let’s be clear, intimacy isn’t just sex. it’s mental check in’s, date nights, conversations, forms of affirmations, the small simple things
The oc au brainrot was real 😔
yes, she was so happy and sweet. she liked my nails and I thanked her for saved my life and she also thanked me (us) for saving her life too. it was so emotional and wonderful<3
OMG THIS IS SO COOL!! glad you had time w her alone and got able to say such important words apparently she needs it as she is sick my poor baby i cannot believe i'll see her...can u believe i've never seen her after a decade of me being a fan of hers i still can't believe it!! but i'm so happy for you baby you deserve it !!
He communicates consistently and clearly. Replies promptly, doesn't leave you on seen, checks up on you throughout the day/week according to his schedule and in agreement with your needs as well.
He pays attention to your needs and desires and quirks, and makes your life better using said details. Ie. buys your favorite kind of flowers, makes your favorite tea in the morning, remembers your food allergies when having dinner dates, etc.
Disagreements may still appear even in health relationships, and it's ok, as communication is essentual for a healthy dynamic. However, his approach to disagreements is a secure one: each will share their perspective, and if feelings were hurt or mistakes were made, he takes accountability for his side, and makes genuine apologies followed by reparations and direct actions (ie. "I'm sorry I did x, I didn't mean to hurt you. I will be/do y in the future", and then does as he promised).
Promises are kept. His actions are in alignment with his words, and he keeps his words. If he says he'll call you after work, he does. If he says he needs to cool off during an argument and will reopen the conversation in 1h, he does indeed return in 1h to continue the topic.
If you're anxious, he will reassure you and work through it. He doesn't run away or avoid the topic (as an avoidantly attached person would).
If you come forward communicating your needs, or sharing complaints or grievances, he will hear you out and actively seek a way to improve things. He won't freak out, or get angry or run away in response to you having needs or communicating your thoughts; these are normal relationship things you're entitled to, and a securely attached man knows this.
A man that is well-rounded, with a secure attachment style, will have a rich life of his own: hobbies, interests, circles of friends, activities, etc. He will enjoy having his independence and space, and will respect your need for your own. He is not co-dependent, nor gets in the way of you having your own life outside of him. He knows having individually rich lives is important for a healthy relationship. To expand on this, he encourages you to enjoy your selfcare time, your girl's night out, or whatever other activities nourish you.
5 Things Your Mother Never Told You About Men
If he wanted to, it’ll be done by now. You’re meant to be surprised, not stressed out.
You are whom you give ass to. If you’re dealing with a man who acts like a “lil boy” then you indeed act like a little girl. The reciprocal.
He doesn’t listen to you because there is no incentive for him to do so. Whether you’re whining for a ring or for respect, you give him no reason to give you what you want because he already has what he wants: usually easy access ass or a hot plate and folded draws to come home to.
He has an agenda, they all do. A high quality man has an agenda of marrying you because he wants children. A low quality man has an agenda because he wants to take advantage of you financially. YOU MUST HAVE AN AGENDA TOO
Coochie is currency- don’t waste money: Use your holes to get what you want, but learn how to withhold xes in order to get what you want as well. In the words of someone’s granny:
everything
only pure intentions and angelic energy ♡
If you wanted, you could become an astronaut AND a fashion model. You could be a a fashion designer, teacher, writer, content creator, actress, scientist, dancer, singer, a cook, an entrepreneur, a lawyer, etc etc!! Who ever said that you could only be one thing??
GIRLS. BARBIE DID THIS AND WAY MORE, WHY CANT YOU? (And she still manages to do it so glamorously!)
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