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like this post so reposting it ,thanks to original writer

HOW TO SPOT TRAUMAS AND FEARS IN A BIRTH CHART pt.1 🦇☕️

Pay attention  to the 8th HOUSE:

The 8th house is all about fears, taboo, the dark side of the human mind and what’s hidden. It’s connected with Scorpio and associated with Pluto, the planet of regeneration and rebirth, it suggests that we’re all able to find the key for heal our traumas and win over our fears.

First, look at the sign on the cousp on the 8th house, here some examples (maybe I’ll explain in another post and in a more detailed way what does the sign on the 8th house cousp mean):

Aries 8th house: fears related to taking action, defining your individuality, competition, doing something exclusively for yourself, expressing your anger, impulsive behaviors.

Taurus 8th house: fears related to your own stability, expressing yourself in a creative way, expressing the sensual side of your personality.

Gemini 8th house: fears related to communication, expressing your opinion, being chatty, being superficial, not feeling smart enough.

Cancer 8th house: fears related to your roots, your family, expressing your emotions, being vulnerable.

Leo 8th house: fears related to self-expression in general, standing up for yourself, being extra, taking leadership, vanity, feeling confident, expressing yourself through art.

Virgo 8th house: fears related to rejection, being criticized, responsibility, respecting high standards, not feeling smart enough, being imperfect.

Libra 8th house: fears related to cooperation, relationships, connecting with other people, love, loosing your balance.

Scorpio 8th house: fears related to secrets, not being able to know what’s happening around and inside of yourself, jealousy, expressing your sexuality, open up, intimacy.

Sagittarius 8th house: fear of missing something, not living your life at the fullest, being trapped, not being able to experiment and have the opportunity to learn.

Capricorn in 8th house: fears related to taking responsibility, not working/trying hard enough, showing your emotions, open up.

Aquarius in 8th house: fears related to showing your authentic side to the world, feeling weird, not being able to “fit in”, being different, loneliness.

Pisces in 8th house: fears related to chaotic situations, deep emotions, love, explore your dreams, explore your spiritual side, losing yourself.

Look at the position of Pluto in the birth chart:

The position of Pluto in a specific house of your birth chart suggests how you can heal your traumas. Pluto can be a tricky planet, it’s connected to karmic lessons and can be challenging keeping on repeat the same lessons again and again until you change the game in a definitive way.

Pluto in 1th house: define your identity, find your authentic self and don’t be afraid to express who you truly are, open up with others, accept unconditionally your unique way to independence is the key.

Pluto in 2th house: find your comfort zone, guarantee yourself a stable lifestyle, develop resilience and try to set reachable goals for yourself, try to express yourself through art.

Pluto in 3th house: speak your mind, connect with people around you, share your ideas, relationships are important for your healing journey, write down your emotions, heal the relationships with your siblings.

Pluto in 4th house: understand and nurture your emotions, heal the relationship with your family, understand your roots and practice unconditional love, heal your inner child, feel a sense of belonging with your community.

Pluto in 5th house: heal your relationship with your inner child or surround yourself with children, give yourself the opportunity to “act like a kid” again, work on being spontaneous and less shy, express yourself through art and theater.

Pluto in 6th house: follow a healthy lifestyle, eat well and drink more water, do gym, work on your goals and dedicate your energy to a project or volunteering, connect with animals.

Pluto in 7th house: establish healthy relationships with others, define healthy boundaries with others, open up, establish 50-50 relationships based on mutual respect and cooperation.

Pluto in the 8th house: establish a healthy approach towards sexuality, explore your spiritual side and activate yourself in a direct way towards your fears, be honest and don’t fear your deepest thoughts.

Pluto in the 9 th house: expand your horizons through  travel and education, learn is the key for healing your trauma, connect with new realities, explore your spiritual and philosophical side.

Pluto in the 10th house: find your goals and work hard to achieve them, you can heal your wounds through a carrier that makes you feel happy and aligned with your highest goals, you need a lot of structure and to work on your approach to responsibility.

Pluto in the 11th house: you need to find a community and work with people that shares your same view of life, find a place where you can feel a sense of belonging and community, don’t isolate yourself and open up with others, you can heal your wounds through friendships.

Pluto in the 12th house: you need to explore with your spiritual side, work on your internal dialog, try to sleep well, analyze your dreams and trust your intuition, your spiritual gift will guide you through the healing process.

Nice post so reposting it😉🙈

Can you do a turn ons for the mars in the houses and what they’ll need to climax?!

Mars in the 1st house: Could need their hair pulled or tenderly played with during sex, facial area focused kisses, aggressive and or passionate strokes, they tend to cum quickly so anything that gets to the point, ear kisses, and riding positions I’d also say that the more bold may like more submissive v submissie positions.

To make them climax: the hair and cranium is your best friend-the scalp or anything that stimulates the hair/ears/ temples and lips.

Mars in the 2nd house: Could need the neck, love handles and collar bones tenderly touched or played with during sex, neck kisses and slow-delayed strokes, they take some time to cum and need multiple sources of stimuli on their body and to be incorporated in their surroundings so candles, tv being on in the background and so on. Men and women here similarly to the 8th may need for fallatio or cunnilingus incorporated in the sexual encounter in order to climax.

To make them climax: head is a good way, but so is tantra and foreplay! Involving the senses with food or aromas is another great way, sensual and touching them all across their body during sex in slow lingering ways is like gold for them.

Mars in the 3rd house: Could like their hands, upper arms and shoulders tenderly touched or played with during sex! May be the types to hold your hands in certain positions or pin you down, eye contact and plenty of verbal talk stimulates them and allows their mind to race towards the goal(sorts like a Marco Polo thing) they can like fingering, and may need oral stimulus similar to the 3rd house but they prefer to give it rather than receive it and this goes for men and women with this! They may like to eat you out or eat your ass(I’m not kidding) as it actually makes them get turned on. Fast strokes that can seem to lack direction.

To make them climax: Letting them serve you or do oral is great, be VERY vocal and let them know how and where you like it(they like being led around your body) being a bit hard to get and changing your movements a lot keeps them on edge and can cause them to climax, once more playing with their hands is a biggie.

Mars in the 4th house: Could like their breast or chest being played with! They can be the types to have sex in positions that make a baby so missionary, traditional/vanilla styles of deep penetration positions are their fave, they might be emotional during the act and because of this they need tender responses and for their to be an emotionally sensitive/receptive air to feel their most sexually invited, foreplay and telling them/confessing feelings you have for them or even just whispering them affections comes a long way for them sexually. Sensitive strokes/starting and stopping a lot to ensure you’re comfortable.

To make them climax: Depends on how close y’all are but(baby talk or telling them you want them to cum in you will send them to the mountains for the men) and women may prefer raw or without a condum which is why both men and women here prefer sex with someone they know and trust. Emotional intensity and wanting them can send them into climax.

Mars in the 5th house: Worshiping them, and admiration/body worship, being very vocal about you pleasure and dramatic theatrics, they are the types to be high energy so beating them to the punch in intensity or desire is a hugely erotic thing for them, being submissive depending on the mars in the 5th house native is super sexy to them whilst others prefer someone with a matching fire, having an insatiable desire for them and treating them as if they’re the best sexual experience, touching the upper back and running your fingers down their spine! Running your hands through their hair and anal positions like doggy style and so on. Flamboyant strokes as if they’re preforming.

To make them climax: PRAISE THE SUN 😂 no seriously compliments/moaning/begging and pleading them can really turn them on and cause them to climax.

Mars in the 6th house: Cleanliness(I know everyone says it but seriously) a reserved nature towards the act, innocence and being a bit initially slow burn, being eager to please them/serve them, being submissive and or not so forceful with them and letting them take the ropes! Unlike mars in Virgo they’re dominant in nature and prefer the leading role. Foreplay and tenderly touching their belly and lower groin area(just above the privates) dressing up or fantasy play, they prefer vocal lovers since it lets them know they’re doing something right but as I said they can be a bit shy themselves so by vocal I mean in a turned on way not theatrical like the 5th. Systematic strokes with a sort of critical flavor to them as if they’re trying to hit it at the perfect spot

To make them climax: ORAL ORAL ORAL. They climax better in anal positions as the 6th house is…as they say anal retentive lmao. But yes any position in which they’re able to do it in the back they love and cum the quickest with men and women. They might need a bit of coaxing as they can suffer from self doubt so ensure that they know you’re enjoying the experience otherwise you’ll have to start from scratch.

Mars in the 7th house: Stimulation of the ass region and also the lower to mid thighs during sex, sensual/aggressive passion sexually maybe a mixture of harsh but soft touches, riding positions like the reverse cowgirl or anything that has you bouncing on them, they really love butts and this is the house of partnership so if this is a long term thing they really love you’re booty and will probably grab it a whole lot and spank during sex or want to be spanked and grabed, they could need a lot of stimulation in these areas so sex may really involve penetration and sensual touches, they tend to like intimacy and eyes contact so they’ll likely want positions where that is possible to some extent. Ardent and loving strokes you’ll feel the love.

To make them climax: They tend to link up to your own desire since mars becomes Kinda psychic here so they could climax the moment you do, they’ll likely be pretty good at making you climax though, I can’t stress enough for men and women here touch their booties they will most likely climax from that itself if done the right way and consistently through the act.

Mars in the 8th house: Like previously mentioned fallatio and cunnilingas are your best friends, they actually prefer to receive head rather than give it out in some cases but it’s not a selfish thing it’s just the 8th house rules the genitalia and mars being here really emphasizes on these natives sensitivity here, intense but slow strokes! Seduction and teasing throughout the sexual experience are big, like Aries foreplay isn’t a biggie here but the women may like to entice, deep penetration and paying attention to the crotch region and even the neck to some extent can be big areas of turn ons

To make them climax: Oral helps but really they’re unpredictable I won’t lie, sometimes it can be penetration in some angles or speeds whilst other times it’s just whenever they’re finally ready to stop I do know eye contact maintained can really quicken how quickly they cum.

Mars in the 9th house: Playing with their lower thighs and to some extent fingering as a means of warming them up, doing it out side or somewhere you shouldn’t be, being sexually aggressive or forward(with their consent of course) they’re not the types for foreplay but being experimental or incorporating new ways of doing things whilst in the moment can be a turn on, stroking in fun but romantic ways is their thing but most like intense strokes.

To make them climax: Men and women here can either be well endowed or just have a desire to be deeply penetrated so enough of this should usually do it!

Mars in the 10th house: The knees, the area nearest the diaphragm and pelvis tend to be key areas to focus on, they may enjoy a certain level of gentleness or submission from their partners, being allowed to go Wild is a huge turn on-they’re the types to feel you out sexually and see what you can handle before showing their more controlling and dominant side sexually, may need to be in a place of comfort or in a public place as a means to rebel, can enjoy teasing and sexual build up as it makes them climax harder, they tend to prefer traditional positions but that being said their strokes are often heavy and can take the wind out of you literally.

To make them climax: Work hard! They take a really really long time to climax and in some cases they end up having to masterbate in order to finish, but in the case you did want to take on the journey a good way to aid the process is building up your own stamina as they tend to be able to go hours on end before climaxing.

Mars in the 11th house: They’re around pretty quick but it depends on what the sign mars is in for how and what causes the fast arousal, quick strokes with an erratic moment, rubbing along their ankles with your feet or toes can be a turn on, semi detached positions or constant position switching can be a biggie, sex Toys and seeming out of reach in a way sexually turns them on as well, being open and ardent but not overly grounded helps, there is a big desire for them not to understand their sexual partner.

To make them climax: Be hard to read, they like intensity without the actual presence so blending a ON/OFF sort of sexual energy during the act will likely make them insatiable and climax.

Mars in the 12th house: This is the last house so all of the above tend to stimulate them! They prefer receptivity and tenderness though and can easily get turned off by overly aggressive or overly detached sexual energies so if they feel like you’re not really paying attention to their feelings or being receptive to the energy they’re sending out during sex they’ll likely stop or leave(I’m not kidding and if they don’t leave they’ll just check out emotionally) usually the type to enjoy softness and aggression(although not to much) from the other person. Touch foreplay and lots of body touching, emotional warmth and sincerity as well as having a emotional connection, slow rhythmic strokes as if music is playing in the background and in most cases it will be.

To make them climax: Treat them tenderly and cautiously the more they know you’re matching their energy and vibe with each stroke and touch the more they’ll be able to include their actual body into the act leading up to them climaxing.

Hope this helps love. ♥️

I hope for it may also works for me ,too.

ok universe, i’m ready to feel good things. make me feel good things.

You just speak the words ,out of my heart,Venus in cancer and moon in Leo but in house of cancer,and with psyche in cancer .

Cancer

I know that when you are alone and crying into the darkness you rise the sea and the tides and you think nobody notices

Taurus sun,cancer moon and Pisces rising in vedic astrology

send me ur sun moon and rising signs n I'll tell u if I'd kiss marry or kill u

I am a gemeni syn and have lot of attraction towards a sgittarius sun but as a opposite signs like leo and aqua..i find it hard to really come to common ground with saggs..and so find it very disappointing but yeah there is some kind of attraction that pull and push you..the same time and so sometimes,i too hate that feeling.

BLACK Colour :

Black is the colour alloted to the zoadic sign of pisces(two fishes swims in opposite directions). ,Living deep down where no sun light can even reach,creating black still there's world so beautiful and colourfull, despite of all being dark. SECONDLY#... It's been all dark n black infused with red in Womb still a mother,so powerfully believe &waiting for a .....,...... New life to be born. BLACK is to believe in the unknown,when there is nothing to be believed,through dark in to light.....

Questionaire

astrology ask thing

aries: what are you passionate about?

taurus: name 3 of your favorite books.

gemini: what was the last text you sent?

cancer: if you could choose your child’s zodiac sign, what would it be?

leo: name something you love about yourself.

virgo: what’s your #1 pet peeve?

libra: describe your dream partner.

scorpio: do you trust easily?

sagittarius: if you could travel to any place in the world, where would it be?

capricorn: what’s your dream job?

aquarius: do you believe in aliens?

pisces: describe someone you love.

sun: describe yourself in 3 words.

moon: what’s your favorite song?

rising/asc: how would you describe your style?

mars: are you easily angered?

venus: what’s your aesthetic?

mercury: what color do you talk in?

jupiter: what moral do you live by?

saturn: what’s your biggest fear?

uranus: are you rebellious?

neptune: share one of your dreams.

pluto: what’s the biggest thing you’ve learned by far in your life?

lilith: do you have any guilty pleasures?

chiron: have you ever broken a bone?

ceres: are you a momfriend?

pallas: do you have a good relationship with your parents?

juno: do you believe in soul mates?

1st house: are you confident?

2nd house: if you could only keep one of your personal items, what would you choose?

3rd house: do you like to read?

4th house: what does your bedroom look like?

5th house: name your favorite movie or show.

6th house: do you participate in community service?

7th house: if you could choose, what zodiac sign would you like your dream partner to be?

8th house: do you believe in reincarnation?

9th house: what’s your favorite quote?

10th house: are you good at public speaking?

11th house: what sign(s) is your best friend/squad?

12th house: do you like to be alone?

That's been sad.we should work with them to help them out of it.

A lot of our parents are walking around with undiagnosed mental illnesses and that shit is traumatizing. Let’s have that conversation.