The Law Of Detachment

The Law of Detachment

I say it all the time in my tarot readings: "When you're wishing for something from a place of desperation, the Universe won't grant it."

When you think you can't live without a partner, you'll never find the right one. Only shitty ones.

When you think you'll never be happy until you're rich, you'll never find happiness. And you'll never actually be rich.

Does that mean you have to stop wanting something to get it? Absolutely not.

It's called the Law of Detachment: Chase your dream and it runs away. Trust in your dream and it comes true.

It doesn't mean pretending you don't want love or wealth. It just means wanting something out of joy, not out of fear.

It's actually really simple:

Don't think about how pathetic it is to be the last among your friends to get married. Think about how great it is to be married to someone who adores and appreciates you.

Don't think about how much of a disappointment you are for being broke. Think about how awesome it is to have everything you've always dreamed of.

Fear = Bad. Joy = Good. Easy.

But why does the Universe care so much whether you're desperate or hopeful for something? A wish is a wish! Just fucking grant it, right?

Well, if my elders are to be believed, along with countless authors on manifestation, and even the oldest of religions... it's because you are an immortal being having a human experience.

That means you're a soul. And you entered this world without memories of how powerful you actually are. Because that's the plan. Enter the game, enjoy the adventure, then wake up wiser & better, before you do it all over again.

So when you're in the game and you're acting helpless — throwing tantrums, playing the victim, feeling sorry for yourself — the game master, also called the Universe, gives you the chance to remember your power. It does this through challenges, pain, loss. Hence the phrase, "The Lord is testing me."

But when you're in the game and you're behaving like you're happy to be there, and you're grateful for the chance to play, and you're seizing every opportunity to score... that's when the game master gives you all the weapons you need to keep winning. That's where love, wealth, health and joy come to you easily — when you're acting like you know your true power.

I said "really simple" but of course all of it is easier said than done. But if you can wrap your head around it, that's really all there is to it. 🤷‍♀️

As for me, my only aim with Servant of the Fates is to offer comfort when the game is hard, reassurance when the game is uncertain, and the encouragement to step into your power when the game is starting to get exciting. Good luck!