Nice post so reposting it๐๐
Can you do a turn ons for the mars in the houses and what theyโll need to climax?!
Mars in the 1st house: Could need their hair pulled or tenderly played with during sex, facial area focused kisses, aggressive and or passionate strokes, they tend to cum quickly so anything that gets to the point, ear kisses, and riding positions Iโd also say that the more bold may like more submissive v submissie positions.
To make them climax: the hair and cranium is your best friend-the scalp or anything that stimulates the hair/ears/ temples and lips.
Mars in the 2nd house: Could need the neck, love handles and collar bones tenderly touched or played with during sex, neck kisses and slow-delayed strokes, they take some time to cum and need multiple sources of stimuli on their body and to be incorporated in their surroundings so candles, tv being on in the background and so on. Men and women here similarly to the 8th may need for fallatio or cunnilingus incorporated in the sexual encounter in order to climax.
To make them climax: head is a good way, but so is tantra and foreplay! Involving the senses with food or aromas is another great way, sensual and touching them all across their body during sex in slow lingering ways is like gold for them.
Mars in the 3rd house: Could like their hands, upper arms and shoulders tenderly touched or played with during sex! May be the types to hold your hands in certain positions or pin you down, eye contact and plenty of verbal talk stimulates them and allows their mind to race towards the goal(sorts like a Marco Polo thing) they can like fingering, and may need oral stimulus similar to the 3rd house but they prefer to give it rather than receive it and this goes for men and women with this! They may like to eat you out or eat your ass(Iโm not kidding) as it actually makes them get turned on. Fast strokes that can seem to lack direction.
To make them climax: Letting them serve you or do oral is great, be VERY vocal and let them know how and where you like it(they like being led around your body) being a bit hard to get and changing your movements a lot keeps them on edge and can cause them to climax, once more playing with their hands is a biggie.
Mars in the 4th house: Could like their breast or chest being played with! They can be the types to have sex in positions that make a baby so missionary, traditional/vanilla styles of deep penetration positions are their fave, they might be emotional during the act and because of this they need tender responses and for their to be an emotionally sensitive/receptive air to feel their most sexually invited, foreplay and telling them/confessing feelings you have for them or even just whispering them affections comes a long way for them sexually. Sensitive strokes/starting and stopping a lot to ensure youโre comfortable.
To make them climax: Depends on how close yโall are but(baby talk or telling them you want them to cum in you will send them to the mountains for the men) and women may prefer raw or without a condum which is why both men and women here prefer sex with someone they know and trust. Emotional intensity and wanting them can send them into climax.
Mars in the 5th house: Worshiping them, and admiration/body worship, being very vocal about you pleasure and dramatic theatrics, they are the types to be high energy so beating them to the punch in intensity or desire is a hugely erotic thing for them, being submissive depending on the mars in the 5th house native is super sexy to them whilst others prefer someone with a matching fire, having an insatiable desire for them and treating them as if theyโre the best sexual experience, touching the upper back and running your fingers down their spine! Running your hands through their hair and anal positions like doggy style and so on. Flamboyant strokes as if theyโre preforming.
To make them climax: PRAISE THE SUN ๐ no seriously compliments/moaning/begging and pleading them can really turn them on and cause them to climax.
Mars in the 6th house: Cleanliness(I know everyone says it but seriously) a reserved nature towards the act, innocence and being a bit initially slow burn, being eager to please them/serve them, being submissive and or not so forceful with them and letting them take the ropes! Unlike mars in Virgo theyโre dominant in nature and prefer the leading role. Foreplay and tenderly touching their belly and lower groin area(just above the privates) dressing up or fantasy play, they prefer vocal lovers since it lets them know theyโre doing something right but as I said they can be a bit shy themselves so by vocal I mean in a turned on way not theatrical like the 5th. Systematic strokes with a sort of critical flavor to them as if theyโre trying to hit it at the perfect spot
To make them climax: ORAL ORAL ORAL. They climax better in anal positions as the 6th house isโฆas they say anal retentive lmao. But yes any position in which theyโre able to do it in the back they love and cum the quickest with men and women. They might need a bit of coaxing as they can suffer from self doubt so ensure that they know youโre enjoying the experience otherwise youโll have to start from scratch.
Mars in the 7th house: Stimulation of the ass region and also the lower to mid thighs during sex, sensual/aggressive passion sexually maybe a mixture of harsh but soft touches, riding positions like the reverse cowgirl or anything that has you bouncing on them, they really love butts and this is the house of partnership so if this is a long term thing they really love youโre booty and will probably grab it a whole lot and spank during sex or want to be spanked and grabed, they could need a lot of stimulation in these areas so sex may really involve penetration and sensual touches, they tend to like intimacy and eyes contact so theyโll likely want positions where that is possible to some extent. Ardent and loving strokes youโll feel the love.
To make them climax: They tend to link up to your own desire since mars becomes Kinda psychic here so they could climax the moment you do, theyโll likely be pretty good at making you climax though, I canโt stress enough for men and women here touch their booties they will most likely climax from that itself if done the right way and consistently through the act.
Mars in the 8th house: Like previously mentioned fallatio and cunnilingas are your best friends, they actually prefer to receive head rather than give it out in some cases but itโs not a selfish thing itโs just the 8th house rules the genitalia and mars being here really emphasizes on these natives sensitivity here, intense but slow strokes! Seduction and teasing throughout the sexual experience are big, like Aries foreplay isnโt a biggie here but the women may like to entice, deep penetration and paying attention to the crotch region and even the neck to some extent can be big areas of turn ons
To make them climax: Oral helps but really theyโre unpredictable I wonโt lie, sometimes it can be penetration in some angles or speeds whilst other times itโs just whenever theyโre finally ready to stop I do know eye contact maintained can really quicken how quickly they cum.
Mars in the 9th house: Playing with their lower thighs and to some extent fingering as a means of warming them up, doing it out side or somewhere you shouldnโt be, being sexually aggressive or forward(with their consent of course) theyโre not the types for foreplay but being experimental or incorporating new ways of doing things whilst in the moment can be a turn on, stroking in fun but romantic ways is their thing but most like intense strokes.
To make them climax: Men and women here can either be well endowed or just have a desire to be deeply penetrated so enough of this should usually do it!
Mars in the 10th house: The knees, the area nearest the diaphragm and pelvis tend to be key areas to focus on, they may enjoy a certain level of gentleness or submission from their partners, being allowed to go Wild is a huge turn on-theyโre the types to feel you out sexually and see what you can handle before showing their more controlling and dominant side sexually, may need to be in a place of comfort or in a public place as a means to rebel, can enjoy teasing and sexual build up as it makes them climax harder, they tend to prefer traditional positions but that being said their strokes are often heavy and can take the wind out of you literally.
To make them climax: Work hard! They take a really really long time to climax and in some cases they end up having to masterbate in order to finish, but in the case you did want to take on the journey a good way to aid the process is building up your own stamina as they tend to be able to go hours on end before climaxing.
Mars in the 11th house: Theyโre around pretty quick but it depends on what the sign mars is in for how and what causes the fast arousal, quick strokes with an erratic moment, rubbing along their ankles with your feet or toes can be a turn on, semi detached positions or constant position switching can be a biggie, sex Toys and seeming out of reach in a way sexually turns them on as well, being open and ardent but not overly grounded helps, there is a big desire for them not to understand their sexual partner.
To make them climax: Be hard to read, they like intensity without the actual presence so blending a ON/OFF sort of sexual energy during the act will likely make them insatiable and climax.
Mars in the 12th house: This is the last house so all of the above tend to stimulate them! They prefer receptivity and tenderness though and can easily get turned off by overly aggressive or overly detached sexual energies so if they feel like youโre not really paying attention to their feelings or being receptive to the energy theyโre sending out during sex theyโll likely stop or leave(Iโm not kidding and if they donโt leave theyโll just check out emotionally) usually the type to enjoy softness and aggression(although not to much) from the other person. Touch foreplay and lots of body touching, emotional warmth and sincerity as well as having a emotional connection, slow rhythmic strokes as if music is playing in the background and in most cases it will be.
To make them climax: Treat them tenderly and cautiously the more they know youโre matching their energy and vibe with each stroke and touch the more theyโll be able to include their actual body into the act leading up to them climaxing.
Hope this helps love. โฅ๏ธ
O!..my..this is so true i litterally asked for that from God to give me the man,i adored in the life,here after๐๐
i like it so reposting it
- โกย I have noticed that Leo sun/rising/MC tend to โdress upโ and fall short of their parents, especially girls. - โก I am convinced that our true feminine or masculine essence is reflected in our solar and ascendant sidereal sign.
- โก Many Gemini Sun tend to raise themselves from a teenage stage and look for unconventional alternatives to develop as people or in their work. Also, Gemini ppl frequently create their ventures independently where the majority have to do with fashion.
- โก Aquarius sun/moon females radiate a kind of sweet, magical aura that attracts vulnerable people. It is easy for them to connect with children and animals.
- โก Cancer sun/moon or MC usually create things and crafts in an artisanal way where they reflect their personal tastes, be it a lifestyle at an early age or in old age.
- โก Neptune in 12th often seek clearance from reality in cartoons from their childhood where, in some way, they feel much more inspired.
- โก The modeling industry is often looking for unique faces, so it is no wonder that many models have locations on Aquarius (rising/mc) or uranus in 1st.
- โก Virgo and Aquarius couples tend to live very striking, unique romantic stories with some personal drama before or after meeting too raw that reinforces their connection..
- โก Libra sun/venus males are usually excellent hosts and many of them are dedicated to interior design.
- โก Sagittarius females find it easy to gather and befriend broken or stressed circles. Generally, they can bring harmony in damaged households.
- โก Aquarius rising tend to grow up over demanding in terms of their personal development, especially if they have any artistic talent, causing them problems of confidence in their toughness.
- โก for people with Leo or Sagittarius in 5th/10th it is important to give or receive gifts as a sign of affection and importance. Also, there are occasions that seem to hint at it in a subtle way when they wish to receive a gift.
- โก I have noticed that Aquarius ppl were teachers/bosses and inspiration of successful people in various fields (acting, sports, etc)
- โก Pisces Mercury really despise rudeness and vulgar vocabulary.
- โก Capricorn Mercury ppl tend to be quite interested in enigmas, criminal mysteries or unsolved cases, dedicating themselves exhaustively to solving them.
- โก Libra rising like to wear things that highlight their body by wearing clothes with nude colors or something that reveals their attributes a bit.
- โก Capricorn in 4th usually live in Victorian or overly old houses with shocking stories/events in history.
- โก Aquarius & Pisces have the potential to realize their dreams together or to help each other realize them. When an Aqua and Pisces are together, a strange spiritual connection is created that benefits their esoteric side, having more pleasant and fanciful dreams (both can also be found in lucid dreams) and also share the materialization of their most intimate desires.
- โก Speaking of neighboring signs, Gemini and Cancer often find themselves in depressing romantic situations, coming into each otherโs lives at some crucial moment, beginning to recover with the company of both.
- โก Aquarius rising/Uranus in 1st are quite shooting and electrifying. Their physical features are always in constant change in a natural way or it seems that they are a different person from time to time. For example, Aquarius rules the ocular iris; its color can change to green, blue, brown and confuse people. It is one of these reasons why Aquarius is considered one of the chameleon signs.
- โก Aries Mars take pleasure in recording their intimate encounters with other people or by giving themselves pleasure. Aquarius Mars feels a similar but more private pleasure. They both love taking erotic pictures of themselves more than anything to appreciate themselves or share that pleasure with someone else.
- โก Sagittarius females is probably the easiest sign to identify with the naked eye. Many of them have a punk/grunge style full of tattoos, vintage clothing mixed with more hippie tones and possibly have too many piercings.
- โก Taurus Mercury usually look for a partner who shares their somewhat black and unique type of humor, since that fuels their love awakening more intensely.
- โก Capricorn sun/rising/venus ppl often bring you nostalgic memories of your childhood and family when you are around them. They tend to have that pleasant presence and usually their fragrance envelops you in places through time.
- โก Aquarius and Pisces sun females often have a healing effect on people. Both have a very broad and open intuition and spiritual sense that allows them to act with a lot of charisma and tranquility, giving magical moments to people who are going through a bad time.
- โก Aries and Aquarius seem to inspire each other be it in lifestyle or fashion. It is not uncommon to see these couples or friends dress the same or help each other dress up, share a taste for art or material things.
- โก Water signs and Aquarius Venus always end up living on the beach / islands to spend the rest of their lives.
- โก The visual sense is important to inspire Aquarius and Aries rising ppl. They really appreciate that their concept of beauty is present on the outside.
- โก Aquarius females children tend to grow up blindly believing in fairy tales and mythological creatures such as mermaids, fairies, dragons, vampires, etc. They usually carry these beliefs into their grimness by becoming lovers or collectors of related objects.
- โก Pisces/Taurus moon often create their own beauty products with organic elements. They also like to try natural medicines.
like the post so reposting it
๐ป๐๐ฆ! ๐ผ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ก ๐ค๐๐๐ก๐๐ ๐ก๐ ๐ ๐๐ฆ ๐กโ๐๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ข ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐๐ฆ ๐๐๐ ๐ก ๐๐๐ ๐ก ๐ ๐ ๐๐ข๐โ ๐๐ก๐ก๐๐๐ก๐๐๐ (๐๐ข๐ก ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ ๐๐ฆ ๐กโ๐ ๐ผ ๐๐๐๐โ๐ก ๐กโ๐๐๐ ๐กโ๐๐ก ๐๐๐๐ฆ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ค๐๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ก) โ๐๐๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ฆ ๐กโ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ก ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ฆ ๐๐๐ ๐ก, ๐๐ข๐ก ๐ผ ๐๐๐๐ ๐กโ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ก๐ก๐ฆ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐๐ฆ ๐ ๐ ๐ผโ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฆ ๐๐ ๐๐ก ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ข๐ โ๐๐. ๐ผ ๐๐๐โ๐ก ๐๐๐ก ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐กโ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ก๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ก ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐๐๐ ๐ค๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐กโ๐๐ ๐ ๐ข๐ ๐ข๐๐๐๐ฆ ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ก๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐. ๐ต๐ข๐ก ๐๐๐๐ ๐ผโ๐ฃ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐ , ๐๐ฆ ๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐, ๐๐๐ ๐ผ ๐ค๐๐๐ ๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ค๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐๐ .
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๐ปMoon in the 5th tend to be super gifted artistically. They tend to be very shy and self conscious about what they make, but itโs usually very cool. They usually start developing their talent at a young age and keep building on it over time. Also, since the 5th house rules children, it could mean theyโll have a very soft spoken/sensitive child (or cancer dominant one).
๐ปRetrograde Neptune or Neptune in the 12th tend to have very vivid dreams. This sometimes also applies to people with Neptune-Moon aspects, but not always.ย
๐ปSpeaking of dreams, Iโve heard Pluto in the 12th individuals have a lot of Nightmares. I have a couple family members with this placement and while I partially agree with that, Iโve also noticed Pluto in the 12th tends to have very few dreams, or donโt remember any of them.ย
๐ปSaturn in the 1st/conjunct ascendant people tend to be very tall. Long facial features are common with this placement too.ย
๐ปIโve noticed the sign we usually have the roughest relationships/dislike the most is the same sign as our 12th house. Iโve heard other people say itโs actually 6th or 8th, but with the majority of people I meet, Itโs usually 12th.
๐ปThis ones a little sad, but Iโve noticed people with sun opposite moon or venus opposite mars tend to have separated/divorced parents.
๐ปPeople with IC in Scorpio were probably considered pretty intimidating in their youth. Kids may have been scared of you for no reason. In extreme cases, Scorpio IC can show having to deal with the concept of death at a young age. Such as having a near death experience or have a family member die.
๐ปThis will probably make some people mad, but I have to say one more thing on Scorpio. The astrology community really needs to stop overseuxalizing Scorpio in general, BUT ESPECIALLY Venus and Mars. Now, while I do agree they can be very passionate, they usually take a very long time to let down their guard. They also tend to value intimacy/closeness in their relationships much more than anything else. While they can be kinky and all ~bad boy/girl~ like you all are describing, itโs WILDLY over exaggerated. Realistically, not many scorpio dominant or Scorpio venus/mars people fit that stereotype.
๐ปOkay sorry about the rant, MOVING ON: Mars In capricorn would do really well working in some branch of the military. They tend to be pretty physically strong, and they usually respect/listen to orders and people in positions of power, but they wonโt hesitate to talk trash about you if they think you are bad at your job ;) . They are also very good at commanding people and planning ahead.Also, if they are given any sort of power, they typically utilize it in a productive/positive way.ย
๐ปLilith and Venus in the 11th constantly flirt with their own friends. The difference between the two is Venus in the 11th is a lot more sweet/playful when they flirt, and Lilith in the 11th will be a lot more sexual/direct about it. But the downside to this is that both of those placements donโt even realize they are flirting half the time, and tend to get confused when their friends admit to having feelings for them.
๐ปSide note about Lilith in the 11th! It can also manifest in the complete opposite way and make it so somebody has a very hard time making friends/doesnโt want friends. But if the Native does want friends or already has some, they will probably flirt with them in the way I mentioned in the paragraph above.ย ย
๐ปPeople either seem to love or hate Sagittarius rising women. To be completely honest, Sag. rising women tend to be very attractive, and theyโre usually pretty confident too. While none of that is bad, it definitely makes a lot of people jealous of them, or call them arrogant (even when they arenโt most of the time). The majority of them are also really blunt and have a crude sense of humor, which people either seem to love or hate about them. Sag. rising men are the same way, but for some reason people hate on them nowhere near as much
๐ปChiron/Mars in the 6th house/Virgo tend to have a huge fear of judgement, and they also tend to be overly self deprecating. Similarly, people with the moon in the 6th/Virgo always feel like something in their life needs to be โfixedโ or that there is something they need to fix about themselves.ย
๐ปOn a lighter note, I honestly really admire people with Libra moon. Assuming their moon isnโt super harshly aspected (and if they donโt have a super strong/angry mars), they tend to be very good at staying calm in stressful situations. They also tend to have great coping mechanisms for when they get upset/overwhelmed. Iโve gotten close to a couple and they are some of the most emotionally stable people Iโve ever met.
๐ปHarsh planets (like Pluto, Mars and Saturn) in either the 4th house/Cancer probably get nauseous or have stomach issues when they get nervous.
๐ปCapricorn dominant/Capricorn IC children are scarily clever and calculatingโฆevery one of them Iโve met is wise beyond their years or acts like an โold soulโ. They also tend to be pretty well mannered tbh, and adults typically like them.ย ย ย
๐ปGemini risings are usually pretty short/skinny, and if they have any older siblings they tend to look very similar to them. They typically make friends very easily as well.ย
๐ปRant #2 of this post: Why do air moons always get described as emotionless/robotic? As somebody with an air moon (with mostly air moon friends) this couldnโt be further from the truth. While itโs true we definitely try to diminish or run away from our feelings, we still feel things just as frequently and often as everyone else. I swear, some members of the astrology community think itโs impossible to have any emotional depth unless youโre a water moon (no hate to water moons tho, theyโre cool nโ all).
๐ปPluto aspecting personal planets (especially harsher aspects) or having multiple planets in either the 8th/2nd house can make somebody more prone to obsessing over things/make it hard for somebody to let things go.ย
๐ปJupiter/Venus/Lilith in the 7th are usually very charming. Itโs also not uncommon for them to have multiple people crushing on them at the same time.ย
๐ป12th house planets are difficult. They arenโt bad, but they usually are a bit of a pain. The reason why is that the 12th house represents things that are hidden. So any planets in the 12th house represents a part of your personality that you probably have a hard time expressing. For example, Venus in the 12th Natives usually have a hard time expressing their romantic feelings. Mars in the 12th probably have a very hard time expressing their anger, and have a hard time standing up for themselves.
I just reposted it,as i find it an interesting aspect in asteology.thanks to the writer of the real post.
You just speak the words ,out of my heart,Venus in cancer and moon in Leo but in house of cancer,and with psyche in cancer .
Cancer
I know that when you are alone and crying into the darkness you rise the sea and the tides and you think nobody notices
That's impressive so reblonging it.
Death + Ace of Cups
Love that lasts a day after forever
Six of Pentacles + Five of Pentacles
Love that asks for nothing in return
Knight of Wands + King of Wands
Love that makes a boy into a man
The Tower + Four of Wands
Love that can withstand any earthquake
Seven of Wands + Knight of Swords
Love that will fight and die for you
Six of Wands + The World
Love that puts you on a pedestal
The Moon + The Sun
Love that consumes you night and day
The Devil + Four of Pentacles
Flaming love that engulfs you
Ace of Cups + Ten of Cups
Love you never have to shed tears for
Two of Cups + The High Priestess
Love you recognize at first sight
Six of Cups + Two of Cups
Friendship that blooms into love
The Hermit + The Fool
Love that outlasts time itself
Death + The Wheel of Fortune
Love that can resurrect a dying soul
Ace of Wands + The Sun
Lust that matures into love
The Hermit + Strength
Love that grows stronger each passing day
Five of Pentacles + Ten of Pentacles
Love that makes lords out of beggars
The Hierophant + Four of Wands
Love no storm can conquer
Reposting it as it is a good post.
The Moon in Aries person and their motherโฆ
Your relationship with your mother is never boring. She is strong, emotionally clear and direct. However, because of your intense moon in Aries desire to be a strong leader who charts your own course, your mother can also seem overbearing and willful. This is due to your constant need to push your own agenda forward, which naturally meets resistance from your mother who doesnโt always agree with your plans. You see this resistance as willful and you believe it is only meant to sabotage your plans because you fail to realize that she only looking out for your safety and well being. So, you push her further. When she finally gets angry, you see her as antagonistic, selfish and belligerent. The more you push, the stronger she has to be to hold the line with you. As you get older, this cycle makes you see your mother as an assertive, strong willed woman who knows how to take care of herself.
The Moon in Taurus person and their motherโฆ
As a moon in Taurus person, you have high expectations of your motherโs ability to provide for your practical, every-day needs. You expect her to be dependable and practical while making sure you have the necessities of life to remain comfortable. Life is meant to be savored and your mother is meant to provide the practical means for you to savor it. As you go through life, you ask her to provide you with a constant stream of things to make your life pleasurable and satisfying. If she is able to provide them easily, you see her as a sweet, reliable provider who is always there for you. If she isnโt always to provide them, you see her as an overly practical person who is stubborn and too careful with money. However, because your nature is gentle and sensitive, yet persistent, you push her to her limit to make sure you can get what you want. Yet, you never push her hard enough to make her attitude toward you turn angry and sour. So, you generally see her as kind.
The Moon in Gemini person and their motherโฆ
Your light, detached, active and agile Gemini moon always keeps your mother on her feet. You are like a feather dancing in the wind and she can never quite catch you. She quickly realizes it is useless to try and gives you the freedom you always assume is normal in life. Her reaction to and acceptance of your need to run free makes you see your mother as light and detached, but she is only reacting to your behavior. You are never going to accept a slow, restricted life. So, if your mother allows you space, you see it as a bit flighty or disconnected at times. If she fights you on this, your quick mind will likely find plenty of sharp and unfortunately often painfully precise verbal rebuttals. Her reaction to these rebuttals will make you believe she has the sharp tongue not you. However you do look to her as a source of information and as a teacher. You always know you can learn from her, and your inquisitive Gemini moon delights in her as a person with whom you can exercise your mind or sharpen your mental claws. Because she can always engage you in games, conversation or any kind of mental gymnastics, you come to see her as intelligent, someone with a sharp mind, or at the very least, someone who is always there to chat.
The Moon in Cancer person and their motherโฆ
You see your mother as someone who goes through a lot of emotionally exhausting times in her life. Itโs not that sheโs weak, but she is someone who lands in situations that constantly try her emotional strength. Your need for her motherly nurturing gives you a deep emotional connection with her. Itโs your need for her emotional attention that makes you focus on her and gives you insight into her emotional ups and downs. You are focused on her, and because she canโt give you attention you need when she is in pain, you almost feel the pain with her. Your need for her love gives you a desire to see your mother as sensitive and caring. Then when she isnโt, your reaction can be quite powerful. Even the hint of rejection from her sends you into emotional turmoil. The pain of her rejection, which may only be temporary, beyond her control or for your own good, will make you reflect your bad feelings back onto her because they are too painful to claim as your own. It has to be her fault, otherwise you just canโt cope. Then suddenly she becomes the mean person who is purposely hurting you, when you are likely just blinded by your own pain. Your feelings for her are strong and you need her in your life, caring for you. She is a pillar for you and you rely on her, but you it doesnโt just work one way. You are also always there for her.
The Moon in Leo person and their motherโฆ
A big presence, whether for the better or worse, describes your mother. She is expressive and doesnโt hold back her true feelings. You always know where you stand with her because she tells you whatโs on her mind immediately. Your up-front approach in dealing with hermakes this possible for her. You donโt mind calling her out on any lies she tells you and you have no problem telling her to mind her own business or stop treating you like a child. This stems from the high sense of pride you have in yourself. It fuels your need to keep a balance of power in your relationship. So, when pressed, you arenโt afraid to raise your voice to your mother and tell her how you feel about whatever she is saying or how she is dealing with you. However, your sense of pride in yourself also makes you self-conscious and it gives you a haunting desire to assure yourself that your mother likes you. You must constantly balance your need to maintain power with your need to be accepted and liked.
The Moon in Virgo person and their motherโฆ
Somehow even as a young child you are acutely aware of the give and take dynamic in relationships. Your sense of how much your mother does for you and how well she cares for your needs is acute. So, itโs difficult for her to measure up to your expectations and it often seem she isnโt meeting your needs. At these times, she seems flighty. It can be frustrating for you because she isnโt always available when you need her. It can seem like a certain need for freedom seems to lead her away from you, and you often feel like you are more of adult than her. At the same time, her need for freedom gives you freedom, which you need even if you donโt always realize it. Unconsciously you prefer your relationship to be exactly how it is. Your Virgo moon is critical by nature, so itโs nearly impossible for anyone to measure to your standards especially someone as important as your mother. In your youth, she is the center of your world and because your focus is centered on her, your critical nature canโt help but analyze her every action. Despite your acute sense of her shortcomings, you accept them as being part of a her.
The Moon in Libra person and ther motherโฆ
Your mother has standards for your relationship that are clearly defined and understood. She has certain expectations that she always assumes you will fulfill, and you usually do. However, without realizing it, itโs actually you who worked to define these rules in order to assure you are always treated fairly, kindly and to assure that your mother will always be there for you. Your expectations and reactions to your mother have served to set up a protocol in your relationship that keeps things peaceful between you. Over time, you each have come to understand your roles. You both know what behavior keeps things fair between you, and therefore, keeps the peace. Although your relationship can, at times, seem a bit formal and structured, it gives you comfort know that as long as you both follow the rules, you will both be happy. You are always careful to tactfully maintain a certain element of control in the relationship so that you can keep your mother close to you, but still make your own decisions, and you mother unconsciously understands that you do this.
The Moon in Scorpio person and their motherโฆ
Your mother sparks more emotion in you than she realizes. You know she cares about you intensely, but she can be too close to you when you need space and too distant when you need her close. From being overly concerned with things that you want to disregard, to becoming enmeshed in your life when you need emotional privacy, it often seems that she is out of tune with your emotional rhythm. But your passionate, and at the same time private, nature creates this very dynamic that ends up driving you crazy. Although you need her close for emotional reassurance and support, you also have a tremendous need for emotional privacy. Itโs difficult for her to accurately gauge your varying needs for closeness and distance. In trying to figure you out, she may probe you for feedback, which usually makes you clam up in silence. Your resistance can be frustrating and can spark an angry response from her, which makes you see her as aggressive and controlling. However, itโs most likely you who is trying to maintain control, and she is the one reacting to you. So, depending on your reactions to her, you see her as a powerful ally in your life who is willing to do anything to protect you when you are willing to trust her with your deepest emotions. However, when you arenโt willing to open up and trust her, you see her as manipulative and controlling.
The Moon in Sagittarius person and their motherโฆ
You are difficult to contain and control, so your mother may have a difficult task at hand in raising you. You require freedom. Itโs not an option. If your mother isnโt willing to give it you, your struggle to get it can exhaust her because youโre will not give up until you get it. As a universal sign, you have an โabove it allโ attitude that makes you feel as though you are very mature and wise, no matter your age. The whole childhood thing can make you restless because you experience the world through the eyes of one of the older astrological signs. For this reason, you see your mother as less mature than she should be. Your moon in Sagittarius vantage point makes you critical of her, and her faults are obvious to you. The fact that you see them, makes her merely human in your view and you canโt understand why you should be subject to her commands or requirements when you are both just two humans. From your perspective, she has just as much to learn as you. She is fallible and often immature. In your view, her need for freedom is just as strong as yours. You both deserve to enjoy it, not just her. She comes off as hypocritical because she holds you to standards that she canโt live up to in her own life. Whatโs more, her inability to see this makes her seem naive to you and makes you feel even more like you should be in charge of your life.
The Moon in Capricorn person and their motherโฆ
Some way or another, your mother always leaves you feeling vaguely guilty. She may not come right out and say things to make you feel guilty, but they may be subtly woven into her comments. Or in many cases, she just seems to have a very difficult life, and your joys are dimmed in comparison to her hardships. In either case, she controls you with guilt because your Capricorn moon canโt help but empathize with any suffering she encounters. You know your mother always has a serious core to her regardless of her outer attitude. She always puts work before play and she never stops planning for the future. She is security oriented and very aware of the how the worst can always happen. You have a driving desire to help her and you always believe she does everything in her power to provide the best for you. On some level, you always feel like she could just make some changes in her life to make things easier for herself but it never happens. She recognizes your ability to act maturely and she often relies on you for practical and emotional support.
The Moon in Aquarius person and their motherโฆ
Your emotional maturity and strength is fully developed from such a young age that your motherโs ability to help you grow and support you is almost unnecessary, making your relationship with her a bit distant and detached. You just donโt seem to need the coddling that many other people enjoy as children. If anything, you notice that your mother could actually use some. However, you see this intellectually, not emotionally. So, you arenโt one to cry with her, hold her closely and have deep emotional conversations. Rather, you simply donโt burden her with your problems. You give her space to live her life and time to deal with her issues. Itโs almost odd when she reprimands you or treats you like a child. Thereโs always a part of you that sees the whole thing as very silly and unnecessary. You know when you have done something you shouldnโt have, and her attempts to guide you are nice, but not really helpful. However, it doesnโt take very long for her to catch on to your level of maturity and treat you more as equal from a rather young age.
The Moon in Pisces person and their motherโฆ
Its seems that your mother is forever surmounting difficulties. An emotional strength that isnโt always obvious pulls her through her life. The sacrifices she makes for you and your family are made out of necessity and she doesnโt ask for thanks. However, they do draw her away from you. From a young age, you accept this and you grow up very quickly because of it. With all that she deals with, you know it would be wrong to burden her with too many of your problems. You are strong enough to help yourself with most things and she respects you for it. Yet at times, you canโt help but feel like you would like to be more of a helpless child. Even though you are emotionally tough, you sometimes feel like you would like to be able to just rely on her instead of being the strong child she expects you to be. So often she seems to be lost in her own world, which consequently leaves you lost in your own world. Youโre not always sure she realizes this and so at times it feels like you are bit lost.
Source:ย http://www.southfloridaastrologer.com/
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โTurn off the lights and letโs spill our thoughts in bed. Tell me about all the gory things you canโt set free. Tell me about the person who took your heart out for a walk of love, and then didnโt bring it back because they left it in a dungeon of heartbreak. Tell me about the last fight you had with your father, and how you havenโt had the courage to suck your pride in and mend things with him. Tell me about all the things youโre too scared to tell other people. Letโs share our poisonous thoughts in bed, and hopefully, we can cure one another before itโs too late.โ
โ Alexa Evangelista, The Book Iโll Never Finish Writing
Hiya, friend! I have a big doubt. I've always seen that people mark as dangerous the significant aspects lilith has in synastry; most of the descriptions are of "homewrecker" and "obsessive". But what happens when a man's lilith is conjunct to a woman's asc but also his moon falls into her 1st house. All of these placements are in the sign of Leo. So, the moon changes something in the not-so-healthy lilith aspect?
someย people are naturally drawn to lilith energy, and some people actually know how to work withย and accept it for what it is. believe it or not lilith energy can be used constructively depending on the person and how they individually view her darkness. there are people with healthy lilith placements in their own charts and are able to use her in a positive way and may unknowingly attract lilith-themed relationships. not every lilith themed relationship will beย โbad,โ because like i said each person does it differently and some people can actually work with her rather than against her. just because lilith is strongly placed in synastry doesnโt doom the relationship because thatโs only one single placement youโre looking at, and to see a bigger picture of where this could possibly be headed between two people, both charts would have to be examined along with seeing the rest of the synastry patterns and if their composite echoes and further reinforces specific things already found in their synastry. having lilith overlaid to the 1st house along with the moon isnโt potential for worry or relief.
So Iโve been researching this topic on and off so I thought Iโd make a post about it now. Some of the information I write is subject to change, this is just info Iโve gathered and wanted to share with others and let them have their take on it.
So I have discovered that astrology can predict the sign/dominant influence of your future children. Now, the methods of predicting this, I have no idea how well it works or if it works at all, but I think itโs kind of fun to look at and it worked in my familyโs charts.
The first method is simply looking at your rising sign and sun sign. It is very common for the personโs children to have their parentโs rising sign as their sun sign and vice versa.ย For example, my mother is a Sagittarius Rising with an Aquarius sun and my biological father is a Gemini Rising with a Pisces sun. I carried over my motherโs rising sign as my sun sign. My brother carried over my fatherโs rising sign. I believe this also works with moon signs as well. My brother took my motherโs sun sign as his moon (so heโs a Gemini sun/Aquarius moon).ย Whether you see this method in your charts/parentโs charts/future childrenโs charts, you should specifically notice a lot of Conjunctions, Oppositions, and Squares between you and your family members in your inner planets (sun, moon, rising). Hopefully just conjunctions and oppositions because squares usually mean a rough relationship between you and your parents or a not so great childhood.
The next method is looking to the 5th House. The 5th house represents everything you create whether it be something related to art or the children you bring into this world.ย For predicting oneโs children through the 5th house, it is important to look at both parentโs charts to get the full idea. You can look at one chart alone, but it may not paint the whole picture. Look to see if thereโs any planets in the 5th house. Zero planets doesnโt mean you are denied children (itโs just not a priority in your life. Keep in mind that stuff can still transit into your 5th house), but having planets in there can help describe what your child will be like.ย Sun in the 5th House Higher chance of your first born to be male. Possibly a strong Leo or Sun influence to their chart. Strong likelihood of spoiling this child more than the others (if this goes on for their whole childhood they kind of become aย โmamaโs boyโ). The childโs energy will naturally carry over some fiery traits.ย Moon in the 5th House Higher chance of your first born to be female, lots of children in general if the individual has a water/earth moon sign that isnโt badly aspected. Possibly with a strong Cancer or Lunar influence to their chart. This placement makes for very caring children. The childโs energy will be pretty watery and emotional; maybe even moody at times. Mercury in the 5th House I believe the chance for a male or female child is equal, maybe even a chance for twins, especially if the individual has a lot of Mercurial/Mutable influences in their chart. Possibly a strong Gemini/Mercurial influence to the childโs chart. This will make for a very talkative, charismatic, jack of all trades type child. The childโs overall energy will be very airy/mutable. Venus in the 5th House Higher chance of your first born to be a female. Possibly a strong Venusian or Libra influence to their chart. The child is likely to be quite popular, beautiful, and artistic; all of the elegant traits that come along with Libras. The overall energy is quite feminine and airy.ย Mars in the 5th House Higher chance of your first born to be a male, if not, you can expect a female child to be very tom boyish. Possibly a strong Mars or Aries influence to the childโs chart. The child will most likely pursue anything sporty or active. The childโs overall energy should be quite fiery and masculine. Jupiter in the 5th House No specific indication whether the first born will be male or female, but it will definitely have a prominent Jupiter or Sagittarius influence to their chart. The child will be very interested in their parentโs spirituality and morals and will learn a lot from their parent. The child will have high philosophical views and view life to its fullest. Saturn in the 5th House No specific indication where the first born will be male or female, however if the individual with this placement decides to have children, it probably wonโt be until they are a lot older. Thatโs where it gets complicated because the people who have a child when theyโre older tend to encounter issues with the child whether it be deformities, illnesses, or relationship issues between the parent and the child. So if you have this placement and donโt want children, donโt leave it too long to change your mind.ย The child will most likely be quite earthy and very disciplined in their younger years. Uranus in the 5th House No specific indication whether the first born will be male or female. The child will most likely have a very strong Aquarian/Uranus influence to their chart. You can expect the typical Aquarian traits in this child; eccentricity, rebellious, freedom fighter, etc. The overall energy the child carries will be airy. Neptune in the 5th House No specific indication whether the first born will be male or female. The child is likely going to have a strong Piscean/Neptune influence in their chart. The child will have a vast imagination and day dream quite a bit. Very sensitive and may even develop some psychic abilities. The overall energy the child carries is watery. Pluto in the 5th House Possibility of either a male or female child with this placement. The child is likely going to have a Scorpio/Pluto influence to their chart. If the child is male, he is likely going to be quite handsome. The child may be secretive or hides their feelings from the parent, especially if the parentโs relationship with the child isnโt strong. The overall energy the child carries is almost a mix of fire and water.
Now I know what youโre thinking,ย โfirst child? What about others?โ The next part of the method explains how to figure out the second child. When we look to our second, and third, and fourth child, we look a house over. The second child is predicted in the 7th house, third child in the 9th house, and so on. The reading for the planets in the 7th, 9th, 11th, etc are the same as the 5th, but they just correspond to whichever child is next (example; Venus in the 7th house means the second child is likely to be femaleโฆ).ย
I this method on my parentโs charts to see if they accurately predicted me and my brother. In my fatherโs 5th house, he has Pluto. My brother was born a Scorpio rising and Pluto being third most dominant planet in his chart. In my motherโs 7th house, she has Jupiter. I was born a Sagittarius sun dominant. Furthermore, my mother has the moon in the 5th house which lead to her being the dominant guardian of my brother and I (Moon in the 5th house make for good mothers).ย
Some additional notes Iโve gathered on conceiving childrenโฆ Bad placements for conceiving children, -Lack of major aspects to the moon in a womanโs chart -Malefic Mars aspects (especially if the person has Pluto in a child bearing house) -Saturn in the 5th house (not impossible, but read above about it) -If Mars is in the 5th house with harsh aspects
Special placements meaning other things, -Neptune and Uranus in a child bearing house (especially 5th) can mean adoption. -If Moon, Mars, and Venus are in duel signs and aspected to Mercury, there will be a high chance of twins. If the planets are in masculine signs, expect male twins. In feminine signs, expect female twins. If a mix of the two, one male, one female. -An individual with a strong, harmonious sun-mars aspect are more likely to have male children. With a strong, harmonious sun-venus aspect, female children.
Might add onto this in the future, but for now, enjoy! If you have any questions let me know.