- Divya Pinge, Neville’s Students on FB
Success story
Hi, witchy! I remember asking you for advice a few times and I once promised to come back with a success story. In fact, many of my imaginal acts included me sharing my success on your tumblr. I'm glad I'm able to say they are no longer just "imaginal acts". I hope you like to read because I'm about to spill all the tea.
To give a bit of context, I had never been in a romantic relationship before and all of my knowledge was based on other people's experiences, social media, sad movies, and as you can guess, it was pretty toxic. I met my SP last year (2020), I manifested him without knowing. I literally created him in my mind, he was all I ever wanted in a partner, except he came a little bit earlier than I thought, haha. When I first started talking to him things were so magical, I honestly couldn't be more thankful. He was mature, kind, respectful, I was feeling a connection I had never felt with anyone before.
But my fairytale started it's conflictive part when the pandemic hit my country and we were quarantined. Even with the quarantine we were still talking and we were basically dating. Not officially, but the only thing missing were the tags. Unfortunately I may have shared a bit too much with some of my friends who then started to reflect my inner fears in regards to relationships. I started questioning my SP and wondering if all of this was real or just me falling into a fuckboy's trap. My friends kept fueling my fears and although I had no evidence of him being a fuckboy, I was definitely considering him to be one. Also at that time, an old trigger of mine resurfaced. Ghosting. I was so worried that because he couldn't see me in person, he was going to get bored of me and eventually ghost me... as the master manifestor I am, you can guess that I got exactly what I was persisting on. He ghosted.
I had been ghosted before, but this was the only time that I was actually hurt. I could feel the pain in my chest and couldn't hold my tears back. I even cried infront of my parents. I started receiving therapy and I wanted to give up on my SP, because I found out I was codependent, and he was "bad" for me. I was constantly watching videos on how to get over someone. I knew about subliminals and was using one to get over him. Here comes the fun part... thanks to subliminals youtube started suggesting me videos of the law of assumption. To be honest, the first manifestation coach I saw talking about EIYPO was Roxy Talks and when miss girl said that "anything others do is basically your own manifestation" I WAS OFFENDED. I wanted to sue Roxy, but another part of me was recalling my thoughts before my SP left, AND IT MATCHED. He did nothing out of the script. Everything he did, I had imagined. My wig was snatched, besties. Now I was both, sad and happy. Sad because I didn't know how to change that shit, happy because I didn't have to hate him. Out of everything, having to hating him was what hurt me the most. It was the same as with our pets, no matter what they do, we cannot hate them. I couldn't hate my SP because deep down in me, I genuinely believed he was a good person.
I was still not fully grasping this concepts tho, that's when witchysleepingbeauty comes into my story, and let me tell you, I WAS OFFENDED AGAIN. If you want tough love, witchy is your person. No bs allowed. I started doing exactly what she said. For the first time I was putting in the work.I have to be real honest, I didn't know what I was doing, it was not natural for me to think that everything works my way, and it made me feel weird at the beginning. I did some forgiveness meditations (Ho'opponopono specifically) to help me let go of the old story. I have to admit that it was until I was able to forgive myself and him, that things started to shift. I was no longer thinking about the past, and I was not thinking of him as a piece of ****. In new years, he came back for the first time, he texted me out of nowhere, and disappeared again. I was cool, I kept doing my shit. He then reached out a few other times but nothing consistent. Now this is when it got tough and I couldn't persist, I was bored and wanted to move on from him. I couldn't handle his inconsistency. I started talking to someone else and truly giving myself the chance to fall in love again, and try again with someone new. I was not even thinking about my SP during this time. I was all in for new beginnings, but I was not really feeling it.
This guy was cool, he was handsome, fun, but I was not into it. You could say he was basically an upgrade, even my friends liked him and told me I was finally getting someone better HAHAAA. I kept trying, but at some point I was just feeling like it was a loss of time (for both of us). So I decided to leave it there. I didn't go back to manifesting my SP tho, I started focusing solely on self concept. Enjoying being single, feeling like an actual goddess queen. Not needing anyone or anything in my life. I had a feeling while doing this, that my SP was going to come, it was natural, I was not forcing it. I was not even affirming for him. Like two weeks into this mindset and this bitch (my sp) texts me again out of fucking nowhere, joking like we never stopped talking, and this time it was consistent af. I hadn't even responded to his texts, when he was already answering back. I was taking hours to answer, and he kept answering me within seconds. He was acting all sweet, romantic and even asked me out on a date, haha!! I was hella nervous about the date, because we had never interacted in person. We had seen eachother but never interacted.
My first date with him was not perfect, I have to be honest about it, even the food was trash. It was a mess, but in hindsight it was cute because were just too nervous to be with eachother for the first time. Some great things I can recall from that date is that he was a gentleman, he even asked my parents for permission to take me out when he picked me up at my house. He admitted to be nervous about doing that, but the fact that he still did it makes my heart melt. No one had ever done that for me before, haha. After that one date, he started making more plans to hangout and showing so much interest in me. I have been feeling so good lately, and I just know that there is so much more for us to experience together. I'm glad I could find the law, and your amazing blog. You really helped me during this journey. I was watching so many videos, but it was until I found you that everything clicked for me. Everything started to make sense, and thanks to your tough love I was also able to leave the bs in the past.
*I did have undesirable circumstances once he was back, my only advice and the only thing there is to do, is to keep persisting. Be firm in your mindset. Most importantly, be happy, do what feels good. If at any point you don't feel like you're getting what you want, do not settle.
**Also this is living proof that circumstances do not matter, EVER. Trust me. I had so many circumstances that sometimes made me question if this relationship was even possible.
***Self concept did wonders for me and it's truly all I needed in my life to accomplish what I wanted. My biggest advice for people manifesting an SP (or anything really) is to focus on self concept, and start embodying the person that you desire to be. Usually when we are aiming for love, we tend to forget ourselves in the way, and focus mostly on the other person. Do not forget you should be your main priority all the time.
I’m jumping in to add some comments here guys:
First of all I loved reading your story, though it was on the longer side it was very exciting and I love the way you write!
Second, the part where you said you were offended had me crying 😂. Guys it’s so important to take responsibility for the shitty things that happen to us because then we know we can create good things if we put our mind to it!
I am so happy to hear that I could help you! People don’t usually come back to share their success but it’s honestly so nice when they do because it shows me I’m doing something right and I’m actually helping you guys!
Finally I know manifesting is a lonely journey a lot of times because most of us don’t share it with our friends or family. In case you didn’t have anyone tell you this: you did such an amazing job. I am very happy and proud of you. 💖
From now on you’ll be able to find all success stories under the hashtag #success stories
━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [⁺🎙️✧] 𝐃𝐄𝐀𝐑 𝐃𝐈𝐀𝐑𝐘 :: 𝐃𝐎 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐓𝐑𝐘, 𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐄𝐗𝐏𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄.
If you follow the ideology of ‘Creation is Finished’, you realize that there is nothing you can do but one thing. You cannot manifest, you cannot shift – because it has already been done for you. Manifesting shouldn’t be your goal because you’ve already manifested it. Shifting shouldn’t be your goal because you’ve already shifted. The wish fulfilled has already occurred.
Therefore, remove the try. All you can do is experience, so make that your goal. Surrender and commit to your inner world by experiencing what the inner man experiences. THERE IS NO MANIFESTATION, only experience.
TLDR :: stop trying to manifest anything, just go into your imagination and experience it however you want. view it as your present, factual reality for the you inside is the REAL you.
If you desire a flight to some dream vacation; Aruba, Dubai, Bora Bora – wherever you like – go into your imagination and experience the state of that flight. What are you thinking, what are you doing and feeling? Live vicariously and fearlessly in the mental act. After that, the action is done. Leave everything alone and stay in the state by reminding yourself that you have indeed experienced this.
— inspired by EDWARD ART.
Scarlet Witch by Adam Hughes
I have a success story 💗 I have a couple of them. FYI, I decided to really take manifesting "seriously". I used to listen to subliminals and just hoped that I would get results. That way doesn't work for me. I have to actually put in the work. I don't know how living in the end works completely, but all I do is do the things that I would do as my desired self, it that makes any sense.
1) Productivity. I'm a freshmen (I'm 14) in High school and I'm taking all honors courses, so things were getting a bit difficult for me at the time. But now, I complete assignments with ease and my homework gets completed with full marks by the end of the school day.
2) Self confidence and phenomenal mental health. In the beginning, my mental health was shitty. I would compare myself to anyone. I would belittle myself, I would tell myself I was worthless and it showed. I expressed so much self-hate that it would effect my friends. People didn't like me/ want to be around me because of that. My grades dropped and my first quarter of school I earned straight F's (I say earned because I didn't put any work in.) My confidence is through the roof. My grades are at the highest they've ever been (straight A's). Other people's insults don't bother me and I find comfort with myself. I don't feel the need to be surrounded by people to feel happy. I accepted myself. I'm transgender, I go by he/him pronouns and my name is Everest. Yes, like the mountain. I thought it was a pretty name. I had a shit-ton of internalized transphobia towards myself and I was jealous of other trans people because I wasn't in their shoes. I hated myself because I'm not the "typical" transmale. I don't want to go on testosterone and I love feminine clothing. It's something that I don't want to change and I felt like I was faking being trans because of it. But the truth is, there is no checklist to check off when it comes to being trans. I accepted myself and I realized I can't be anyone else but my best self.
yesss im so happy for u, these r great successes! im also really glad that you had all of these realizations about how valid you and your identity are, especially at such a young age :) you can only go up from here! what do u plan on manifesting next? :)
. . . reality is determined by the erotic—by the longing for a practice of being meaningfully moved in our embodied existences.
Andreas Weber, Matter & Desire: An Erotic Ecology, trans. Rory Bradley
a success story ! ✧
• what did i manifest?
↳ exams being cancelled and postponed to my desired date!
• how many days did it took?
↳ less than 12 hours.
• what method did i use?
↳ i'll give a detailed insight into this.
the method i used was knowing! so there was this notice released by our council (it's like a national level board that conducts exam for students of grade 10th and 12th and many school are affiliated by this, it's okay if you don't understand this 🤡) which stated that schools are advised to take prelims at the end of march. you see, our school is like, so stubborn, all my classmates knew they won't budge a little and take our exams on the date they have announced. but i just KNEW that they're gonna postpone our exam + take our classes offline cus i love staying away from my home 😋 and they did lmao. and the thing is i didn't even affirmed/visualized, i KNEW that they're gonna cancel it. i had some doubts because our exams were literally starting in 2 days but eventually, they cancelled it on such a short notice! coincidence? i think not.
even though i had some doubts, i didn't cared about it. i believed i am the one in control and nothing can ever go wrong for me. i believed in myself, that's exactly what you also have to do! believe in your power. you're the god. what are you so afraid of? doubts? negativity? failure? if yes, then let me tell you all none of these stuffs matter. because you're literally the omnipotent creator of your reality. you've created everything, whatever you perceive is your creation. nothing is too big for you. your imagination is so powerful like you can manifest anything you desire just by the thought of it. look at me? all i did was KNOW, that's it. i didn't cared about the doubts even though they were flooding my brain. you need to not give a fuck about all those negativity!
SO, THE MAIN TAKEAWAYS ARE :
1. work on self concept to acknowledge your power.
2. remember negativity/doubts/circumstance don't matter, because you're bigger than all of then combined.
3. you don't need methods, just KNOW!
this is short but i hope i conveyed what i wanted to! if you guys have any queries, drop it in my asks!
Don’t be a robot while affirming. You’re making a decision to experience something particular in life. Say it with conviction. Say it with authority.
The Nano-Mind Technique
Infoglut - static information; Infobahn - moving information; Infonesia - forgetting information
Information (sigils; words; thoughtforms) may be used to project information outside of one’s Head for another Head to notice. Maybe that other Head will take enough notice to reproduce a similar Idea.
Information magic, at first, is not meant to control but to introduce a concept for possible results. Art is a beautiful way to spread Ideas.
INVEST IN YOURSELF. become the person you’ve always dreamed of, refocus your time and energy on the things that you really want, fill your mind with positive beautiful thoughts and watch those thoughts flourish into your reality. change your thoughts and you will change your reality