˚ ༘ ೀ⋆｡˚ Activities To Do With Long-distance Regressor/little Friends !!

something that isn't talked about

(but is important to bring up)

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Caregivers can be caregivers to bad littles as much as littles can be littles to bad caregivers. I've never seen a post bring up this topic so I will.

Littles who manipulate their cg to take care of them longer, do exist. Littles who make their caregivers feel bad over something they can't control, exist. Littles who will ghost theirs caregivers to make them worry and/or to punish them for something, do exist. And littles that are bad DO EXIST.

I'm tired of this common trope around the community where it brings light that tell littles the red flags in caregivers, (which is important); but so is letting caregivers know what is the red flags in littles as well. There are bad caregivers, and there are bad littles as well. I've seen it brushed under the rug a lot simply because "oh littles don't know any better they don't know blah blah blah-" yeah well that isn't an excuse to treat your caregiver horribly. /Not at anyone (reading this post)

Caregivers aren't robots that are gonna be there 24/7 to take care of you. to protect you, to coddle you, etc. They have feelings and have their own bad days too. Please don't use that against them simply because they don't feel the best that day. Treat caregivers with the love and respect they deserve. They do so much for us already that it's unfair to treat them like all they are is to be your caregiver, and not some friend or anything.

Thanks for coming for my tedtalk. ~Cole, they/it, a fellow caregiver 🐰

paci customs

does anyone know any specifically sfw instagram and/or etsy sellers who are taking paci customs? i really want one cuz i only have old plain ones i didn't take care of so they're all nasty

a serious talk about pacifiers

Please, no matter what anyone says, it is not 100% safe to use pacifiers.

this isn’t just about baby pacis. I’m talking about adult size ones too.

over time your teeth will shift if you use a pacifier intensely and for a long time. They will, after prolonged use, cause your teeth to splay/ flare out as well as potentially develop an Over/ underbite. If you feel your bite feels weird after using a pacifier, it’s not all in your head.

I’m not saying these things to scare you but it’s a common misconception that if you have a fully developed mouth than it’s perfectly okay to use adult pacifiers without any repercussions and that’s just not true.

I know our pacifiers can be essential to our mental health, our regression, etc. (plus they’re super adorable) so I’m not telling you to stop using them all together (i myself, am still going to use them). I would however recommend limiting usage to 15 minutes (25 max), try your best not suck incredibly hard on it, clean them before and after every use (because bacteria), wear your retainer or Invisalign regularly if you have them, and most importantly talk to your dentist or orthodontist because everyone is different. You may not experience these issues in the way I have or at all.

Please be careful ♥

this is your random reminder to CHECK IF YOU'RE STILL HAVING FUN

are you enjoying scrolling tumblr? watching youtube? reading that book? playing that game? drawing that art? doing that activity? if not,

YOU CAN STOP AND DO SOMETHING ELSE

you don't have to stick to something that you are doing for fun if it isn't fun for you anymore. You can come back! If you've loved it before you are likely to love it again! but you can stop!

Don't get stuck in a loop of doing something that you think should be fun when it isn't! You can put it down for a bit! Maybe that's the very thing that will make it fun again later!

Some ideas for how to cheer up your cg! :D

A surprise cuddle session! Sometimes, a simple hug can make a world of difference.

A little note! Write a heartfelt message thanking them for being there.

A special treat! Bake their favorite cookies or buy their favorite candy.

A fun activity! Suggest playing a game or watching a movie together.

A helping hand! Offer to do chores or errands to give them a break.

A cute outfit! Put on a cute outfit or accessory to make them smile.

A silly dance party! Turn up the music and dance around together.

A relaxing bath time! Run a warm bath and offer to help them relax.

A comforting bedtime story! Read a favorite book together before bed.

A heartfelt conversation! Talk about things that make them happy or laugh.

the urge

to tell my friends and my therapist about my age regression. they're the safest people i've ever known and i love and trust them so much. but the fear of losing them is so strong. but at the same time, if i can't tell them about part of my life, then what's the point? i just wish i knew for sure that i wouldn't lose them

vintage blues clues comforter

a Daryl Dixon!CG board

With a masc/neutral/pup little, because iam sad so iam making this to feel better

A special note from our Daryl fictive: 'You don't have to be 100% all the time. Car don't have to be at 100% to get places. 25 will do ya just fine. You're doin' great as you are. Just remember to stop for gas, yeah?'

BIG HUGS 2:

♡ the regressors who are no contact with their parents/whole family

♡ the regressors who don't know how to regulate their emotions without their cg/mommy/daddy/partner

♡ to the regressors who can't afford gear

♡ to the regressors who go through life alone

♡ to the regressors who feel like they're a burden to others

♡ to the regressors who need help with things that are really simple for other littles

♡ to the regressors who regress when things are hard or uncomfortable for them

♡ to the regressors who are having to hide themselves and their regression

- you are all so loved and cherished and my account is a safe space for all of you 🫂💕