Happy Spring to the truest thing that’s ever been said about Spring
MY GOD WHAT HAVE I FOUND XD
I'm not sorry for having you know this exists XD
Start each day by making your bed—instant productivity boost.
Plan your week with a pastel-colored planner or digital aesthetic template.
Set monthly intentions instead of overwhelming resolutions.
Learn a new skill every quarter, like calligraphy or coding.
Invest in quality over quantity (this applies to friends and shoes).
Schedule your “glow-up” days—DIY spa treatments, anyone?
Create a “success playlist” for studying or working out.
Listen to podcasts during commutes (multitasking = efficiency).
Take aesthetic notes using color-coded pens and highlighters.
Start a “things I love” gratitude list.
Implement a digital detox every Sunday.
Read at least one self-help book per month (hello, Atomic Habits).
Wake up 15 minutes earlier to avoid rushing.
Commit to a skincare morning and nighttime routine.
Learn to say “no” to protect your peace.
Create a morning mantra and repeat it every day.
Try monthly challenges (like daily journaling or yoga).
Write down your goals and review them weekly.
Spend time in nature to reset your mindset.
Journal about your dream life and take actionable steps.
Break down big goals into tiny, manageable tasks.
Surround yourself with inspiring people or creators.
Organize your phone with aesthetic folders and wallpapers.
Romanticize drinking water with chic glasses or infused flavors.
Reward yourself for small wins—progress deserves celebration.
Remember that you don't have to be drained of all your energy to finally rest. You don't have to be overwhelmed, exhausted, incapacitated or sick to finally take a break. You don't have to wait until you get worse and burn out to finally feel like you earned rest. Rest is not earned by being productive and overworking. It is a human right. It is a human need. You deserve to rest.
“You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment. Fools stand on their island of opportunities and look toward another land. There is no other land; there is no other life but this.”
— Henry David Thoreau
It’s okay if your trauma didn’t make you kind.
It’s okay if your trauma didn’t make you what society deems a “good” survivor.
It’s okay if it didn’t make you a “better” person.
It’s okay if it made you hard.
It’s okay if it made you an angry person.
You fucking survived. And no one has the right to tell you how you should be.
accomplishments of the day: still alive, went to therapy, had lunch, got some reading done, had dinner
Clarify Your Priorities: Identify what truly matters to you. Is it travel, a peaceful home, pursuing a passion, or more time with loved ones?
Set Realistic Goals: Break your dream into achievable milestones. This helps make the process feel manageable and less overwhelming.
Prioritize meaningful experiences over material possessions. For example, a picnic with friends can be as fulfilling as dining at an expensive restaurant.
Look for free or low-cost activities in your area, such as community events, nature trails, or local museums.
Track Your Expenses: Use budgeting apps or spreadsheets to understand where your money goes and identify areas for savings.
Cut Unnecessary Costs: Reduce spending on non-essential items, such as subscription services you don’t use or frequent takeout meals.
Save Smartly: Allocate a portion of your income, no matter how small, to a "dream fund" for your long-term goals.
Learn for Free: Use free online resources like YouTube, Coursera, or local libraries to develop skills or hobbies that align with your dream life.
Barter or Trade Skills: Exchange your expertise for goods or services. For instance, offer graphic design in exchange for language lessons.
Repurpose and Reuse: Upcycle old furniture, clothes, or decor to create a refreshed living space without spending much.
Enjoy Simple Pleasures: Appreciate small joys like reading a book, journaling, cooking, or spending time outdoors.
Take advantage of budget-friendly travel options like camping, house-sitting, or volunteering abroad (e.g., WWOOF or Workaway).
Use travel rewards or discounts to save on flights and accommodations.
Surround yourself with supportive people who share your values and inspire you.
Join communities (in-person or online) that focus on minimalism, frugal living, or achieving dreams on a budget.
Embrace Gratitude: Celebrate small wins and recognize the progress you’ve made toward your dream life.
Adapt Your Vision: Understand that your dream life may evolve over time, and that’s okay. Be open to new opportunities and adjustments.
A Creative Lifestyle: Pursue writing, painting, or photography with inexpensive tools and platforms to share your work.
An Adventurous Life: Explore local attractions, hike nearby trails, or road trip on a budget.
A Peaceful Home: Create a cozy, welcoming space using thrifted decor and DIY projects.
Pursuing Personal Growth: Dive into free or affordable online courses, read self-improvement books, or attend community workshops.
Your dream life isn’t about how much money you have—it’s about how you use your resources to align with your values and aspirations. With intention and creativity, even modest means can lead to extraordinary fulfillment.