Traitblur

narcaro - a romantic orientation on the aro spectrum where NPD affects how you experience romantic attraction. for example, you may only be attracted to people who prioritize you over others or praise you consistently, or people you view as an equal. it could also mean pursuing romantic interests as a way of seeking validation through being desired, without necessarily actually being in love. anyone with npd or who suspects they may have npd or its symptoms can use this label regardless of how they feel they identify with it

colors are the browns from the npd flag and the greens from the aro flag

[ID: a horizontal flag with 6 stripes. from top to bottom: dark reddish brown, light brown, dark mossy green, a medium yellow-green, light yellowish gray and eggshell. end ID]

narc abuse believers and anti-npd truthers PLEASE leave this post alone

⸝⸝ FROSTMASC

(frost + masculine)

frostmasc ; a masculine and / or male gender related to wintercore & winter-related themes. masculine version of frostfem by cinnamogai.

coined by div ! original gender, flag & graphic by cinnamogai !

(alt id ; two side-by-side flags. they are identical aside from the left flag having a heart symbol with two snowflakes on it. the flags have six equal stripes. the stripes are the following colours, from top to bottom: dusky blue, slate blue, faded blue, porcelain, pale blue lily, periwinkle.)

genders related to stars, black holes and being transmasc.

black hole boy: a gender related to black holes and being transmasc.

starboy: a stargender related to being transmasc.

black star boy: a gender related to stars, blackholes and being transmasc.

Request from anonymous. I hope you like it <3

also, a disclaimer: if "boy" doesn't resonate with your transmasc experiences, feel free to change the name to your liking.

made some blinkies for the first time :3 anyone can use them!

Social media blinkies, customizable at blinkies.cafe [x]

Made a set of wizard themed blinkies for me and all the other internet wizards out there

hello everyone. please appreciate my creation. thank u. goodnight.

also have him in original smaller size:

lusiromantic | lusirose | lusisexual lusirose version 2 | lusiqueerplatonic lusiaesthetic | lusiplatonic lusisensual | lusialterous

lusiromantic: someone who is fully or mostly aromantic, but tricks themselves into believing that they reciprocate another’s romantic attraction for some time after that person expresses their attraction. similar to recipromantic, but rather than a lusiromantic person actually reciprocating those feelings, they only believe that they do.

lusirose/lusiaroace: someone who is fully or mostly aroace, but tricks themselves into believing that they reciprocate another’s romantic and sexual attraction for some time after that person expresses their attraction. similar to reciprose/reciparoace, but rather than a lusirose/lusiaroace person actually reciprocating those feelings, they only believe that they do.

lusisexual: someone who is fully or mostly asexual, but tricks themselves into believing that they reciprocate another’s sexual attraction for some time after that person expresses their attraction. similar to reciprosexual, but rather than a lusisexual person actually reciprocating those feelings, they only believe that they do.

lusiqueerplatonic/lusiquasiplatonic: someone who is fully or mostly aqueerplatonic/aquasiplatonic, but tricks themselves into believing that they reciprocate another’s queerplatonic/quasiplatonic attraction for some time after that person expresses their attraction. similar to recipqueerplatonic/recipquasiplatonic, but rather than a lusiqueerplatonic/lusiquasiplatonic person actually reciprocating those feelings, they only believe that they do.

lusiaesthetic: someone who is fully or mostly a-aesthetic, but tricks themselves into believing that they reciprocate another’s aesthetic attraction for some time after that person expresses their attraction. similar to reciproaesthetic, but rather than a lusiaesthetic person actually reciprocating those feelings, they only believe that they do.

lusiplatonic: someone who is fully or mostly aplatonic, but tricks themselves into believing that they reciprocate another’s platonic attraction for some time after that person expresses their attraction. similar to reciproplatonic, but rather than a lusiplatonic person actually reciprocating those feelings, they only believe that they do.

lusisensual: someone who is fully or mostly asensual, but tricks themselves into believing that they reciprocate another’s sensual attraction for some time after that person expresses their attraction. similar to reciprosensual, but rather than a lusisensual person actually reciprocating those feelings, they only believe that they do.

lusialterous: someone who is fully or mostly analterous, but tricks themselves into believing that they reciprocate another’s alterous attraction for some time after that person expresses their attraction. similar to reciproalterous, but rather than a lusialterous person actually reciprocating those feelings, they only believe that they do.

more revamps of old terms and flags of mine! i both didn’t fully express the definition of the terms and didn’t like my flags, so i wanted to refresh them.

the flags use the top stripe of the recipro- flags to represent the fabricated attraction, white/grey/black to represent the grey areas of these orientations and the confusion they cause, and the bottom stripe (or two stripes) represents the actual lack of attraction being experienced.

the prefix ‘lusi-’ is a reference to the word ‘illusion’, since the attraction a lusi- person believes they feel is not real. also, for me, the experience of this term is inherently linked to my anxiety, but i decided to leave mentions of mental health out of the definitions because i don’t feel that these should be exclusive to mentally ill or neurodivergent people.

dni transcript here