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This whole girlboss "divine feminine" emotionless cold femme fatale shit is getting old bruh. You need to focus on healing. The suppression, the toxic positivity, the lack of nuance. Making people feel like their sensitivities and triggers are flaws they need to fix and not things they should be nurturing. These weird ass "how to" posts about achieving x,y,z aesthetic girlboss whatever the fuck energy that have no focus on authenticity. People scrolling this app reading this shit trying to emulate something that might not even be for them. Take it as an inspiration, that's not what you need to become. Why the fuck do people act like healing and divinity is one size fits all. Be authentic, you don't need to have other people spoonfeeding you instructions on how to be you.

Build yourself a sustainable routine for 2024

you don’t have to schedule all your habits for everyday. Some habits can be for twice a week or thrice a week. If you can’t read 10 pages everyday, don’t fret. Try to read 1 chapter a week. Then slowly progress to 2.

do not be intimidated by accounts like mine. I post a lot of tips but I follow only the ones I know work for me, even if those tips are great. I share a lot so that different people can make use of them. Just because tip A works better for me than tip B, doesn’t mean that tip B is useless. Someone else could find B more useful than A.

How do you know you’re building a sustainable routine?

here are some indicators:

⭐️ the habits are “portable” for the most part - you do not need to be in specific places to execute them (you can read anywhere, you can workout in any hotel, etc).

⭐️ you’re able to follow all your habits at least 80% of the time in a month. Which means out of 30 days, for 24 days you are able to follow your habits. ⭐️ they don’t stress you out. It doesn’t make sense to procrastinate over your habits. The point of the habits is to reduce procrastination and improve yourself. If you’re stressing over it, go back to square one and start small.

⭐️ you are able to see that you’re improving. Maybe you’re feeling more confident, self assured and resilient. Whatever your end goal, it is important to understand that you won’t go from being, for example, under confident to confident overnight. It will happen gradually. Noticing your progress and complimenting yourself for the gradual change is important because then you’re validating yourself for the healthy changes you make. When you validate yourself as opposed to someone else validating you, you are acknowledging the hard work you have put in- this increases your motivation to do even better and to stay disciplined.

⭐️ over time, the habits come to you naturally. Let’s say meditating. You become so used to meditating that not doing it is like not brushing your teeth in the morning. It becomes a part of you and you accept and embrace it instead of dreading it.

⭐️ yes, you will have tough days. You will have days where you want to give up. It is important to schedule at least 2 mental health days a month for yourself where you can choose to do absolutely nothing and just relax. You are human, not a machine. Sometimes you need to push through those tough days and get things done anyway. There is a balance between resting and working hard.

⭐️ you eventually do not feel guilt or shame for prioritising yourself and your routine first. This is the most important indicator. You do not put any boy, friend, anyone (unless it’s an emergency of course) above you. You know you are your most important person.

Hey! I’m opia. I’m a tarot reader and astrologer. This is a tarot and astrology blog for all my moody, complicated, unique, plutonian and uranian people. I cover most topics, but particularly the taboo, sexual, fun, wild, intense topics. So if you’re not comfortable reading explicit/unfiltered stuff, then this is definitely not the page you should be on. I want us all, to embrace the darker aspects of ourselves society wants us to shy away from. I’m blunt. This doesn’t mean i’m rude, but i like my readings/astrology posts to be completely transparent, so be prepared for unfiltered messages. I’m not always going to tell you what you want to hear. So don’t get a reading/ read my posts, if you aren’t prepared for honesty. I feel like to really connect with all of you, openness is important. So don’t be shy about anything. If my reading style can be improved let me know. If you don’t like something i say let me know. I like honest feedback. I don’t sugar coat and i don’t want you to either. I appreciate all of you so much!

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Little things I've done as a witch who's still in school!

♡ Putting sigils EVERYWHERE. And by everywhere, I mean in my books and notebooks, inside of pens, and hidden in my calculator. I've found that using sigils helps me with my studies.

♡ Lighting a white candle and burning some incense before stressful events (exams, competitions, etc.) to calm me down and help with focus.

♡ Wearing enchanted jewellery to help with how people view me and also to help with my confidence!

♡ Since I can't wear polish on my finger nails, I put nail polish on my toes with colours that correspond with my intention!

♡ Attaching a protective charm on my bag!

♡ A 3-5 minute meditation either before leaving or after coming home from school.

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