Start each day by making your bed—instant productivity boost.
Plan your week with a pastel-colored planner or digital aesthetic template.
Set monthly intentions instead of overwhelming resolutions.
Learn a new skill every quarter, like calligraphy or coding.
Invest in quality over quantity (this applies to friends and shoes).
Schedule your “glow-up” days—DIY spa treatments, anyone?
Create a “success playlist” for studying or working out.
Listen to podcasts during commutes (multitasking = efficiency).
Take aesthetic notes using color-coded pens and highlighters.
Start a “things I love” gratitude list.
Implement a digital detox every Sunday.
Read at least one self-help book per month (hello, Atomic Habits).
Wake up 15 minutes earlier to avoid rushing.
Commit to a skincare morning and nighttime routine.
Learn to say “no” to protect your peace.
Create a morning mantra and repeat it every day.
Try monthly challenges (like daily journaling or yoga).
Write down your goals and review them weekly.
Spend time in nature to reset your mindset.
Journal about your dream life and take actionable steps.
Break down big goals into tiny, manageable tasks.
Surround yourself with inspiring people or creators.
Organize your phone with aesthetic folders and wallpapers.
Romanticize drinking water with chic glasses or infused flavors.
Reward yourself for small wins—progress deserves celebration.
I just want to remind you that sometimes your life really doesn't begin until you are 26+... Romanticizing and obsessing over our youth is harmful. Growing up is beautiful. Discovering who you are and how you interact with the world is a gift. Maturing and learning what you truly want out of life and living in that purpose brings fulfillment and peace. Your life is not over in your early 20's because you haven't figured it out yet, it's just beginning.
hey.
if you happen to be reading this, i just wanted to say some things coming from someone who knows what it’s like to fall asleep in tears.
you are not a burden or a mistake or a problem. you are a person with feelings and talents and potential. you deserve happiness even when you feel you don’t, and you deserve a future even when you’re stuck in your past.
life isn’t all about finding the one or succeeding perfectly. life is about finding your happiness and wellbeing in a world that gives you chaos. in that chaos you might cry yourself to sleep, might stay in bed for a day only getting up to use the bathroom, might mean shutting out the world out of frustration, might mean saying “fine. bye.” when you really just want them to stay. but you have tomorrow. and i hope tomorrow brings you at least one, real, beautiful smile.
you’ve got this. you’ve got a good heart. don’t forget that. even when all you can hear is reasons to give up on yourself, don’t. you have got this.
the secret to life is always having something to look forward to
This is your sign to let go of what’s not working. 🦋
MY GOD WHAT HAVE I FOUND XD
I'm not sorry for having you know this exists XD
Shoutout to all those people that have jobs like cleaning the bathrooms in rest areas or gas stations, to the people that take out the trash and wash dishes in restaurants, school janitors, house maids. You’re doing jobs that don’t get much recognition but are some of the toughest. stay awesome
“Don’t be the reason someone feels insecure. Be the reason someone feels seen, heard and supported.”
— Cleo Wade
INSTAGRAM | YOUTUBE