Proship Culture Is Wanting Radqueers To Get The Fuck Out Of Our Tags

please don't be a pressure sore please don't be a pressure sore please don't be a pressure sore

people with tooth decay aren't bad people. they aren't lazy either. neither are they unclean or irresponsible. tooth decay doesn't make you a bad person. you don't deserve mockery, judgement, or tooth pain for having any. the only thing people with tooth decay deserve is healthcare.

chat ur favorite sigma has been on that grind recently.. heh.. i have not had ttime to do. Anything. dies.

more vent below the cut, see warnings

The passive suicidal ideation that comes with having a physical disability is hard. I'm sure I'm not the only person who feels this way. I grew up with an ever-increasing pain tolerance due to my condition to the point where ripping nails from my nailbeds became Just One of My Habits, because it hurt less than my condition, and having my nailbed be deformed anyways before that habit formed certainly didn't help. I was the kid who always tried in sports, even if I was never athletic. I was the kid who got an A's, even when going to school was exhausting and painful and, to be honest, I was and still am really convinced that my inherent worth is attributed to what work I can produce. In all the jobs I've worked, I've done what I could, even if it wasn't...Enough. In moment like these, where my head is clouded with exhaustion and I lay in bed, in too much pain to do anything but tap my achey and tingly fingers on a keyboard as every movement sends sharp stinging pain up and down my entire arm region and drips down into my torso, and I have to get all my work done, but I can't. Think. I can't. Move. I feel like I'm an old cat, just waiting to die, except I'm a young adult human being who just wants the pain to be over. It'll never be over. This isn't to say I'm actively suicidal. I'm not- At least not anymore. Just living in a body that is in agony all the time gets hard. Really hard. And I start to wonder and think about how good I would feel if I could just slip into a sleep and not have to wake up to the pain, and the exhaustion, and the lack of limb functionality, and the fainting, and the falling, and the humiliation, and the shame- And I sometimes wish I could die, before everyone realizes how much of a disappointment I am because of this. I can't work up to the same par as everybody else can, even though I manage to get everything done up to a very good quality, it take some about 4x longer to do it compared to an able-bodied person. oinfdgionfdnndndnnnfvfn

Sometimes having a fiance is him having to tell you to stop eating his fucking hairties when you miss him

kind of a sucker for those violent bully x bullyvic shipdynamics but it's like. Halfway through the bully realizes that A. This bullyvic has a lot bigger problems going on in their life or B. That bullyvic genuinely isn't responsible for whatever bully thinks they're responsible for. and then its moreso a hurt/comfort thing 😋

on tumblr people will say "yeah i've got 7 mental illnesses" then call you schizo for the most mundane symptoms and on reddit people will say "i'm a slightly awkward introvert" and you go to their profile to see their post history and they have mental health issues you didn't know god could create

having a partner is jusst so mgjgjfj!!! you mean!! i can kiss him!!!! I can hold him!!! when we shower I can hug him and feel warm skin!!!! you mean i can invite dawg out to slowdance under the stars???mmghfh you mean i can just be.. a silly lil guyb...And this other silly little guy who i love a lot is also there??You mean we do the laundry together?? Absolutely wild. I love him. And you mean to tell me i got a RING and put it on.. his finger?? to symbolize our undying love??? I'm shaking. I'm so in love. I love him.

(Also fun fact my F/O is one of my pookie's OC's so it's like.. Inception... idk man im a freak)

Alr no one is gonna talk about this so i guess i will, even if i really do not want to bring this sort of topic onto my account.

Long long ass post so (i’m a Proshipper AND ANTI-radqueer. rant ahead)

As a proshipper who has been harmed by "pro-c radqueers" (and questioned joining the community for a while for reasons i will also discuss later on) It is extremely difficult for me to interact with fellow Anti-rqs (blogs or just people) because of the idea that all proshippers are also rq.

I am not here to start discourse, Just to spread the word around that while we may disagree on shipping and fiction, please know that many proshippers do not want any of the true harm that rqs push onto others!! The proship community has been here far far longer than them, we have unfortunately had to deal with becoming their scapegoat over time and i would love for others to recognize that anti-rq proshippers exist, But interacting with the community makes it feel as though one can "only be on [the actual irl danger] side if you're into [fictional characters doing something i do not like] thing" , it makes it very easy for some proshippers to fall into the trap, !!!!Radqueers depend on others’ exclusionism to take advantage and bring others into their community!!!!!

Yes, many Rqs are proshippers, but proshippers are not all inherently rq!!! Kind of like a squares and rectangles situation.