And In These Next 50 Years You Will Eat So Many Delicious Meals, Laugh So Many Times With So Many People

Man I hate posts about the Neurodivergent Experience that try to universalize it in opposition to the Neurotypical Experience. I just saw a post about how "neurodivergent people don't perceive early signs of hunger and neurotypical people do which is why neurodivergent people forget to eat" and a bunch of people in the comments like "whoamygod makes so much sense" but like, I am able to detect hunger at its early stages. I do forget to eat when I'm manic but that's because I'm distracted and don't notice it, not because I'm not able to perceive it if I think about it. Anyway the Neurodivergent Experience is not universal and one size fits all so stop saying stuff like "the Neurodivergent Experience is __" it can be annoying especially to people like me who have been told they're faking it their whole lives. Even something like "a lot of neurodivergent people have this" can go a long way to being inclusive.

Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny

Transgender men don't owe you masculinity

Transgender women don't owe you feminity

Transgender people don't owe you gender-aligning pronouns

Genderqueer people don't owe you gender fuckery

Genderfucks don't owe you a 'weirdcore gender'

Xenogenders don't owe you perfect explanations

Genderfluid people don't owe you just one gender

Gay men don't owe you a 'James Charles personality'

Lesbians don't owe you acceptance of your catcalls

Bisexuals don't owe you the denial of their legitimacy

Pansexuals don't owe you to identify as anything other than what they want

Pomosexuals don't owe you a label

Spectrumsensuals don't owe you acknowledgement

Abrosexuals don't owe you just one sexuality

Sapphics don't owe you their history

Androsexuals don't owe you to 'just be gay/straight'

Gynosexuals don't owe you to 'just be lesbian/straight'

Asexuals don't owe you to 'grow out of it'

Aromantics don't owe you affection

Skoliosexuals don't owe you acceptance of your harassment

The legitimate definition for dreamsexual doesn't owe you to be silenced by the weirdo who made the cringe definition

Aegosexuals don't owe you their fine line

Polyamorous people don't owe you how their relationship works

Ambiamorous people don't owe you any excuses

Maveriques don't owe you 'just being nonbinary'

Agender people don't owe you a gender

Paragender people don't owe you a binary gender

Demigender people don't owe you anything but themselves

LGBTQ+ people in every way, don't owe you jackshit.

Chungking Express (1994) dir. Wong Kar-wai

"The trannies should be able to piss in whatever toilet they want and change their bodies however they want. Why is it my business if some chick has a dick or a guy has a pie? I'm not a trannie or a fag so I don't care, just give 'em the medicine they need."

"This is an LGBT safe space. Of COURSE I fully support individuals who identify as transgender and their right to self-determination! I just think that transitioning is a very serious choice and should be heavily regulated. And there could be a lot of harm in exposing cis children to such topics, so we should be really careful about when it is appropriate to mention trans issues or have too much trans visibility."

One of the above statements is Problematic and the other is slightly annoying. If we disagree on which is which then working together for a better future is going to get really fucking difficult.

fun fact: basically every mod on r/legaladvice is a cop. if you see a bunch of comments in a row that have been deleted for “offering bad advice”, you can replace “reddit” in the url with “ceddit” to see the same page with all the deleted comments still there, and roughly half the time the “"bad advice”“ is literally anything that suggests that maybe OP shouldn’t trust the cops

i'm at a concert thingy and the bands don't start for another 2 hours, but they have the stage set up and are letting people come up and do karaoke. this family just went up w their kids to belt out cartoon songs and when they held the mic up for the baby to try, it babbled cutely for a sec and then grabbed on and unleashed one of those horrible piercing baby SCREAMS at the top of their little baby lungs and i'm pretty sure wiped out the first 3 rows of people lmao

waters so amazing because you can drink it really sloppy style and like spill it all over yourself and it doesnt even leave a stain. you dont even have to wash it out/ . because its already washed

Me after not doing the bare minimum for the day

REAL??!?!!