Heterosexual Relationships Survive If The Woman Is A Cruel Mean Bitch And The Man Is A Whipped Little

we do need to revisit the wording of "you can't have your cake and eat it too" because i don't think it clearly enough conveys that it's more that you can't simultaneously retain a cake and also get to consume it (which would render you cakeless). for years i was like But why not....it's my cake....?

suddenly i have an intense deep rooted urge to learn how to fly a plane

people aren't as cool anymore because they love to be very vocal about what they wish to emulate. it's supposed to be your own little secret. for you, only. leaving everyone else wondering how you do it

it's encouraging to be around people who imagine a bigger life for themselves, whose only desire is to collaborate harmoniously with others, see opportunity instead of obstacle, people who remind you that life is about seeing how far you can go and how much fun you can have...real life enjoyers

donde está mi butch que luzca como tony soprano???

the butch/femme scene of 1990s san francisco by chloe sherman

i don’t think people understand how much of life is grief. not just people dying, but losing the version of yourself you thought you’d become. grieving the city you had to leave. the friends you lost not in argument, but in silence. the summer that will never come back. the feeling that maybe you peaked at 12 when you were reading books under the covers and believing in forever

i really hate when men make art or post their photography and its just young beautiful woman naked young beautiful woman naked young beautiful woman naked like you're actually a caveman at that point, nothing artistic about that. sex obsessed pests. boring too. go and make some art about god or the beauty of nature of anything that doesn't involve a young beautiful woman naked. impossible challenge for you.

i feel like im dismanteling a gun when i do this

Honestly, y'all, I'm begging you. Take the time to think and learn for yourself. Even if it's just something casual like knitting or cooking. Exercise your brain. It's important.