How To Become A Dream Girl: A DREAM GIRL GUIDE!

How to become a Dream Girl: A DREAM GIRL GUIDE!

today i’m going to tell y’all how to actually become your dream girl, aka your desired self. 

one thing i HATE about “dream girl” tumblr is how judgemental they are! they have so many stupid rules, saying that to be a dream girl you can’t be this, you can’t have that and spew a lot of hateful rhetoric that is rooted in bigotry. (i.e misogyny & classism.)

first of all, this is your reality. as in, you can do whatever you want. so using that logic, we can be whoever we want.

first things first: decide who your dream girl is.

i want you to imagine your desired self. go beyond your wildest dreams. who is dream girl? what does she look like? what does she do for a living? ask yourself questions like these to start your imagination, and either type out it on a device, or write it down on a piece of paper. 

feeling uninspired? watch tv shows, go out with friends, read books, watch youtube videos, scroll on social media. whatever makes you feel inspired! i would really recommend making a pinterest board. pinterest is AMAZING for inspiration. 

if you’re really stuck, let me ask you some questions!

what does being a dream girl mean to you?

what does this woman look like?

what is her dream job?

what’s her salary?

where does she live?

what is her house like?

is she single or in a relationship? if so, describe her partner in detail.

what does she do for fun?

what are her hobbies?

how do others perceive her?

how is her mental state?

what is her personality like?

how does she dress?

how is her relationship with her family like?

what are her friends like?

describe the average day of the dream girl.

don’t feel pressured to desire a certain thing that you actually don’t want. you are unique. your “dream girl” is unique to you. just because you see 834778393893 blogs talking about how they’d like to live the hedonistic high life surrounded by materialism, doesn’t mean you have to. i mean if you want to live that way, be my guest! 

the “dream girl” isn’t a fixed aesthetic. this isn’t about anyone else. this is about YOU. so if your dream girl is you living in a pretty cottage in the middle of nowhere surrounded by art – that is YOUR dream girl. or if your dream girl is a woman who wears suits and is a ceo – that is ALSO a dream girl.

anyone can be a dream girl. and i mean, anyone. don’t listen to those stupid ass blogs that say shit like “you can’t be fat or skinny if you want to be a dream girl.” “you must act like this or you must have this” oh my god, PLEASE SHUT UP.  i swear to god if i see another post like that i will lose my damn mind. don’t listen to those blogs! you are beautifully & wonderfully made. :)

the big secret, how to actually become a dream girl.

okay, if you have been following me for a long time, you know what i’m about to say next. there is no secret. HA, FOOLED YA!

the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl.

yup, it’s that easy. just assume that you have everything you want. do not see your desired self as a fantasy, but as a reality. as a fact. wishful thinking will not do you any good.

as neville goddard once said:

“health, wealth, beauty, and genius are not created; they are only manifested by the arrangement of your mind-that is, by your concept of yourself, and your concept of yourself is all that you accept and consent to as true.”

affirm for your desire. and when you affirm, affirm from a place of knowing. don’t view affirming as some kind of technique, but as present fact. at the end of the day, your assumptions manifest. so assume you are your dream girl.

when affirming, you can either use separate affirmations like:

“i have my dream job”

“i look like xyz”

“i have the perfect boyfriend”

OR 

you can use general affirmations. i personally find these easier because you only need one affirmation, because they cover everything you want. and don’t worry! your subconscious knows exactly what you’re talking about when you use a vague affirmation, because we assign meaning to our thoughts. if both you and you friend used the same affirmation, you would both get different results because you both want to manifest different things. understand?

that being said, here are some of my fav general affirmations:

“i am a dream girl!”

“everything in my life is perfect”

“isn’t it wonderful”

“i am happy”

“i live my desired life.

etc.

(oh, and one last thing. you don’t even need to believe in your affirmations. affirm & persist anyway, until you have your desire. so for those of you who struggle with belief, it is okay to be sceptical! don’t be so hard on yourself. you can be in the shittiest mood, have intrusive thoughts and lack belief — but as long as you are persistent in your affirmations, you’ll be fine. after all, that is the law.)

you don’t have to affirm if you don’t want to. i know affirming isn’t for everyone. instead of affirming, here are some alternatives:

visualization

scripting

subliminals

praying

spells

placebo effect (yes, you can use it to manifest)

manifestation techniques (369, 5x55, etc)

so here you go, folks! remember, the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl. no, you don’t need to lose weight, buy a prada bag or invest in chanel.

you already are your dream girl already! 

here are some nice posts by me, relating to the topics, as linked below. happy manifesting, my loves!

https://bit.ly/3ixfmu2

https://bit.ly/3hNyTY5

https://bit.ly/3BpaIHm

https://bit.ly/3wNgpet

How To Become A Dream Girl: A DREAM GIRL GUIDE!

More Posts from Nostarcanshinebrighter-blog and Others

Could you elaborate on diffrent types of affirmations? From adding emotion to it, to asking yourself why you have everything you want.

The goal of affirmations is one, to revert your attention from what you don’t want to what you do want.

There are many subcategories including (but not limited to):

simple affirmations:

I am happy, my SP is in love with me, I have the job of my dreams, etc...

general affirmations (like simple but don’t have a specific focus):

I am the god of my reality, I am the woman/man that has it all, I am extremely lucky....

Askfirmations:

Why am I so happy?, why does everything always work out so well for me?, why do I always get what I want?....

These are meant to trick the brain into perceiving the contents of the question as true more easily. This happens because questions make our brain focus on the answer instead of focusing on doubting them.

Scripting:

“Omg Samantha you won’t believe it! I just got a phone call from that job I applied last week and they told me I was hired! I’m staring next week!”

Scripting is much like affirming but instead of using small sentences you create a little story (message, letter, etc..) and you read that. This is very convenient if you find yourself being bored of affirming or just can’t find the right affirmations.

Isn’t it wonderful:

Isn’t it wonderful that I am in this amazing relationship with the guy of my dreams?

This is much like any other askfirmation, it ultimately comes down to your personal preference wether you like to add it.

Adding feeling:

Feeling is a great way to make yourself believe your affirmations faster. People say that feelings don’t manifest which is true, but feelings do boost manifesting. (Though if you can’t do it don’t stress about it, focus on affirming and your all good.)

Phone call technique:

You can use your phone on flight mode with that if you like too. Just relax and imagine a phone call between you and either a friend where you’re tell them the good news (much like the scripting example) or between you and your SP/employer or whomever you want to manifest this conversation with. “Hear” them telling you what you want to hear from them or “hear” yourself telling them the good news and them responding excited. Repeat as needed.

Writing Characters with Superpowers

Look! Up on the blog! It’s a novel! It’s a poem! No - it’s a new SOC Original!

Anyone who knows anything about my writing knows that the one thing I love to write, more than anything else in the whole world, is characters with superpowers. Why? I don’t know. It might be my childhood obsession with X-men: Evolution, or my subsequent obsessions with Static Shock, Batman: Beyond, the Justice League, or any other number of cartoon superhero shows. I started writing about superheroes when I was twelve years old, and I have never gone back.

Of course, writing about superheroes (and supervillains!) for over fourteen years teaches you a few things about how to write superpowers - and how not to. A few people have requested that I make a post about what to keep in mind when writing about superpowers, so here it is!

First of all, when you’re writing a character with superpowers, ignore anyone who says that if you give your character the same powers as another character you’re cheating, being uncreative, or whatever else. Listen, there’s nothing you can write that hasn’t been written, or at least there isn’t much. What counts isn’t the powers, it’s how your specific character chooses to use them! Just because you have a character who is super strong and who can fly doesn’t mean that you’re writing Superman - maybe your character isn’t quite as “Good” or as law-abiding as Superman, or maybe your character is afraid of their own strength and chooses not to use it at all, or maybe they just don’t have a lot of control. There’s a lot of wiggle room, so don’t be afraid to wiggle!

Second, when you give your character superpowers, give them limitations or drawbacks. These don’t have to be directly connected to their powers - they can be a part of your character’s personality instead. For example, I have a character who can unleash devastating amounts of telekinetic force, but she chooses to suppress her abilities instead of using them because she’s afraid that she’ll hurt someone - a fear that stems from her past, where she might have accidentally killed someone with her powers. Her fear of her own strength is a limitation on that strength and on her willingness to use it. You can also take this in the other direction and have a character who is so confident that they are helping that they end up doing more harm than good, or a character who so firmly believes that their powers are the answer to all of their problems that they completely miss the simpler solution. There are lots and lots of ways you can do this!

Another thing to think about, though, is powers-specific disadvantages. Yes, we all know the “Man of Steel, Woman of Kleenex” trope/joke, but honestly, most superpowers have some kind of drawback associated with them, especially when they first manifest. If your character is a telepath who doesn’t have great control over their telepathy, they might hear things in other peoples’ heads that they wish they hadn’t, or they might get overwhelmed by the amount of mental “noise” around them. An empath could be overloaded by other peoples’ emotions, especially in a crowd, and a pyrokinetic always has to worry about starting accidental fires, of course. Figure out what kind of trouble your character’s powers cause for them. This can also be a list of “superpower cons” - reasons why your character might want to give up their powers.

That leads me to my next point - figure out how your character feels about their powers! Are they afraid of them? Are they awed? Do they think their powers are super cool, or are they angry that they can no longer lead a normal life? Do they think they need help learning how to deal with them?

In the same vein, figure out who your character can tell about their abilities - every hero needs someone they can trust enough to be their true selves with. It’s not good for people, psychologically, to have to wear a mask all the time, even if the mask is invisible. Your hero needs someone they can turn to in times of sorrow or doubt, whether that’s a friend or a sibling or a parent or a butler.

Your superpowered character needs to have a life outside of their superpowers, but their superpowers should affect that life, too. What I mean is that there are some things that can’t be separated from who we are as people, and superpowers fall into that category. Your psychic character won’t only have migraines when they’re wearing the mask. Your superstrong character doesn’t only have superstrength when they’re wearing tights. They still have lives and families and jobs and things that they have to do that don’t involve stopping (or starting) the latest crime wave, but their powers don’t go away. Show your readers the impact that has on them.

And, last of all, when you’re writing a superpowered character, think about what drives them. Think about what their morality is, and think about their motivation, and think about how that affects the choices they make with and without their powers. Don’t be afraid of the gray areas - sometimes that’s where the most interesting stories happen, in the struggle between what a character wants to do and what they know they have to do.

I hope this helps you out when you’re writing your superpowered characters. Good luck!

-Kyo

i’ve been watching Caitlyn Rae on youtube since like summer 2018 and if u guys want an example of someone who has literally manifested their entire life i’d really recommend her videos. she’s not a manifestation coach at all she just posts vlogs but i’ve watched her channel grow and her get crazy opportunities through manifestation. she’s actually how i found out about manifestation bc in summer 2018 she made a video about meeting Taylor Swift and how she met her against all odds by simply manifesting it. if u guys are familiar with Taylor Swift u know that at her tours she does meet and greets but you don’t buy tickets for them, u just get chosen either through social media or Taylor’s own mother will select you out of the crowd at one of her shows, and Caitlyn was chosen during one of the last songs of the show–if not the last, i cant remember exactly right now–by simply ignoring the 3D and circumstances and telling herself that she’d get chosen no matter what. she persisted and she was able to meet Taylor. this was Taylor Swift’s Reputation Tour where she played stadiums that held 100,000 people. that video blew my mind when i was 17 and still to this day Caitlyn talks about how she manifests concert tickets and trips and brand deals against all odds on the daily. so i’d really recommend her channel, her videos are a lot of fun!!

heyy, i wanted to share my manifesting routine in case anybody needs one or ppl wanna take inspo or manifesting methods ideas.

💋 i rampage self concept affirmations twice a day (morning and night, sometimes an extra in the evening if i begin to waver)

💋 i play subliminals while i get ready (i enjoy the music and i get affs saturating my subconscious so i can truly have it all)

💋 i daydream (not visualize with feelings or senses and all of that cuz idk how lol) esp while listening to music

💋 i take naps once or twice a day and meditate at least once a day and i use that time to just go ham with affirmations (no need to believe or feel them, i like to make them straightforward unlike my rampaging which sounds like i’m hyping up my homegirl)

💋 and lastly when i sleep 4 the night i just play my sleep affirmations tape and do the lullaby method (affirm in sats (no need to even be in sats ur gonna get there eventually as u affirm) until i fall asleep)

and boom i manifest my desires in a matter of days really, no more than a week or two (if there’s a delay or a transition or purge period in the 3d which is a limiting belief i’m working on getting rid of). just affirm and persist and live in ur imagination (the 4d) and the 3d will have to catch up duhhhh

nice routine!🫶🏽

LIL SHIFTING TALK: why there can be a formula.

There is no set way to shift, right? There's no formula, right? Wellllll in my opinion there kind of is.

If you intend to pick up your phone, you move your arm to pick up your phone, and that looks like this:

intention + movement = action

See that? How it's a nice, set outcome? Shifting is the same way:

Intention + method = shifting

Or even just:

Intention = shifting

If you intend to think about elephants, you're going to think about elephants. If you intend to shift, you will. Believe in that set, locked, it will happen type mindset. Tell yourself that if you do the smallest things, it will 100% end how you want. Don't overthink, don't panic, just go.

Hope that helps anyone struggling!! <3

I absolutely love writing scripts and seeing it play out in the 3D. I feel like a movie director / my own genie 🧞‍♀️🧞🧞‍♂️

Storm Witchcraft: Tools & Associations

Tools: Acorns, Ashes, Batteries, Bells, Besom, Black Ink, Bowls, Broken Tree Branches/Twigs, Cauldron, Charcoal, Clouds, Copper Wires, Cup, Drums, Drum Sticks, Fans, Fresh Air/Wind, God’s Eye, Lightning, Mud, Music, Plasma Ball Lamp, Puddle Water, Rain/Storm Sounds, Rainsticks, Rain Scented Candles/Things, Raindrops, Rattles, Scissors, Sea Salt, Sea Water, Smoke, Snow Water, Snowflakes, Speakers, Spoons, Staff, Steam, Storm Imagery and Videos, Storm Salt, String Instruments, Tambourine, Twine, Wand, Watercolors, Watering Can, Whistles, Wind Instruments, Windchimes, Witch’s Ladder, Yarn

Colors: Gray, Black, Purple, Blue, Yellow

Corresponds to: Strength, Power, Chaos, (Raw) Emotion, Anger, Rage, Freedom, Cleansing, Banishment, Self-Empowerment, Growth and Change

Crystals: Pietersite/Tempest Stone, Hemimorphite, Azurite, Malachite, Nebula Stone, Lapis Lazuli, Clear Quartz, Snowflake Obsidian, Banded Amethyst, Amethyst, Chrysocolla, Black Opal, Rainbow Obsidian, Sea Glass, Frosted Glass, Glass/Marbles

Metals: Copper, Aluminum, Platinum

Plants/Herbs: Alder, Broom, Cotton, Fern, Garlic, Heather, Henbane, Oak, Pansy, Rice, Wheat, Barley, Saffron, Wild Rice, Grass, Thistle, Willow, Any Air or Water Aligned Plants/Herbs

Animals: Hawk, Eagle, Snowy Owl, Frogs, Birds, Oxen, Butterfly (said to predict the weather), Sheep, Rams, Ladybugs (said to predict the weather), Dragons, Serpents, Horses

Elementals & Beasts/Creatures: Dragons, Thunder Bird, Cyclopse, Kitsune, Raiju, Valkyrie, Pegasus, Great Serpents/Giant Serpents, Harpies

Sense: Hearing, Touch

Body: Feet, Lungs, Heart, Ears

Storm Related Magick: Dance, Empowerment, Power, Curses, Hexes, Cleansing, Purification, Curse Removal, Sound, Music, Intimidation Glamours, Rain, Banishing, Snow, Confidence, Weather

“𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡, 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠
“𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡, 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠
“𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡, 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠

“𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡, 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫.”

‎༻.˓ ࣪˖ __༒__.。・—˚.❩𖤐❨⋆˚—・。.__༒__˖ ࣪˓.༺

.˓ ࣪˖ᱬ 𝐒𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐞𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬

.˓ ࣪˖ᱬ 𝐋𝐢𝐤𝐞 & 𝐫𝐞𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠

.˓ ࣪˖ᱬ 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 @ 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐨𝐬𝐯𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐮𝐬𝐞

Thinking About Myths
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Anyone who dismisses love cannot understand reality. This is true of all realities—physical reality and the reality of thought, but also especially the reality of the biosphere, the reality of bodies. No biological description is complete unless it is laid out as a biology of love. And conversely, we do not understand love if we fail to see that it is linked to the living world, to the experience of inhabiting a living body that trembles in joy and winces in pain. Love is a practice of enlivenment. The erotic is the genuine principle of life that permeates the world of bodies and life-forms.

Andreas Weber, Matter & Desire: An Erotic Ecology, trans. Rory Bradley

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