DOCTOR STRANGE IN THE MULTIVERSE OF MADNESS 2022 | Dir. Sam Raimi

How to become a Dream Girl: A DREAM GIRL GUIDE!

today i’m going to tell y’all how to actually become your dream girl, aka your desired self. 

one thing i HATE about “dream girl” tumblr is how judgemental they are! they have so many stupid rules, saying that to be a dream girl you can’t be this, you can’t have that and spew a lot of hateful rhetoric that is rooted in bigotry. (i.e misogyny & classism.)

first of all, this is your reality. as in, you can do whatever you want. so using that logic, we can be whoever we want.

first things first: decide who your dream girl is.

i want you to imagine your desired self. go beyond your wildest dreams. who is dream girl? what does she look like? what does she do for a living? ask yourself questions like these to start your imagination, and either type out it on a device, or write it down on a piece of paper. 

feeling uninspired? watch tv shows, go out with friends, read books, watch youtube videos, scroll on social media. whatever makes you feel inspired! i would really recommend making a pinterest board. pinterest is AMAZING for inspiration. 

if you’re really stuck, let me ask you some questions!

what does being a dream girl mean to you?

what does this woman look like?

what is her dream job?

what’s her salary?

where does she live?

what is her house like?

is she single or in a relationship? if so, describe her partner in detail.

what does she do for fun?

what are her hobbies?

how do others perceive her?

how is her mental state?

what is her personality like?

how does she dress?

how is her relationship with her family like?

what are her friends like?

describe the average day of the dream girl.

don’t feel pressured to desire a certain thing that you actually don’t want. you are unique. your “dream girl” is unique to you. just because you see 834778393893 blogs talking about how they’d like to live the hedonistic high life surrounded by materialism, doesn’t mean you have to. i mean if you want to live that way, be my guest! 

the “dream girl” isn’t a fixed aesthetic. this isn’t about anyone else. this is about YOU. so if your dream girl is you living in a pretty cottage in the middle of nowhere surrounded by art – that is YOUR dream girl. or if your dream girl is a woman who wears suits and is a ceo – that is ALSO a dream girl.

anyone can be a dream girl. and i mean, anyone. don’t listen to those stupid ass blogs that say shit like “you can’t be fat or skinny if you want to be a dream girl.” “you must act like this or you must have this” oh my god, PLEASE SHUT UP.  i swear to god if i see another post like that i will lose my damn mind. don’t listen to those blogs! you are beautifully & wonderfully made. :)

the big secret, how to actually become a dream girl.

okay, if you have been following me for a long time, you know what i’m about to say next. there is no secret. HA, FOOLED YA!

the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl.

yup, it’s that easy. just assume that you have everything you want. do not see your desired self as a fantasy, but as a reality. as a fact. wishful thinking will not do you any good.

as neville goddard once said:

“health, wealth, beauty, and genius are not created; they are only manifested by the arrangement of your mind-that is, by your concept of yourself, and your concept of yourself is all that you accept and consent to as true.”

affirm for your desire. and when you affirm, affirm from a place of knowing. don’t view affirming as some kind of technique, but as present fact. at the end of the day, your assumptions manifest. so assume you are your dream girl.

when affirming, you can either use separate affirmations like:

“i have my dream job”

“i look like xyz”

“i have the perfect boyfriend”

OR 

you can use general affirmations. i personally find these easier because you only need one affirmation, because they cover everything you want. and don’t worry! your subconscious knows exactly what you’re talking about when you use a vague affirmation, because we assign meaning to our thoughts. if both you and you friend used the same affirmation, you would both get different results because you both want to manifest different things. understand?

that being said, here are some of my fav general affirmations:

“i am a dream girl!”

“everything in my life is perfect”

“isn’t it wonderful”

“i am happy”

“i live my desired life.

etc.

(oh, and one last thing. you don’t even need to believe in your affirmations. affirm & persist anyway, until you have your desire. so for those of you who struggle with belief, it is okay to be sceptical! don’t be so hard on yourself. you can be in the shittiest mood, have intrusive thoughts and lack belief — but as long as you are persistent in your affirmations, you’ll be fine. after all, that is the law.)

you don’t have to affirm if you don’t want to. i know affirming isn’t for everyone. instead of affirming, here are some alternatives:

visualization

scripting

subliminals

praying

spells

placebo effect (yes, you can use it to manifest)

manifestation techniques (369, 5x55, etc)

so here you go, folks! remember, the only requirement to be a dream girl is that you think you are a dream girl. no, you don’t need to lose weight, buy a prada bag or invest in chanel.

you already are your dream girl already! 

here are some nice posts by me, relating to the topics, as linked below. happy manifesting, my loves!

https://bit.ly/3ixfmu2

https://bit.ly/3hNyTY5

https://bit.ly/3BpaIHm

https://bit.ly/3wNgpet

[Speed or Slow Time Spell]

This is a very simple spell that can help change your perception of time. Used this all the time at work. All you need is a ring for your finger. Any ring will do - just make sure it is on a finger of your choice. (i find the middle finger on my dominant is the best, personally)

If you want time to go by slower - twist the ring towards yourself and say (out loud or in your head) something like: "Time will go by slower until ---" and then you say when you want the spell to end. (Ex. "Time will go by slower until my best friend leaves.")

If you want time to go by faster - twist the ring away from yourself and say (out loud or in your head, like before) something like: "Time will go by faster until---" And then say when you want the spell to end. (Ex. "Time will go by faster until I get off of work.")

You can say this is simple placebo but I believe placebo is a type of magick, anyhow. What isn't magickal about something that only works because you believe it does?

Hope this helps🥰 Peace to you and yours! 🖤

MAKE LAWS FOR YOURSELF. Stop the overthinking. Inspired by @kristheassumtionqueen

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Bro, if you struggle a little with overthinking in the beginning I highly suggest you make rules for yourself, laws as god, about what you are nervous is contradicting. Ofc there is no such thing as this, however writing everything down as an official document of laws and signing it, has seriously helped me. And it’s fun! You can choose your colors and decorate however you want. First I started off with an intro that looks a little something like this,

As the god, the creator of my reality, everything written on this page becomes true in an instant. They forever remain the truth until only I, say otherwise. These laws take effect immediately, in every dimension and in every reality, in all of the multiverse as soon as my e signature is written on the page, and this is because I am in full control. Absolutely nothing can take away the power of this document and of my laws, even typos because I know that I am on the pedestal here. New rules may be added at any time and still have the same effects as previous laws.

Great! So you have your intro, now time for the rules. What is limiting you? NAH NAH, No more hun, get that out. YOU ARE LIMITLESS, here are some of my laws as an example. (I know it may seem silly and obvious but like I said, writing really helps, it’s like a placebo that it sets it in stone, even though I know I am the power that does that.) Here are some examples of laws that were created to get rid of the overthinking.

A deadline is a deadline, it does not matter how close or far the deadline is because, I am the manipulator of time anyways. What I want must be mine either before or after the deadline. (I just love how this rhymes too LOL)

Negative thoughts, unhelpful thoughts, intrusive thoughts, overthinking, resistance, limiting beliefs, have no power. Only I choose what I give power to, nothing can diminish my manifestations, that is not possible.

Even though there are some rules on this document that are similar, that is totally ok. There is no such thing as laws contradicting or canceling each other out. That is a limiting belief and as I have already stated, limiting beliefs do not hold any power whatsoever. They rarely occur anyways.

Pressure from anyone does not affect my manifestations and what I want. Even pressure from myself may only aid or maintain the manifestation.

YAY! You’ve created your own set of laws. That is that, nothing can change them, (unless you choose differently at some point ofc) Some of them may seem silly and obvious but who gives a shit when you’re out there living your dream life right?! Now, all that is left to do is sign! Get your favorite color, or font, if it’s electronic, and write your signature!!!! You can come up with a cute catchy line or just sign your name! This is what mine was…

On the only pedestal is where I ______ and only I, ______ remain.

After this you are no longer allowed to limit yourself, and you don’t even have to worry about it because you just ELIMINATED those unhelpful thoughts, they are powerless now. So go have fun, get what you want.

“According to the universal laws, the magician will form his own point of view about the universe which henceforth will be his true religion.”

— Franz Bardon, “Initiation into Hermetics”

I absolutely love writing scripts and seeing it play out in the 3D. I feel like a movie director / my own genie 🧞‍♀️🧞🧞‍♂️

Victorian Slangs For Spell Code

Gigglemug (always smiling)

Bitch the pot (pour the tea)

Got the mobs (temporary sadness)

Tight as a boiled owl (drunk)

Poked up (embarrassed)

Sauce-box (mouth)

Cupid's kettle drums (breasts)

Not up to dick (unwell)

I literally manifested an iPhone 13 pro ?! 💅🙆🏽‍♀️

“𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡, 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫.”

‎༻.˓ ࣪˖ __༒__.｡･—˚.❩𖤐❨⋆˚—･｡.__༒__˖ ࣪˓.༺

.˓ ࣪˖ᱬ 𝐒𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐞𝐭 𝐖𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬

.˓ ࣪˖ᱬ 𝐋𝐢𝐤𝐞 & 𝐫𝐞𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐠

.˓ ࣪˖ᱬ 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 @ 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐨𝐬𝐯𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐮𝐬𝐞

you’re just consciousness. literally just move your awareness to what you want to experience and your consciousness will follow because reality is just a waking dream baby

Manifesting is literally just deciding what you want and then giving it to yourself within. You essentially become the person who already has it mentally and over time I think it just gets easier and quicker