theestallion: We made it to JAPAN 🇯🇵
We’re all experiencing life differently. Never take anything personally. Stay in your own lane. Do what makes you happy and give others the same grace.
I invision the shirt as the same color as the shoes, accessories, & bag ♡
"Follow your plan, not your mood"
* ੈ✩‧₊˚ The B.A.P Handbook 🔱🌸🐆 by Kayln Johnson , Tracy Lewis,Karla Lightfoot ೃ࿔*:・
The Acronym (B.A.P) A ㅤㅤ𝓑͟lack american 𝓟rincess a set of black women archetypes built off the Mindest that emphasizes Respect,Consideration,Humility and the way one carries herself from a young age and upbringing from privilege of young black women while remaining humble and generous of their Blessings
The Acronym most notable known from the Halle Berry & Natalie Desselle 1997 Comedy B.A.P.S it combines are set of three Archetypes of “Bapitude”
The Betty
A BAP of birthright she carries herself with an unshakeable belif that she is meant to be and have the best of the best with amazing achievements,manners and Amazing Style who is a perfectionist in everything she does and maintain classy,humble and Flawless !
The Boho
A Quirky,free spirited, Funky BAP by Birthright shes born into a high social and economic environment that embraces tradition but she moves to the beat of her own drum with and unorthodox lifestyle she’s an openminded free thinker who prioritizes her happiness and expression herself despite societies standards and a social conscious presence
The Butterfly
The Butterfly is not a BAP by birthright but one who is from modest beginnings through her lifes as adapted and cultivated her BAPITUDE through the guidance and mindset of a betty and a boho and her metamorphosis truly makes her blossom by her resilience
The Bogus
The Bogus is not a bap by birthright or a bap truly all her bapitude is all in her head because she lacks the true understanding of what it means to be a bap and defines herself and her worth solely based on appearance and material possessions with no true substance to her while romanticizing negative stereotypes about herself
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Any money making tips?
Have a side hustle - There are so many side hustles that you can get into to make quick + extra money.
Start a shop on Amazon or Etsy
Start a YouTube channel
Help tutor or do 1 on 1 classes
Sell your old clothing
Deliver food + groceries
Start a blog
Offer freelance services
Invest - One of the best ways to make money is to invest it!
Invest in stocks
Invest in quality products
Invest in yourself
Invest in experiences + education
BUDGET!!!! - My #1 tip when it comes to making money and saving it involves budgeting + making a budget plan!!
Understand budget categories: food, pets, fun, children, education, home, utilities, insurance + etc.
Research budgeting methods and use one that fits you and your lifestyle. There are lots to choose from like the 70/20/10 method or the cash envelope method.
Prevent over spending - Over spending is a big challenge for a lot of us when it comes to money. Understanding how to prevent it can help save lots of $ over time.
Wait before making big purchases
Use a spending tracker
Set a spending limit
Use cash
Create shopping lists
Avoid browsing online shops
Save your money - Know when and how to spend + save your money!
Meal prep
Buy in bulk
Save coupons
Try a saving challenge
Get cash back rewards
Know your spending triggers - Figure out what can cause you to spend a lot of your money. Some triggers could be:
Boredom
Social media
Stress
Sales
Peer pressure
Some ways you can overcome these triggers are by unsubscribing from marketing emails and by making a solid plan before going through with a big purchase.
Make good spending habits - Pick up on habits that will help you get ahead in your finances!
Spend less than you earn
Maintain an emergency fund
Invest in yourself
Fix your bad habits
These are just the basics when it comes to personal finance. Hope it helps! Xoxo. 💸💓
please don’t spend your life convincing yourself that love or joy is reserved for the idealized version of you that only exists in the future
Develop a budget: Creating and sticking to a budget can help you better understand your income and expenses, and learn how to prioritize your spending.
Save regularly: Saving money is crucial for achieving financial stability. You can set up automatic transfers to a savings account so you won't be tempted to spend the money.
Pay off debt: High-interest debt can hinder your financial progress. Make a plan to pay off your debts and focus on high-interest debts first.
Invest wisely: Investing can help your money grow over time. Look for low-cost index funds, which can give you broad exposure to the market at a low cost.
Understand compound interest: Compound interest is the interest you earn on interest. By investing consistently, the power of compound interest can help you build wealth over time.
Research before making big financial decisions: Before making a major decision, such as buying a house or car, research different options and weigh the costs and benefits.
Learn from your mistakes: Every failure or setback can teach you something valuable. Use these experiences to inform your future financial decisions.
Get professional advice: Seek advice from a financial advisor if you're unsure about your financial decisions. They can provide guidance on investments, retirement planning, and tax strategies.
Be aware of scams: Scammers can take advantage of financial illiteracy. Be cautious when someone offers an investment that's too good to be true.
Continuous learning: Financial knowledge is constantly changing, so stay informed by regularly reading financial news, books, and attending classes or webinars.
Treat yourself with respect
Different forms of self-respect:
1. Eating good food. Caring for your body is a way of caring for yourself. Therefore eating nutrition food and nursing your body with the right food is very important.
2. Skincare. Your skin is a reflection of your habits (diet, skincare, etc.)
3. Movement. Every movement is important for both your body and mind. Creating a strong mind is key to self respect.
4. Reading. Being able to read and understand different stories creates a stronger mind.
5. Time for yourself. Saving time and energy for yourself will bring your life to peace. Not everyone and everything deserves YOUR attention.
Protect your peace
Hi! I'm LovelyLavDolly, u can call me lav 4 short, I'm 20 years old & neurodivergent, This is a girly, nerdy, cutesy, purple blog♡
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