| 𝐥𝐮𝐜𝐤 , 𝐫𝐞𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐬 |

My guide to˚⊹.⋆𝄞⨾𓍢ִ໋. romanticising life ⋆.ೃ࿔*

Life is truly the most important gift of all and I feel like too many people don't actually take it seriously enough or are just afraid of what anybody else might say if they choose to live the way they have always wanted to. Wasting the only opportunity to cherish this gift of life that we have been blessed with is the worst thing you could ever do for yourself. Imagine yourself 40 years from now, regretting that you wasted your teenage and adulthood years worrying about your looks, not enjoying good food, not taking care of yourself or being too careful of your budget and never getting the things you truly wanted. That's surely NOT how I'd like to spend my old age, and my ultimate goal is to think back and be happy that I lived my life exactly the way I wanted!

Romanticising life is all about turning every. little. moment. into something that makes YOU happy, no matter what society might think about it. It's a form of self expression that I fondly believe can help you become happy and at peace with your own self.

Here are some ways to romanticise your life:

ׂ╰┈➤ Stop consuming harmful media. Tiktok, for example, is such a bad place for your mental health and is constantly ruining your attention span and productivity, image of self but, most importantly, your HEALTH AND BEAUTY STANDARDS. It is also one of the causes of many mental health problems such as depression, eds, self h@rming or negative addictions, so try and avoid harmful social media as much as possible.

ׂ╰┈➤ Establish a morning and night routine. I promise this will make you feel so productive and in control of your life. Nothing fancy is necessary, just basic hygiene and skincare, having breakfast, maybe reading or journaling to wind down at night.

ׂ╰┈➤ Consistently work out. "Well Lynna how am I supposed to work out if you said to enjoy life??" Enjoying does not mean that you shouldn't take care of your body too. Find what works best for you and what makes you happy, don't jump into the youtube advanced workouts and then complain that you hate moving your body. Yoga and walks are such a good place to start, or 10 minute workouts a few times per week will make such a difference in both your mind and body. With just a bit of discipline and consistency you will start to love working out and move your body and tend to do it out of habit.

ׂ╰┈➤ Take yourself out for coffee or a pastry! Solo dates can be just as fun as normal ones.

ׂ╰┈➤ Spend more time with family and friends. Humans will not be with you forever and enjoying every moment with them is such an important thing in life.

ׂ╰┈➤ Buy pretty pajamas, light a candle, take long bubble baths, do a face mask, listen to calm music, read, paint, express yourself in any way you want.

ׂ╰┈➤ Clean your environment and surround yourself with the colors and furniture that you love.

ׂ╰┈➤ Dress the way you want to, not how everybody expects you to.

ׂ╰┈➤ Always try new things: that yoga class you heard from your friend, a new pastry that looked so good in the shop window, some book you saw online.

ׂ╰┈➤ Be open minded and present in your life. Live in the present and you will become happy with your past and future.

Although aesthetics do play a big part in romanticising, you can do it without spending a lot of money, effort or time. The need of making everything "aesthetic" is just as consuming and bad for you as not doing anything at all.

Learn to enjoy and cherish every little moment and that will bring you on the path of happiness. Please take good care of yourself, good luck on your wellness journey and thank you so much for reading this post!!

Love, L

I-T-G-I-R-L🧸ྀི🦢

you know i am that girl~

୨🦢୧‧ I’m so stunningly beautiful, I literally can’t take my eyes of myself for a second- and apparently neither can anyone else! Everyone wants to be just like me.. who can blame 'em? I’m a star.

୨🦢୧‧ I’m free from the illusion of judgement, unapologetic of being myself. Never once have been worried about what someone believes about me because I already know it’s one of two things: they think I’m sweet and they’re angels like me or two, they’re jealous of me.

୨🦢୧‧ FUCK societal standards, I am the blueprint. I love myself way too much to fall victim to someone else’s bullshit ideas. I live life based on my own desires. I set all the trends anyway.

୨🦢୧‧ I’m not gonna act like I don’t have everyone I come into contact with whipped. One glance at me and its heart eyes all around. Whenever I post, I’m spammed with love. I can send an ask anonymously and the person would fall madly in love just because I’m me. They act like I’m a celestial being.. and who’s to say I’m not?

୨🦢୧‧ I own the title ‘Sleeping Beauty’ because every time I sleep I get prettier, every time i blink, every time I eat, every time I drink water, every time I breathe. I’m the Kokomo Teruhashi of the world, always glowing, always desired, always drooled over. There’s no one as perfect as me.

୨🦢୧‧ Life treats me so well, I love being the universe’s favourite child. I imagine a desire and relax because I know immediately I have it just because I said so.

self-sabotage looks like surrounding yourself with people who are always complaining about every aspect of their lives. self-sabotage looks like staying in a boring (or even worse) relationship out of fear of feeling lonely later. self-sabotage looks like setting ridiculous, unattainable goals, so that when you don't achieve them, you can feel sorry for yourself. (self-sabotage looks like feeling sorry for yourself, often.) self-sabotage looks like never progressing on your goals and then the next week you just do everything exactly the same.

this world is already harsh and cold enough. stop being your own enemy.

philosophy body wash ♡ ‧ ₊ ˚ ⋅ ౨ৎ ‧ ₊ .ᐟ

Don’t fall into the perfectionist trap! The best thing you can do for yourself is the first something.

you don't need to spend hours crafting a perfect diet with balanced macros - just have a fruit or veg with your meal

you don't need to get the newest water bottle - drink a glass of water right now

you don't need to have an elaborate skincare routine with expensive products - wash your face and put on some spf before going out today

you don't need the big life-changing day 1 - just do something right now, I promise you will feel better

healthy love in 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

healthy body in 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

healthy habits in 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

healthy mindset in 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

healthy boundaries in 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

healthy relationships in 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

healthy communication in 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

healthy coping mechanisms in 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐡

if self-care was a girl, she would…

she starts her mornings with a glass of water and stretches because it makes her feel good

her evenings are a mix of journaling, dancing in her room and turning her phone off when she needs time to be introspective

she’s empathetic and patient, specially with herself

she’s a great listener, but she never lets herself be a dumping ground for negativity

she’s not afraid to walk away from people who drain her energy and make her feel bad

her mantra is “i deserve to be cared, specially by myself”

she knows that healing can be messy and she’s fine with taking one step at a time or even going one step back because life is not linear

sometimes she stays in bed all day because she knows that rest is productive too

she celebrates small wins like taking her vitamins/meds, finishing a good book etc. because she believes joy is found everywhere

she values quality over quantity in every part of her life

she surrounds herself with people who respect her boundaries

her style isn’t about trends: it’s about what truly resonates with her

she values the present moment, even when it’s messy

she leaves every person she meets better than when she found them

she reminds you that you’re allowed to be a work in progress and a masterpiece at the same time

she loves herself just the way she is <3

ferociously feminine ˖𓍢ִ໋