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Caregivers can be caregivers to bad littles as much as littles can be littles to bad caregivers. I've never seen a post bring up this topic so I will.
Littles who manipulate their cg to take care of them longer, do exist. Littles who make their caregivers feel bad over something they can't control, exist. Littles who will ghost theirs caregivers to make them worry and/or to punish them for something, do exist. And littles that are bad DO EXIST.
I'm tired of this common trope around the community where it brings light that tell littles the red flags in caregivers, (which is important); but so is letting caregivers know what is the red flags in littles as well. There are bad caregivers, and there are bad littles as well. I've seen it brushed under the rug a lot simply because "oh littles don't know any better they don't know blah blah blah-" yeah well that isn't an excuse to treat your caregiver horribly. /Not at anyone (reading this post)
Caregivers aren't robots that are gonna be there 24/7 to take care of you. to protect you, to coddle you, etc. They have feelings and have their own bad days too. Please don't use that against them simply because they don't feel the best that day. Treat caregivers with the love and respect they deserve. They do so much for us already that it's unfair to treat them like all they are is to be your caregiver, and not some friend or anything.
Thanks for coming for my tedtalk. ~Cole, they/it, a fellow caregiver 🐰
get the stuff you didn’t get as a kid if it makes you happy
♡ sensory world - a game full of sensory toys to play with as well as arcade games, a decent alternative to angels sensory room (who's owner has a history of banning age regressors from their game)
♡ jovial playground/peppers playhouse (if you don't mind creepy visuals/derealization!)
♡ rainy day - an aesthetically pleasing nature hangout game
♡ backpacking - a chill camping game
♡ bloxy bingo - a fun bingo game
♡ farmstead - a slow paced farming simulator
♡ sandbox - a pixelated single player sandbox game
♡ astro renaissance - a royale high-like dressup game
♡ marble mania - a fun marble-run game
♡ my hello kitty cafe - a sanrio themed cafe tycoon
♡ color book - a giant coloring book where you color entire maps
♡ jigsaw puzzles - a laid back single player puzzle game
♡ advanced claw machine - a realistic claw machine game
♡ in the hills - a cute picnic simulator
always remember to keep yourself safe, roblox is NOT a very safe game when it comes to the community! be careful when wearing regression fits (i.e fits with pacis, bottles, etc) in certain games as you can be harassed for wearing them, i have many times!! dont forget to have fun :]
been seeing an influx of new regressors with twitter/pinterest/roblox brainrot lately, and i feel this needs to be said.
you do NOT need to be skinny to be a valid little.
you do NOT need to be white to be a valid little.
you do NOT need gear to be a valid little.
you do NOT need a caregiver to be a valid little.
you do NOT need to be feminine to be a valid little.
you do NOT need to be afab to be a valid little.
you do NOT need to be neurodivergent to be a valid little.
you do NOT need to be traumatized to be a valid little.
you do NOT have to be 100% pure to be a valid little.
you do NOT need to be asexual to be a valid little.
you do NOT need to be a minor to be a valid little.
all littles are valid. all caregivers are valid. everyone who partakes in this inner child healing passtime is valid. the amount of times i’ve seen people say you need to be a feminine skinny white girl or else you shouldn’t regress is insane. twitter/pinterest/roblox agere spaces are NOT your friend, they are exclusionist cesspools. keep yourselves safe, hugs n kisses 🎀
kinda think thonkin about starting an agere business 🤔
i've always wanted to have my own business, and i think it would be so cool to have one based around age regression! i could do downloadable stuff people could print, but also physical stuff like little journals and sticky notes and stickers and maybe planners and t-shirts and eventually onesies and bibs and paci clips!
and it would all be based around making age regression less scary! like, it would help people who aren't age regressors understand what it is and at the same time, help littles have less shame surrounding their regression! i just think that would be so cool!