yknow qhat i love seeing? people with the "scary" or "mean" or "evil" disorders getting silly with it. thats definitely destigmatizing it /srs
like, if audhd people get to joke around about their disorders, not always treat it with an absurd amount of weight, so does everyone else. i love you aspd people who make jokes about your disorder, you deserve to do that without being called an edgy teen. i love you npd people make memes about it. i love you scary people who get to destigmatize your disorders by laughing.
shota so gnc they think hes a loli.. i repeat...
can we talk about how when you try to make a relationship 'equal' between you and an abuser, they will always see it as you 'flipping the script' or 'engaging in reactive abuse' because if they aren't superior to you then they feel like you're threatening them? Like homie just saying 'Don't do this, it hurts me, every time you've done this it hurts me' and 'treat people like you want to be treated. if you're mean to me, I can be mean back' is apparently as bad as...checks notes... you beating and raping me and spreading lies about me to the public from your position of power. You don't owe your abuser the 'perfect victim. Fighting back is not something to be ashamed of.
proship culture is wanting radqueers to get the fuck out of our tags
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I feel like some people are getting so radical about what is considered 'abusive' behavior that it's just gotten kind of laughable at this point. There is, like, a list of a million things someone can do and it's like 'signs your partner is emotionally abusive' and ALL OF THE THINGS LISTED ARE LIKE 'they look at you kinda rudely...<:( They looked at you wrong so they're being ABUSIVE!!' or 'they set a boundary with you!' or 'they blocked you when you broke those boundaries!' or, even, 'they have XYZ stigmatized personality disorder so that must prove they're a bad person' Emotional abuse exists, yes, but not to the extent that some people are claiming. Physical abuse is not 'w-w-w-well this friend of mine accidentally shoulder-checked me cuz he wasn't looking where he was going and- I never brought this up to him at all but he should've known better...He physically hurt me so that's physical abuse' no that's called being clumsy you dumb fuck Don't even get me started on people claiming that if you wrote like idk vocaloid rin x len fanfic in 2014 you're apparently sexually abusive or some shit
me returning to ms paint when my clip studio paint license expires.. eheheh.. time to Pixel
im suffering from a horrendous disease called being in your 20s
tht moment when you realize the 'cute moments of peace' between you and your abusive partner are literally just the honeymoon/moment of calm phases in a longstanding multiple-year long cycle of being abused and you're highkey tweaking out so much but also there's nothing you can do about it so like OIFNOINFDGNFIDODNFNFDNFPNFPNNPVFDGNPNVFDPND deep sigh. when is gonna be the next eggshell I accidentally step on. when is this prick going to get bored of the lovey dovey romance and either lie about me for attention or outright just beat me again, or rape me again, or try to break my stuff again. so tired of this divas bs istg every time I stand up for myself I'm the bad guy and every time I try to forgive im just a doormat that gets trampled on I EHYHVVONNPSDIOOBOBIOD
(on the req post)
I.really like the idea of Hyness x galacta knight or zan partazanne (all from kirby/kirby star allies)
But like what if thruple?
I like the divorced mom aesthetic of hynessx galacta and also the almost worshipp-y-ness of Zan
I think their whole dynamic could be funny
Anyway so like Concept! Hyness (once again,) overworks herself and galacta (who is used to this) just acts more or less normal
And there's zan, Who Panics, running around to the point her magic starts acting out, stressing herself out (maybe being a bit overbearing to hyness)
And they work it out (idontreallyknowman👍)
And uhhhhh couple other Hcs while im here!
I Latched onto hyness as a character and hc her as a transfem lesbian with autism (also i hc her name to be jess, use it if you'd like <3)
Zan or Zandra (as my head like always reads it(?)) has cybernetic limbs due to her lore n stuff, she's prone to being anxious and borderline obsessive about those she cares about
And Galacta (who's nickname I not even lowkey stole from a fic) or Loxi as nicknamed by hyness is still sort of trying to adjust to the modern world, but kinda clings onto the norms they know (older magic, language, hyness (as they've dated in the past)), they don't really get what hyness is really trying to achieve but stays along for the ride
That's my kirby yap quota! If you have any questions feel more than free to ask!
And Thank Youuuuuuuuu!! Actually so much! <3<3<3
-kinnie
Hyness, Zan Partizanne, and Galacta Knight had been navigating their romantic relationship for several months, filled with love, laughter, and occasional bumps. As time passed, their bond grew deeper, but areas for improvement remained. Hyness, the elder mage, was brilliant but often stressed and exhausted from her magical studies, neglecting her health. In contrast, Zan was anxious and overthinking, always ready to support Hyness, while Galacta Knight, the youngest, remained fiercely loyal yet adjusted to modern life slowly. One evening, Hyness emerged from her office, looking exhausted with wild hair and dark circles under her eyes. Concerned, Zan rushed to her side. “You need to rest, love,” she urged. Hyness brushed off her worries, insisting she needed to finish her project. Loxi stepped in, frustrated. “You’re not fine. You must eat and sleep,” they said. The argument escalated as Hyness insisted she didn’t have time, while Zan pleaded for her to consider her health. “Please, love,” Zan implored, her eyes shimmering with concern. “You’re going to hurt yourself if you keep pushing like this.” Loxi emphasized their concern, stating, “We care deeply about you, Hyness, and we want you to be alright.” Hyness shot back, suggesting they help her with the work if they were so worried. “Then how about you let me take care of myself by doing some of the work?” After a moment, Loxi proposed they assist her, but she had to promise to take breaks. “I’ll do that… if you work hard enough to help me!” Hyness responded sharply.
im cringe and i just want to like posts. (he/him+profdx+college+proship)
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