imagine having a regression nursery, a place where no one can judge you or tell you that you’re wrong.. equipped with either a fun kids bed like a princess bed or a car racer bed, or a crib. a mobile safely there for you, crib accessories, comfy blankets and stuffies to kiss you goodnight. glowing stars stuck neatly along the ceiling, tiled foam mat on the floor. shelves full of pacis, bottles, sippies, diaps, toys all there organized for your comfort. it smells like your comfort scent and your comfort show is always playing. it’s safe, all for you.
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Caregivers can be caregivers to bad littles as much as littles can be littles to bad caregivers. I've never seen a post bring up this topic so I will.
Littles who manipulate their cg to take care of them longer, do exist. Littles who make their caregivers feel bad over something they can't control, exist. Littles who will ghost theirs caregivers to make them worry and/or to punish them for something, do exist. And littles that are bad DO EXIST.
I'm tired of this common trope around the community where it brings light that tell littles the red flags in caregivers, (which is important); but so is letting caregivers know what is the red flags in littles as well. There are bad caregivers, and there are bad littles as well. I've seen it brushed under the rug a lot simply because "oh littles don't know any better they don't know blah blah blah-" yeah well that isn't an excuse to treat your caregiver horribly. /Not at anyone (reading this post)
Caregivers aren't robots that are gonna be there 24/7 to take care of you. to protect you, to coddle you, etc. They have feelings and have their own bad days too. Please don't use that against them simply because they don't feel the best that day. Treat caregivers with the love and respect they deserve. They do so much for us already that it's unfair to treat them like all they are is to be your caregiver, and not some friend or anything.
Thanks for coming for my tedtalk. ~Cole, they/it, a fellow caregiver 🐰
💙 It's okay to regress.
💙 It's okay to have 'girly' interests.
💙 It's okay to cry.
💙 It's okay to prioritise your self care.
💙 It's okay to feel vulnerable.
💙 It's okay to set boundaries.
💙 You will be okay.
Kink blogs, this is not for you.
♡ Curse when little ♡ Don't use any gear ♡ Have an active sex life out of age regression ♡ Dont want a caregiver ♡ Dont always listen/watch PG rated things when little ♡ Are a system ♡ Are drop outs ♡ Still live with there parents ♡ Are straight ♡ Don't want to tell others about there reggresion ♡ Are open about there reggresion ♡ Are disabled ♡ Are married
here it is for anyone who doesn’t use insta :3
I made some art!! go take a lookie cuz im very proud of it!
can you maybe do a few emotes of a cg w their little? its fine if u dont want to
thank youuuu ❤️♥️❤️
some caregiver and little emojis ! forehead kiss , foreheadkiss w/ binkie , uppies , uppies w/ binkie , uppies w/ binkie no text , uppies no text !
I've seen "I don't know how to play with toys anymore" a few times lately and just wanted to point out-
Playing with toys looks different for everyone, even actual children!
Playing with toys can look like: 🧸🪁🚂
Taking pictures of your toys and writing captions for them
Brushing or grooming soft toys or toys with rooted hair
Ordering or sorting your toys by colour/species etc
Making up stories, poems or comics about your toys
Dressing or accessorising your toys
Imagining your toys talking to you or each other, forming opinions of their own, etc
Drawing your toys
Taking your toys for a walk outside, even in a backpack or pocket if you don't want to carry them openly
Making lists of the toys you have and where you got them etc
Feel free to add your own ideas
to tell my friends and my therapist about my age regression. they're the safest people i've ever known and i love and trust them so much. but the fear of losing them is so strong. but at the same time, if i can't tell them about part of my life, then what's the point? i just wish i knew for sure that i wouldn't lose them
tips for depressed, chronically ill, & disabled littles.
please reblog to help spread awareness!
it can sometimes be hard to feel little when you spend a lot of time in pain, bedridden, dealing with scary big thoughts, or any of the other things that can accompany mental or physical disabilities so these are things u can do to feel small with little effort.
ᯓ★ keep soft blankets + stuffies near you
literally what’s smaller than having your soft little comfort plushes with you? this is probably the easiest thing u can do that will make you feel at least a little smaller.
ᯓ★ download mobile games for kids
if you aren’t someone who can get up and down off the floor or if you’re in a lot of pain, or if its just a rough day and you want to stay in bed little kid games are good for feeling tiny.
ᯓ★ play baby music or soft lullabies
if you’re not feeling up to playing at all and just need to rest, lullabies and nursery rhymes are rlly good for helping you rest and helping you feel tiny.
ᯓ★ age regression fanfic
this might sound silly but for littles with chronic pain something that genuinely can help is mood boards, one shots, etc. about ur favorite fictional cgs.
ᯓ★ think of your ‘lazy’ clothes as baby clothes
toddlers and babies are almost always dressed in comfy soft clothes so if you’re always in your soft sweatpants or cozy pjs to alleviate discomfort it’s just like little kids getting dressed in their soft little clothes!
ᯓ★ middle regression is always an option
if you’re worried about regressing because you have to take care of yourself (ex. handle a walking aid, medicine, etc.) middle regression is super accessible because you can be regressed and do a lot of the things big you can already do
middle regression can also entail less rambunctious/active play (videos games, reading, coloring, etc.)
ᯓ★ audio books
if you look up ‘audio kids books’ or some form of that on youtube you can find kids stories read aloud! its something super fun that can make you feel small and you can do it anywhere at anytime.
ᯓ★ calming kids activities
there are a whole bunch of websites that have ‘calm down’ activities for when kids are winding down from rambunctious play (playing with play dough, sensory toys, singing abcs/nursery rhyme games)
ᯓ★ remember not all regression looks the same
you don’t have to do anything to be small or to be valid as a regressor, regression looks different for everyone. there are ppl who regress and watch horror movies or ppl who regress while doing big kid things like going to the store or to school. your disability, no matter what form it comes in, does not invalidate your regression.
if you’re a little with disabilities, mama koda loves you!!