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happy juneteenth🤍!!! here's a list of black gfms that have yet to meet their goals! (black ppl feel free to link your or others donation posts in a reblog! reblogs from nonblack ppl appreciated!)

help teej's sister get a breast reduction.

help audi, a closeted black lesbian, move out of a toxic household.

help shay, a black nonbinary, with their moving expenses.

help gaia afford a house for her father suffering with homelessness and stage 3 colon cancer.

help a autistic transmasc lesbian move out of an ableist and abusive household.

help sapphire, a black transwoman, get out of an abusive household.

help sol, a black transwoman, with her transition and other necessities.

help melanie with her gender affirming surgery.

help a disabled incoming freshman pay for college.

help micah, a black queer transmasc person move.

help silver, a gnc black lesbian get a new camera and laptop.

help zora, a nonbinary transfem, move and transition.

help noelle, a black transwoman afford surgery and other basic necessities.

Which pan flag is the right one please I don't want to mess it up

THIS is the real pansexual flag we've been using for years:

bright pink, yellow, and blue stripes. this is the actual one.

THIS however, is made by mspec lesbian exclusionists and purity culture obsessed twt users:

dont use this or any other "new" pan flag they try to fucking make. its not our flag. its never been our fucking flag. as a pansexual i fucking hate everyone who uses this or tries to get content creators to support this. fuck exclusionists.

Guys, look. They finally made a baby stroller for wheelchair-bound mothers. This is so important.

This is what we need, someone give this to us.

on one hand, they can’t do another “wait 27 years and reboot IT” thing with kid losers in the 2010s because the 13-year-old losers would immediately roast pennywise to death on pure gen Z instinct and then the story would be over

on the other hand, they should do a remake anyway, kill the clown off in the first 30 minutes, and then just give us 2 and a half hours of the losers being dumbass middle schoolers

trans mascs [handshake] tubbo

being short and considered less masculine because of a number of things that cant be easily controlled or changed. still in fact being incredibly strong, cool, and masculine despite others perceptions. high pitched voice and infantilization my abhored

non autistic people shut the fuck up about elon musk he doesnt deserve to be defended and i hope he dies

Content Warning: Ranboo talking about his facial dysmorphia and anxiety, and how it's been affecting him.

I’m so sad to hear that his facial dysmorphia has been getting worse. It really sucks. I really hope that he doesn’t feel pressured to face reveal, nor keep his word for the YouTube subgoal, because face revealing is his own thing. He gets to choose whether he is ready and comfortable to do it, or not.

Mental illnesses suck and sadly they’re not easy to “treat”, and sometimes they stick with you for a lifetime. But his willingness to reach out for professional help is good. I hope that his openness on the topic, and the way he sort of keeps us updated on his journey, brings about more awareness on mental illnesses, and that hopefully people affected by them feel “inspired” to seek out for help themselves.

Here are some resources to educate yourself on facial and body dysmorphia, and social anxiety disorder:

- Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)

- Facial Dysmorphia (It falls under BDD)

- Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD)

- Relationship between Social Anxiety Disorder and Body Dysmorphic Disorder

Remember that these are not diagnostic tools and that you should seek immediate help if you feel like your wellbeing is threatened. Please talk to a professional if you need help. I know it seems counterintuitive sometimes, especially for people who suffer from social anxiety disorder, but I promise that in the end it will be worth it. You just have to push through the first steps. I believe in you!

My messages and “ask” ’s are always open if you need to vent or talk! If you only want me to read, and not hold an actual conversation, just say so and I will just read through your message :)

You are not alone.

credit to RanbooLovebots

Please reblog this if you’re in the JATP fandom and are asexual or ace-spec it’s for science

Since once in a blue moon I actually discover a decent rule for adulting, and since I know I have followers a few years younger than me who are just entering the workforce, I want to tell you about a very important phrase. 

“I won’t be available.”

Imagine you’re at work and your boss asks you to come in on Saturday. Saturday is usually your day off–coming in Saturdays is not an obligation to keep your job. Maybe you were going to watch a movie with a friend, or maybe you were just going to lie in bed and eat ice cream for eight hours, but either way you really, really don’t want to give up your day off.

If you consider yourself a millennial you’ve probably been raised to believe you need to justify not being constantly at work. And if you’re a gen-Z kid you’re likely getting the same toxic messages that we did. So in a situation like that, you might be inclined to do one of three things:

Tell your boss you’d rather not give up your day off. Cave when they pressure you to come in anyway, since you’re not doing anything important.

Tell your boss you’d rather not give up your day off. Over-apologize and worry that you looked bad/unprofessional.

Lie and say you’ve got a doctor’s appointment or some other activity that feels like an adequate justification for not working.

The fact is, it doesn’t matter to your boss whether you’re having open heart surgery or watching anime in your underwear on Saturday. The only thing that affects them is the fact that you won’t be at work. So telling them why you won’t be at work only gives them reason to try and pressure you to come in anyway.

If you say “I won’t be available,” giving no further information, you’d be surprised how often that’s enough. Be polite and sympathetic in your tone, maybe even say “sorry, but I won’t be available.” But don’t make an excuse. If your boss is a professional individual, they’ll accept that as a ‘no’ and try to find someone else. 

But bosses aren’t always professional. Sometimes they’re whiny little tyrants. So, what if they pressure you further? The answer is–politely and sympathetically give them no further information.

“Are you sure you’re not available?” “Sorry, but yes.”

“Why won’t you be available?” “I have a prior commitment.” (Which you do, even if it’s only to yourself.)

“What’s your prior commitment?” “Sorry, but that’s kind of personal.”

“Can you reschedule it?” “I’m afraid not. Maybe someone else can come in?”

If you don’t give them anything to work with, they can’t pressure you into going beyond your obligations as an employee. And when they realize that, they’ll also realize they have to find someone else to come in and move on.