀 just decide it's yours and let it go, if you don't see results in the mirror, persist that it's already there even if you can't see it
🎀 stop watching videos on 'how to manifest xxxx', instead live in the assumption that you already have it
today i’m going to tell y’all how to actually become your dream girl, aka your desired self.
one thing i HATE about “dream girl” tumblr is how judgemental they are! they have so many stupid rules, saying that to be a dream girl you can’t be this, you can’t have that and spew a lot of hateful rhetoric that is rooted in bigotry. (i.e misogyny & classism.)
first of all, this is your reality. as in, you can do whatever you want. so using that logic, we can be whoever we want.
i want you to imagine your desired self. go beyond your wildest dreams. who is dream girl? what does she look like? what does she do for a living? ask yourself questions like these to start your imagination, and either type out it on a device, or write it down on a piece of paper.
feeling uninspired? watch tv shows, go out with friends, read books, watch youtube videos, scroll on social media. whatever makes you feel inspired! i would really recommend making a pinterest board. pinterest is AMAZING for inspiration.
if you’re really stuck, let me ask you some questions!
what does being a dream girl mean to you?
what does this woman look like?
what is her dream job?
what’s her salary?
where does she live?
what is her house like?
is she single or in a relationship? if so, describe her partner in detail.
what does she do for fun?
what are her hobbies?
how do others perceive her?
how is her mental state?
what is her personality like?
how does she dress?
how is her relationship with her family like?
what are her friends like?
describe the average day of the dream girl.
don’t feel pressured to desire a certain thing that you actually don’t want. you are unique. your “dream girl” is unique to you. just because you see 834778393893 blogs talking about how they’d like to live the hedonistic high life surrounded by materialism, doesn’t mean you have to. i mean if you want to live that way, be my guest!
the “dream girl” isn’t a fixed aesthetic. this isn’t about anyone else. this is about YOU. so if your dream girl is you living in a pretty cottage in the middle of nowhere surrounded by art – that is YOUR dream girl. or if your dream girl is a woman who wears suits and is a ceo – that is ALSO a dream girl.
anyone can be a dream girl. and i mean, anyone. don’t listen to those stupid ass blogs that say shit like “you can’t be fat or skinny if you want to be a dream girl.” “you must act like this or you must have this” oh my god, PLEASE SHUT UP. i swear to god if i see another post like that i will lose my damn mind. don’t listen to those blogs! you are beautifully & wonderfully made. :)
okay, if you have been following me for a long time, you know what i’m about to say next. there is no secret. HA, FOOLED YA!
the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl.
yup, it’s that easy. just assume that you have everything you want. do not see your desired self as a fantasy, but as a reality. as a fact. wishful thinking will not do you any good.
as neville goddard once said:
“health, wealth, beauty, and genius are not created; they are only manifested by the arrangement of your mind-that is, by your concept of yourself, and your concept of yourself is all that you accept and consent to as true.”
affirm for your desire. and when you affirm, affirm from a place of knowing. don’t view affirming as some kind of technique, but as present fact. at the end of the day, your assumptions manifest. so assume you are your dream girl.
when affirming, you can either use separate affirmations like:
“i have my dream job”
“i look like xyz”
“i have the perfect boyfriend”
OR
you can use general affirmations. i personally find these easier because you only need one affirmation, because they cover everything you want. and don’t worry! your subconscious knows exactly what you’re talking about when you use a vague affirmation, because we assign meaning to our thoughts. if both you and you friend used the same affirmation, you would both get different results because you both want to manifest different things. understand?
that being said, here are some of my fav general affirmations:
“i am a dream girl!”
“everything in my life is perfect”
“isn’t it wonderful”
“i am happy”
“i live my desired life.
etc.
(oh, and one last thing. you don’t even need to believe in your affirmations. affirm & persist anyway, until you have your desire. so for those of you who struggle with belief, it is okay to be sceptical! don’t be so hard on yourself. you can be in the shittiest mood, have intrusive thoughts and lack belief — but as long as you are persistent in your affirmations, you’ll be fine. after all, that is the law.)
you don’t have to affirm if you don’t want to. i know affirming isn’t for everyone. instead of affirming, here are some alternatives:
visualization
scripting
subliminals
praying
spells
placebo effect (yes, you can use it to manifest)
manifestation techniques (369, 5x55, etc)
so here you go, folks! remember, the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl. no, you don’t need to lose weight, buy a prada bag or invest in chanel.
you already are your dream girl already!
here are some nice posts by me, relating to the topics, as linked below. happy manifesting, my loves!
https://bit.ly/3ixfmu2
https://bit.ly/3hNyTY5
https://bit.ly/3BpaIHm
https://bit.ly/3wNgpet
Gigglemug (always smiling)
Bitch the pot (pour the tea)
Got the mobs (temporary sadness)
Tight as a boiled owl (drunk)
Poked up (embarrassed)
Sauce-box (mouth)
Cupid's kettle drums (breasts)
Not up to dick (unwell)
Here’s some advice I had about sigils, a fun and accessible way to make your life more magical! There was a lot I wanted to say so I hope it’s not too wordy.