There are several things you can to to incorporate money into your spell bowl! Money not only represents the obvious currency, but also the family, home, and security in life. Spells like this are more than selfish, greedy wishes, but often stem from a desire to build a future for something greater.
For this instance, I wrote āworking now to build a better future for usā as a reminder to let my family inspire me on the hard days!
Some examples of how to use paper bills in a money bowl other than an obvious donation are:
Laying the money loose
Writing intentions, spells, and sigils
Using different dollar values for different meanings
Since money exchanges so many hands and causes me a lot of anxiety, I did smoke cleanse the bill before doing anything else, clearing it of negative energies that do not need to spread or manifest further! Afterward, I wrote my intention/reminder, folded it up, and put it in!
Next time you have some extra cash and want to pay it forward, do so with the money bowl and watch it be rewarded back to you! šø
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Hereās some advice I had about sigils, a fun and accessible way to make your life more magical! There was a lot I wanted to say so I hope itās not too wordy.
- Divya Pinge, Nevilleās Students on FB
Elizabeth Olsen in Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness (2022)
So as yāall know I did the 3 days or less challenge along with my ROE technique. Well the 3 days are over and here are my results <3 (Iām feeling pink today)
į„«į” | MY CRUSH TO TALK TO ME MORE (less than 24h)
Little back story: We were always partners in Spanish class because of our seating chart. He was literally the finest boy I seen in a long time whewš®āšØ. Chocolate skin, tall, he wasnāt the best in basketball but his sexc lips made up for that. We had each others number incase we wanted to exchange work but never texted on some friends shit until Friday. He randomly just hmu saying āyoā & tried to act like he didnāt know who number he was hitting but nahhh boy you know what you doing lolllll. We ended up just joking and reminiscing about school moments & I told him Iām taking culinary class again next year and he said he want me to cook for him š it never gave personal chef but I damn sure said I would lmfao
My main affirmations:
āRegardless of everything SP always finds a way to talk to meā
āRegardless of everything SP is always communicating with meā
āRegardless of everything SP loves talking to meā
į„«į” | RESEMBLING MY DESIRED FACE (more everyday)
Iām not going to say who my desired face is since Iām basically gonna end up looking like her completely (but 10x better). But since I wanted to resemble her like 50%, I had an idea of how that was going to look and I look exactly like that now. She has doe eyes and my eyes got rounder, her chin is kinda sorta boxy and mines got more squared, my lips got got bigger and wider and my nose is more pointy. I also love the way her mouth moves when she talks and my mouth has been moving the same. Plus when I talk mostly my bottom teeth would show but now you can see more of my top teeth like hers. Iāve only been around family since school been out and none of them knows who my df is (sheās only has over 100k on TikTok) so Iām guessing thatās why nobody said I look like her but my sister definitely said every morning I look different.
My main affirmations:
āRegardless of everything I be looking like DFā
āRegardless of everything me and DF look alikeā
į„«į” | MY DAD GIVING ME MONEY OUT OF THE BLUE (2 days)
Iām going to visit New York and New Jersey in 2 weeks and what I look like spending my own money? My mom asked my dad to give me money for clothes, food, and just spending money but for some reason he acted like he didnāt want to. But, he ended up sending my mom 500 DOLLARS for me and said he might give me more when the trip comes closer. As you should mf. The hell.
My main affirmations:
āRegardless of everything my dad always gives me moneyā
āRegardless of everything I always receive money out of the blueā
į„«į” | RED VELVET CHEESECAKE (2 days)
Me and my sister was walking to Starbucks (and btw it was my first time having a drink from there! i got this drink i seen on Pinterest shit was so good i damn near chewed the cup). Anyways, otw there it was literally somebody selling cake pops. He has so many flavors but guess which one in particular he had⦠red motha fuckin velvet cheesecake!! My sister thought it was sus that some random man was selling cake pops so she wasnāt gonna get it at first but I KNEW it was my manifestation and that it was safe so I insisted. He actually gave us each one free (pretty privilege maybe š) but it was 100000/10 so we bought 4 more each lmfaooo.
funny side note: those cake pops been on my mind since i had them so i tried to make my own today and theyāre not doing so good lmfao. but hopefully the last step will bring it all together idkš
My main affirmations:
āRegardless of everything I always get red velvet cheesecakeā
āRegardless of everything I have red velvet cheesecake right nowā
į„«į” | LOSING 5LBS (3 days)
Thereās no story behind this one. I just lost weight lol. I mostly affirmed when I was eating. Before I was 133.?lbs and now Iām 126.2lbs. I didnāt check my weight until the 3rd day so idk which day it manifested exactly but that doesnāt matter fr.
My main affirmations:
āRegardless of everything I always lose weightā
āRegardless of everything I lost 5lbsā
āRegardless of everything food doesnāt make me gain weightā
To know oneself means to be oneself, to be master of oneself, to distinguish oneself, to free oneself from a state of chaos, to exist as an element of order but of one's own order and one's own discipline in striving for an ideal. And we cannot be successful in this unless we also know others, their history, the successive efforts they have made to be what they are . . . And we must learn all this without losing sight of the ultimate aim: to know oneself better through others and to know others better through oneself.
Antonio Gramsci, "Socialism and Culture", The Gramsci Reader: Selected Writings 1916ā1935, ed. David Forgacs
Success story
Hi, witchy! I remember asking you for advice a few times and I once promised to come back with a success story. In fact, many of my imaginal acts included me sharing my success on your tumblr. I'm glad I'm able to say they are no longer just "imaginal acts". I hope you like to read because I'm about to spill all the tea.
To give a bit of context, I had never been in a romantic relationship before and all of my knowledge was based on other people's experiences, social media, sad movies, and as you can guess, it was pretty toxic. I met my SP last year (2020), I manifested him without knowing. I literally created him in my mind, he was all I ever wanted in a partner, except he came a little bit earlier than I thought, haha. When I first started talking to him things were so magical, I honestly couldn't be more thankful. He was mature, kind, respectful, I was feeling a connection I had never felt with anyone before.
But my fairytale started it's conflictive part when the pandemic hit my country and we were quarantined. Even with the quarantine we were still talking and we were basically dating. Not officially, but the only thing missing were the tags. Unfortunately I may have shared a bit too much with some of my friends who then started to reflect my inner fears in regards to relationships. I started questioning my SP and wondering if all of this was real or just me falling into a fuckboy's trap. My friends kept fueling my fears and although I had no evidence of him being a fuckboy, I was definitely considering him to be one. Also at that time, an old trigger of mine resurfaced. Ghosting. I was so worried that because he couldn't see me in person, he was going to get bored of me and eventually ghost me... as the master manifestor I am, you can guess that I got exactly what I was persisting on. He ghosted.
I had been ghosted before, but this was the only time that I was actually hurt. I could feel the pain in my chest and couldn't hold my tears back. I even cried infront of my parents. I started receiving therapy and I wanted to give up on my SP, because I found out I was codependent, and he was "bad" for me. I was constantly watching videos on how to get over someone. I knew about subliminals and was using one to get over him. Here comes the fun part... thanks to subliminals youtube started suggesting me videos of the law of assumption. To be honest, the first manifestation coach I saw talking about EIYPO was Roxy Talks and when miss girl said that "anything others do is basically your own manifestation" I WAS OFFENDED. I wanted to sue Roxy, but another part of me was recalling my thoughts before my SP left, AND IT MATCHED. He did nothing out of the script. Everything he did, I had imagined. My wig was snatched, besties. Now I was both, sad and happy. Sad because I didn't know how to change that shit, happy because I didn't have to hate him. Out of everything, having to hating him was what hurt me the most. It was the same as with our pets, no matter what they do, we cannot hate them. I couldn't hate my SP because deep down in me, I genuinely believed he was a good person.
I was still not fully grasping this concepts tho, that's when witchysleepingbeauty comes into my story, and let me tell you, I WAS OFFENDED AGAIN. If you want tough love, witchy is your person. No bs allowed. I started doing exactly what she said. For the first time I was putting in the work.I have to be real honest, I didn't know what I was doing, it was not natural for me to think that everything works my way, and it made me feel weird at the beginning. I did some forgiveness meditations (Ho'opponopono specifically) to help me let go of the old story. I have to admit that it was until I was able to forgive myself and him, that things started to shift. I was no longer thinking about the past, and I was not thinking of him as a piece of ****. In new years, he came back for the first time, he texted me out of nowhere, and disappeared again. I was cool, I kept doing my shit. He then reached out a few other times but nothing consistent. Now this is when it got tough and I couldn't persist, I was bored and wanted to move on from him. I couldn't handle his inconsistency. I started talking to someone else and truly giving myself the chance to fall in love again, and try again with someone new. I was not even thinking about my SP during this time. I was all in for new beginnings, but I was not really feeling it.
This guy was cool, he was handsome, fun, but I was not into it. You could say he was basically an upgrade, even my friends liked him and told me I was finally getting someone better HAHAAA. I kept trying, but at some point I was just feeling like it was a loss of time (for both of us). So I decided to leave it there. I didn't go back to manifesting my SP tho, I started focusing solely on self concept. Enjoying being single, feeling like an actual goddess queen. Not needing anyone or anything in my life. I had a feeling while doing this, that my SP was going to come, it was natural, I was not forcing it. I was not even affirming for him. Like two weeks into this mindset and this bitch (my sp) texts me again out of fucking nowhere, joking like we never stopped talking, and this time it was consistent af. I hadn't even responded to his texts, when he was already answering back. I was taking hours to answer, and he kept answering me within seconds. He was acting all sweet, romantic and even asked me out on a date, haha!! I was hella nervous about the date, because we had never interacted in person. We had seen eachother but never interacted.
My first date with him was not perfect, I have to be honest about it, even the food was trash. It was a mess, but in hindsight it was cute because were just too nervous to be with eachother for the first time. Some great things I can recall from that date is that he was a gentleman, he even asked my parents for permission to take me out when he picked me up at my house. He admitted to be nervous about doing that, but the fact that he still did it makes my heart melt. No one had ever done that for me before, haha. After that one date, he started making more plans to hangout and showing so much interest in me. I have been feeling so good lately, and I just know that there is so much more for us to experience together. I'm glad I could find the law, and your amazing blog. You really helped me during this journey. I was watching so many videos, but it was until I found you that everything clicked for me. Everything started to make sense, and thanks to your tough love I was also able to leave the bs in the past.
*I did have undesirable circumstances once he was back, my only advice and the only thing there is to do, is to keep persisting. Be firm in your mindset. Most importantly, be happy, do what feels good. If at any point you don't feel like you're getting what you want, do not settle.
**Also this is living proof that circumstances do not matter, EVER. Trust me. I had so many circumstances that sometimes made me question if this relationship was even possible.
***Self concept did wonders for me and it's truly all I needed in my life to accomplish what I wanted. My biggest advice for people manifesting an SP (or anything really) is to focus on self concept, and start embodying the person that you desire to be. Usually when we are aiming for love, we tend to forget ourselves in the way, and focus mostly on the other person. Do not forget you should be your main priority all the time.
Iām jumping in to add some comments here guys:
First of all I loved reading your story, though it was on the longer side it was very exciting and I love the way you write!
Second, the part where you said you were offended had me crying š. Guys itās so important to take responsibility for the shitty things that happen to us because then we know we can create good things if we put our mind to it!
I am so happy to hear that I could help you! People donāt usually come back to share their success but itās honestly so nice when they do because it shows me Iām doing something right and Iām actually helping you guys!
Finally I know manifesting is a lonely journey a lot of times because most of us donāt share it with our friends or family. In case you didnāt have anyone tell you this: you did such an amazing job. I am very happy and proud of you. š
From now on youāll be able to find all success stories under the hashtag #success stories
Donāt be a robot while affirming. Youāre making a decision to experience something particular in life. Say it with conviction. Say it with authority.
To attract the best version of yourself, and to center yourself in preparation for future blessings.Ā
Anywhere between 45 minutes to 1 hour: depending on your preferred bathing time.Ā
This spell uses bay leaves, if you are allergic to any of the materials I encourage you to replace the materials with ones that represent the same meanings as the originals. Please do not place yourself in harmās way to complete this spell the way I have it written, the Craft is different to each of us, and should be explored in accordance with our own magic and not the magic of another.
2-3 Bay Leaves: representing protection, boosting, prophecy, purification, defense. In this spell representing seeing your future self, the self you desire to be currently.
Vanilla Scented Candle or Tea Light: representing healing, protection, harmony, unity. In this spell representing centering yourself to accept the changes ahead.
Fire/Flame:Ā representing empowerment, enlightenment, comfort, rebirth, inspiration, illumination, hearth and heart, manifestation. In this spell representing finding your shadow self where it is now in the darkness, and bringing it back into the light.
Quartz: representing clarity, cleansing, healing, purification, and inner peace, enhancement, amplification. In this spell representing protecting yourself from negative energies around you that may be blocking your aura from reaching itās full potential.
Bundle of Palo Santo/Sage: representing cleansing. In this spell being used to cleanse the energy of the water, as well as your own energy to prepare it to be reimbued with new purpose.
Run the bath to desired fullness and temperature. You should be able to at least submerge yourself mostly in the water, it is okay if you cannot fully submerge all parts of your body as most standard tub sizes are quite small.
Gather all your materials close to the bathtub with you, but do not yet get into the water. Once all your materials are gathered, disrobe before beginning the spell.Ā
This spell is incantation-based, and you will need to cast it with intentions in mind, as well as in order by incantation.Ā
Begin reciting the incantation all the way through without interruption, first in English, then again once more in Latin. Both versions are included below these steps.
When following the incantation the physical steps done in time with the recitation should be as followsā
- Crumple the bay leaves. Sprinkle them clockwise into the water of the bath. Do not stir it. If your drainage system is poor or if you are uncomfortable with bathing with the herbs later, feel free to simply place them in a sachet and stir the tub with the sachet before leaving it in the tub for the rest of the spell.
- Light the Palo Santo/Sage. Use the lit Palo Santo to first cleanse yourself. Everyone does cleansing a little differently in accordance with their practice, but if looking for inspiration: I cleanse by first running the lit bundle across my whole body and then drawing the sign of Lilith on my abdomen in smoke. Then proceed to cleanse the water by tracing the outline of the tub in a clockwise fashion as many times as feels best to you.
- Light the Vanilla Candle. Place the candle on the side of the tub where your head would rest, but do not enter the water yet.
- Pick up the Quartz and hold it in your dominant hand, place your closed fist over your heart, and begin stirring the tub clockwise with your non-dominant hand. Continue to stir the tub holding the quartz against yourself until you have fully finished reciting both the English and the Latin versions of the incantations.
- Once you have finished the reciting portion of the spell, step into and submerge yourself in the water, make sure to get every piece of your body covered even if not all at the same time. For example, splashing water up onto your arms and back, or laying down briefly to dip your head into the water. Leave the candle burning until it either burns down, or you are finished with your bath, in which case please gently snuff it out.
- When getting out of the bath, stand up, and before stepping out or beginning to drain the water, close out the spell.Ā You can do this in any way you please, so long as the meaning is the ending of your casting. Many people choose to say āamenā, āthank youā, or may also choose to praise a chosen god/goddess/spirit guide for closing a cast. I personally do not have a token deity in my practice, so I close my spells with the simple āSo Mote it Beā.
English Version:
In waterās mirror, I am found.
Floating as leaves towards my true self.
The smoke and scent draw me in,
To clean and steady my soul against the winds.
There I am amongst the ashes,
Safe & Sound in crystal crevices.
Latin Version:
In speculo aquarum invenior.
Flocci versus mei vero.
Fumus et odor trahunt me,
Ut emundare et stabilive contra ventos animam meam.
Ibi sum inter cineres,
Incolumis in crystallis cavernis.Ā
Listen ik you feel worried when you see undesired stuff in the 3d and in fact it can sometimes make you question yourself and the law. Its normal but we need to get rid of everything coming in between you and your manifestations. So lets just ignore that b!tch cause all she is doing is making YOU question YOUR POWER??? like hello?? read everything its really helpful (ć ̄ā½ļæ£)ć
"but how can i ignore 3d ?" ~~~Create a world and live in it~~~
Now ik its hard believing you already have something when you dont even see it with your own eyes, But if you really want it bad enough you have to do this. what i want you to do is create a world in your head where you have everything you want and live in that world ignore all the things the 3d shows you in this world (okay not all but the undesired stuff) , this is my favorite thing to do. ~~~Revise anything undesirable thing~~~
For example you see your sp with a 3d party and they are holding hands..um no you didn't like gurl they are crazily in love with you like they are in a committed relationship with you. They write poems about how they love you. you see your reflection in your phone and you nothing like your df? gurl what? like Pha-lease bestie you look exactly like your df like its scary how you guys look exactly like each other like god really said copy paste while making you two lmao you check your bank account and you have like 3 dollars? Um gurl who you tryna fool i see you go shopping everyday. You literally come home with gucci bags and shoes and a new car like its normal(of course it is to your rich a$$) There is nothing you cant buy like you the real MATERIAL GWORL!! (im sorry i had to )
~~~Focus on the fun part rather than the stressful one~~~ Focus on the fun part of your manifestation like instead of thinking how you dont have money to buy that car focus on how much fun it is to have the car of your dream like every time you go on a drive in it the air blows through your hair and it feels so good on your skin. Imagine you capturing pictures of your car and in front of it. Like experience the fun you want to experience after getting your desires and think from your desire not of it. make it as natural as possible. YOU GO GET THAT THING BESTAYY!! YOU GOT THIS!!