Should my body be making those sounds at 23? Probably not.
My body is a crumbling castle of sand and I don't know when the tide will roll in.
Memento Mori
You'd be crying either way.
got turned down for the job at the onion. turns out they write satire or something and don't need a guy to peel all the onions. crying my eyes out.
Romanticizing your own loneliness and turning it into a cool girl thing only works for like a few months and then it just becomes a throbbing black hole i think. Not that ive ever experienced anything like that
This is perfection- I'm gonna use this.
what nobody tells you about transition is the totality of it. once you dig into gender and start expressing the way you want, you'll start to find the marks of discomfort littered around the rest of your life. you'll notice how you were never living for yourself, just following the guidelines laid out for you.
as soon as you disengage that autopilot, you're on your own. you have to decide what is actually best for you. you have to question every decision you've ever made because they were all made by someone trying to play by the rules, rules whose application will kill you.
in the year-and-change since starting my transition, I have completely changed everything about my presentation, I changed how I talk, how I carry myself, how I interact with people. I changed the company I keep, I moved cities, I abandoned a career path I had been pursuing my entire life. I lost friends, made new ones, started engaging with types of media I had never been interested in before.
there's a life on the other side of transition, and you have to claw it back piece by piece. I will never stop transitioning into who I'm supposed to be because every time I get closer, I realize there's more I still need to change.
The Pacific Ocean is huge.
Reject reading social cues!! Embrace collecting personal intel via the mycorrhizal network that connect us all.
talking to trans girls is incredible because you'll be like yea ive had this chronic pain and disability for like my entire life and medical science cant explain it weird huh and she'll just be like oh yea that sounds like you have x, lots of people i know have that maybe look into it and you're just left sitting there like wtf how ????????
its always "pissing me off" and never "pooping me off". Now why is that?
it’s remarkable how much money you can save by not leaving the house and not eating and not moving
really enjoying all the videos Muslims have been posting of their cats looking like this
when the humans are up at 4 am for suhoor
23, witchy and pan, switchy and trans, sapphic with an achillean man 🏳️⚧️
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