“Hero Complex”

“Hero Complex”

So I realize a lot of people apparently don’t know this, but the term “hero complex” seems to be getting thrown around more and more in this phandom and it is literally driving me insane.

Danny does not have hero syndrome.

He does not have a hero complex. He does not have a savior complex. (All terms frequently conflated and used with the same intention, though they also have different meanings in different fields.) Danny tries to help people out of a responsibility to protect them, which does not fit with hero syndrome.

Hero syndrome is the presence of a subconscious need to be needed and appreciated taken to an unhealthy extreme. People with hero syndrome frequently CREATE horrible situations so that they can ‘save’ everyone and receive adulation. A firefighter with hero syndrome, for example, would likely start fires just so they could run in and ‘rescue’ the victims themself.

In less extreme examples, they are also people who drop everything in their lives in order to help others (which often evolves into more deviant acts over time) and end up overexerting themselves to point of total exhaustion because they lack the ability to set healthy boundaries and extend the same care to themselves.

The important difference in these cases is that it still stems from a psychological need, which Danny does not exhibit. He protects people, yes, but not the extent of dropping everything in his life to do that full time even in situations where his help is not needed. He takes breaks, he chooses not to resolve every issue he encounters, and it is impossible to imagine him purposefully causing a crisis for any kind of adulation.

Danny does not have hero syndrome, and it’s honestly a bit insulting to his character to imply that he does.

It’s an interesting topic, and if anyone is interested in learning more, this article has a fairly useful overview and history of the term to get you started.

(Sorry for the rant, but this has been driving me crazy and I wanted to help clear it up for anyone who might not know the actual meaning of the term.)

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A little tip that has been working WONDERS for me!! 🦭

✨I say “what if (insert my desire) right now?” & as soon as I say that I get that feeling in my stomach! The feeling Neville talks about!! The feeling it real!! I say it a few times & then I affirm my “I am” affirmations. Honestly it’s amazing for getting into the state and feeling good!! So many things have shifted since doing this!! ✨

E.g. “what if I made over £500 a day right now?” “What if I made over £500 a day right now?” “I am so rich” “I am so wealthy” “I am so successful” Do it as many times as you want too💞

Gurllllll it fucking works🦭

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life when you affirm, persist, ignore the 3d, don’t over-consume, stick to the basics of loa and forget about methods and circumstances while realizing that you deserve to live your dream life

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“you are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe it is the only reason you do not see it.” - neville goddard

1 year ago

EIYPO

“Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. Do not try to change people; they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change.”

– Neville Goddard, ‘Your Faith Is Your Fortune’

2 years ago

THINGS TO MANIFEST

🌺 Not having any bills to pay.

🌺 Having a wishbook with unlimited pages which only you can open.

🌺Always be on time everywhere you go.

🌺Always getting good songs as recommendation.

🌺Be immune to wardrobe malfunction.

🌺Can find a hidden camera easily.

🌺Be immune to any mental illness forever.

🌺Always have nice sleep of 8 hours.

🌺Have trips to aesthetic places out of nowhere .

🌺Never have embarrassing moment.

🌺Now how to do something just by seeing once.

🌺Finding a hidden place just for yourself.

🌺A cupboard for spawning desired clothes.

🌺 Immune to have negative and toxic people in life.

🌺 Always living the y/n moments.

🌺 Be able to stop time just by saying a magic word like 'tulip' lol.

🌺 To never have skin problems.

🌺 Immune to all diseases. Like forever healthy.

🌺 To be immortal

🌺 Be able to teleport at desired places anytime.

🌺 Be able to see people's auras.

🌺 Be able to control your aura.

🌺 Always wearing the clothes according to theme even when you don't know what to wear.

🌺 Be able to know about anyone's real personality and intentions just by one look.

🌺 No one able to have a eye contact with you like you hold so much power that no one is able to match your level.

1 year ago

Q & A

persisting, the 4D and letting go

Not so long ago I became stuck in a loop of wanting and waiting. Weeks passed by like minutes, and I was desperate to "get" what I "wanted"-- real desperate, I tell you. But one way or another, loops end. They do. Even if it doesn't seem like it in the moment, they always pass, and your higher self shines through. These are a couple of questions I had while at my lowest, and my answer to them now. Hope this post may be useful to someone!!

Q & A
Q & A
Q & A

"How do I persist even if I don't see anything?"

"You just persist" is what I've been told time and time again. "Yeah, but how?" is what I shot back. And silence followed. Paraphrasing, there's this quote by Einstein I've seen around here saying that, it's when you sit with yourself in the silence you're so desperate to fill up, when you stop looking for answers, that's when you get them. It doesn't matter how many times people here tell you to persist (to decide, to know it's yours) if, when you close the app, you forget everything and go right back to the old story. Why keep entretaining a story that you don't like? It's like if you're watching a really bad movie -- you can just turn it off.

You are able to persist. It's not something supernatural that only a handful of people can do. Everyone persists in something. You are persisting in the old story, for example. "B-But... Why??? Why is my subconscious doing this to me? I want to change!! I do!". This is so silly. Why are you mad at your subconscious? There's no 'good' or 'bad' (or 'ugly') story, that's just something you add the meaning to later. Your subconscious doesn't know the difference.

In the end, it all comes down to choosing. Just one final choice (do I even need to tell you that you're the creator of all? You must know by now). When you choose -- when you accept that you have it in the 4D once you imagine it, that's who you are. And once you've chosen, you cannot just give it up. You don't need proof in the 3D when the 4D is the only reality that should matter right now. Accept that you have it and move on. Creation is finished.

"And how do I convince myself it's set in stone?"

Close your eyes right now and imagine whatever it is that you "want". You can see it. You've just experienced it within, you can't deny that. That being said, you now know creation is finished. It's done. Done. Done. Done.

The 4D is the only true reality. It's the blueprint, nothing would exist in your 3D if it wasn't for it, your old assumptions, thoughts and ideas. For you. All you need and want already exists within you. Your desires are not separate from you, so you can experience them within; your mind is not separate from you, so you can change your old patterns; your 3D is not separate from you, so you can control it! You are the 3D and the 4D, just -- different, in another form.

The 3D is not real; it is a reflection of your mind! It may feel real, look real... But just because you see from it, not beyond it; the body is experiencing the 3D, but it's when you start to look at it from the 4D that you can understand that and take it in. All you need is the 4D. And, within, you've already experienced your desire, and you don't need anything else in order to experience materialization. It is set in stone if you decide it is -- so choose.

"I want to experience 'x' now. What do I do everyday in order to get it?"

No. There's no "getting". There's no "in order to". There's no "want". From the moment you get involved in the imaginal act, creation is finished, and 'x' is already experienced. Therefore, it's done. If you're not focusing on the end, but rather on the "I want", you're in a state of lack. Shift your state. Why not? It's not hard; you're in a state now. But I get it. You want the -- 'real' experience in the 3D? You want everyone on here to stop talking in riddles and tell you what to do, because random people on the internet have more power over you than... you? Aren't you tired of chasing? Of trying? Maybe not -- enough.

But seriously, if you "want" "it" "now", persist in the knowing and go to sleep. Tell yourself it's done and it's done. Persist in the old story and that's what you "get". Persisit in the new one, and your reality shifts. After all, "nothing changes if nothing changes". Don't allow any other thought to distract you from the end. Just -- don't. Thoughts come and go, and doubts will come as well; observe them and let them go. The end will materialize in the 3D because it has already materialized in the 4D. The inner man is your true you, so be him. Be unbothered by the neutral 3D and focus on living as the inner man.

"Is this fail-proof? How do I know I'm not just wishing my life away?"

It's real if you assume it is! Now get off this app and do something! Because, who's going to do it for you? Be the inner man and continue being! It will happen! Trust yourself. Trust. Why not?

Q & A
Q & A
Q & A
1 year ago

daydreaming vs visualization vs imagination

i was thinking about before i got into the law. you know when you imagine steamy scenarios before you go to bed for fun? i know you know what i mean. i used to do that every night in 2020 (even now) with the same scenario bc it was fun. keep in mind that i didnt know about the law at this point so i obviously didnt intend for it to "manifest". a year ago when i started to understand states, i used to think back to 2020 and wonder why those scenarios didnt manifest since i kept visualizing and imagining the same thing. last week i randomly remembered about how i used to wonder that and i immediately knew the answer: i wasnt changing self.

when i was visualizing/imagining, i wasnt becoming the person who actually knew i was experiencing it. i was not being someone who was experiencing those steamy scenarios. in order words, i was just daydreaming.

daydreaming

in my own words, i think daydreaming is visualizing something while being someone who knows they dont have it. for example: visualizing owning a car while knowing that you dont have it. so you are just visualizing it for fun, not for the purpose of changing self but for the purpose of just experiencing something in imagination (via visualization) just for your own enjoyment. daydreaming is like visualizing for fun, without changing states/self. this "knowing" i talk about is based on what state you are in, so if someone knows they dont have a car, they are in that state.

i think daydreaming is always visualization but visualization is not always daydreaming. daydreaming is for fun, without the intention of "manifesting" or changing states while visualization is changing states whether or not you intent to do so.

so i was visualizing my freaky scenes as the version of me who didnt identify with those freaky scenes (aka daydreaming). i wasnt identifying with it or using it to change self. same thing applies to when i used to repeat positive thoughts 100k times but i didnt identify with them. those are called vain repetitions and can be used to change self but if they just dont change self/states, then it is just daydreaming/vain repetitions. you can change self/states without realizing too which is why i think people put so much power onto techniques by thinking the techniques themselves are doing something, when its only self (imagination/you) that is changed by the techniques. those techniques were the things that consciously or unconsciously made you change self. regardless, self/you will always be the thing manifesting.

realize that regardless of everything, your state/version of you you are being, will always determine the "3d".

visualization ≠ imagination

visualization is a tool to change self / imagination. you can visualize things but that doesnt mean you are identifying with it or accepting it as true. i think of visualization as a smaller form of imagination but its very small compared to imagining/imagination itself.

imagination is what you are (aka self). imagination is not a tool like visualization because you always are operating in imagination since everything is self. you are always being a version of you. you arent always visualizing. visualizing can be daydreaming if you arent visualizing that thing to change self.

when you imagine something in a law of assumption context, imagining = what version of you you are being.

imagination is not limited to visualizing. there are some people in this community who have aphantasia and think they have no imagination and therefore "cant manifest", etc. but they just cant visualize. imagination is not equal to visualization. no matter what type of or stage of aphantasia you have, you will always already be manifesting.

visualizing and thinking without changing self means nothing. changing self means being a new version of you who knows they have (insert whatever desire).

self changes everything

so back to my story, i was just visualizing me and my imaginary bae, i wasnt being the person who was experiencing what i was visualizing. this is why it didnt manifest. i like this idea because that is just more proof that self changes everything, who ever you are being in imagination will express. it also means i have control bc i can daydream anything for fun and control whether or not it expresses bc i dont have to identify with that version of me who is experiencing whatever i am daydreaming.

i hope this makes sense and if it doesnt, dont stress. just focus on changing self, be the version of you that has whatever it is you want. i made this post because its been on my mind and hopefully it can help someone else realize that changing self is all you ever have to do.

kisses, jani ☆

1 year ago

I am getting all my desires today

1 year ago
Only What You’re Assuming Now Matters🍓

Only what you’re assuming now matters🍓

Only What You’re Assuming Now Matters🍓

Doesn’t matter what you assumed yesterday, day before. Forget the what’s gone or what’s to come, be present.

What are you assuming now? What state are you in? Are you in the state of lack or abundance? Are you wanting your desires or are you assuming that you have them already?

Give up trying to control your 3D & have discipline.

Choose your imagination bc

Imagination is reality

Only What You’re Assuming Now Matters🍓
Only What You’re Assuming Now Matters🍓
Only What You’re Assuming Now Matters🍓
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