LGBTQ+ People In Every Way, Don't Owe You Jackshit.

And in these next 50 years you will eat so many delicious meals, laugh so many times with so many people you love, shout and scream and sing and cry and smile so hard your face hurts. And you will see such beautiful sunsets and feel fresh cold air on your face and feel warm and safe wrapped up in your favourite winter coat.

If you're into sissy stuff, more power to you. There is nothing inherently wrong with it, and it has its own place in the kink community.

However.

If you directly compare having a sissy kink to being transfem, you're hurting a whole lot of people.

I'm a woman.

I go to work as a woman.

I have dinner as a woman.

I file my taxes as a woman.

I drive to doctors appointments as a woman.

I have sex as a woman.

Nothing about what I do is for pretend or for guilt-induced pleasure.

When sissy porn blogs like and reblog my pictures, I am directly compared to people who have a kink for being forced into feminization as a man, typically by other men.

Do you understand how invalidating that is?

I don't belong in that space. By putting me there, you are saying that I am just a hyper-feminised man, which I am NOT.

If you want to support the trans community AND have a sissy kink, don't fucking reblog my shit onto your sissy porn blog.

We don't belong there.

Me when hateful person

Fact #1017: It's ok if you're out online but not irl.

I'm reverse Sissy puss someone tied me up to a boulder sent it tumbling down and I've been falling downward ever since

Sommie reminds you to be kind to yourself

the thing about working in childcare these days is that I'm blown away by how open minded and genuinely curious these kids are. there are multiple openly queer kids, who are aware of the intricacy of the queer community and the multi-faceted nature of queer identity.

none of that was around 10 or 20 years ago. queerness wasn't even necessarily taboo during my childhood experiences, it just,,, wasn't taught or talked about, even from one child to another. I just didn't know it was a thing. but these little kids know about intersectionality!!!

and then when I was in high school, kids used 'gay' as an insult, but these kids at my job don't even blink differently when I told them the little queer flag pin on my messenger bag was the aroace flag. some of them ask what it means, because perhaps they've only heard of gay lesbian and trans. (and they've heard of gay lesbian and trans!!!!) I explain my flag and what it means, and it makes sense to them. that would have been alien for me as a ten year old.

some of these little lesbian girls and aroace and bisexual boys, the pan, poly, demigirl and nonbinary little ten year olds are the best friends that little me needed.

it's refreshing and heartwarming to see that the young ones of today are the kind of people this world needs.

PROTECT QUEER KIDS!!!! EMPOWER QUEER KIDS!!!!

Wait is that the actual actor of the inigo montoya guy?

im like if there was someone who never knew what was happening or going on