just keep finding your strengths. that’s really all you have to do. the things you are good at. the things other people compliment you on. the things that feel natural and easy. we are so trained to see the negatives, to trip ourselves over on everything we are not so that we never see our true gifts… but once you learn to see your strengths as your beacon, the answer to what you should “do” with your life, and then keep following following following… oh, oh! that’s when it all happens.
My fridge is filled with champagne, organic produce, green tea, and leftovers from upscale restaurants.
My shelves are filled with sensual perfumes, expensive skincare, and books on strategy, theory, and psychology.
My closet is filled with designer clothes, luxurious handbags and luggage, and sumptuous lingerie.
My bank account is filled with enough money for all my needs and desires.
My head is filled with goals, ambitions, and dreams for the future.
how to validate yourself without needing others
mastering self-respect, detachment and security
lack of discipline makes you ugly
saving your brain from over stimulation
how to self- learn things
signs you are self regulating through future fantasies
you have more degrees of freedom than you think
you can completely reinvent yourself in well under a year with sufficient commitment
you probably make at least one decision every day which will meaningfully alter the path you’re on if you change it
this is terrifying but it’s also maybe the best thing about being alive
as long as you’re breathing, there’s a chance
Keep going baby 💗
that constant nagging of ambition and fear of stagnancy literally rules my life. sometimes it paralyzes me and i end up barely doing anything for the day and sometimes it energizes me. the need to get better, the need to improve skills, and the need to reinvent myself. it still shocks me that the average person doesn’t feel this ache to BECOME. to evolve. to flourish. to kickstart a metamorphosis every month. hell, maybe every week. like who am i without gutting my wardrobe or deciding a new career path? idk. but at least I’m another skill smarter, another look hotter, and another business wealthier. better than nothing at all.
dedicate life to something bigger than yourself. find your philosophy and embody that. remain on the path by upkeeping discipline. outside influences can lead you astray and trip you up but it's really you. YOU are the difference between stumbling and getting up versus continuously stumbling and remaining flat on your face. YOU have to order your steps and remember how to navigate life again. so you might as well find a "why" in life so you have a reason to keep going. big or small, just find something to hold onto while you're rebuilding that trust to keep going.
I’ll never understand people who tell everyone ALL of their business and then get shocked when people become so invasive. STOP TELLING PEOPLE YOUR BUSINESS AND SHUT UP! Literally, people need to understand the power of privacy and not telling every single person your next move.
Vintage workout vision board
We'll live long and we'll live well!
be in the present and notice those little things you never saw before, but that have always been there
experience new exciting things that bring you joy
love people, listen to them and create meaningful connections
make art and don’t label it as “good” or “bad,” just let your soul be free
stop scrolling on social media and start turning pages of an interesting book
do mindfulness meditation and feel your body and mind calming down
move your body, no matter how as long as you’re enjoying
listen to music that matches the moment you’re in
eat nourishing food, feel your stomach full without discomfort
get a good night of sleep and feel yourself ready for another day