Tips on Little Space
Hey little friends! I get a lot of asks and messages from you all asking for advice on slipping into littlespace! Sometimes it’s hard for us due to stress, anxiety, or over thinking! So fear not, I’ve decided to make a little list with some helpful tips 💕 I hope this helps some of you, and feel free to add any tips of your own!
🍼 Start your littlespace adventure in a safe place where you know you won’t be interrupted! Most people choose to go into littlespace in the privacy of their home or in their bedroom with the door locked.
🌸 Set uninterrupted time where you can get lost in yourself without it disrupting grown up tasks! An hour or longer is preferred so that you can take time to relax into the right state of mind. Try not to set too short of a time to where you feel rushed.
🍼 Surround yourself with soothing audio. Turn on one of your favorite movies or cartoons. You don’t have to watch it, but the background sound itself could help bring you into the mindset. If you don’t have your favorite movie or show available, then try listening to children’s music. Like lullabies or Disney soundtracks.
🌸 Surround yourself with stuffies, dolls, and toys that remind you of how cute and little you are!
🍼 Maybe try laying down on the floor on your favorite softest blankies and a paci or soother if you have any.
🌸 Build a blankie fort with lots of blankies and pillows and fill it with tons of your toys!
🍼 Make sure to have at least one activity while in littlespace. This could be small activities like coloring with crayons, minor popsicle stick crafts with glue, beading necklaces and bracelets, building with legos or blocks.
🌸 Regress yourself further with speech! Even if you’re just babbling to yourself or verbally playing pretend with your stuffies and dolls, baby talking has been shown to really help Littles into their special head space.
🍼 Dress up! Wear what makes you feel most happy and feeling little. Whether it be your fav onesie, a big over sized sweater or your fav tutu!
🌸 Eat little-sized snacks and drinks! Use sippies/bottles, and colorful or cartoon oriented plates and plastic wear. Try eating and drinking things you enjoyed as a kid. For me, it’s things like gold fish crackers, mandarins and apple juice or chocolate milk. I’ve noticed finger foods make me feel the littlest!
💕 That’s all the tips I have! Just remember to be yourself, and try not to over think too much. We all have trouble getting into little space sometimes. It’s normal, and you aren’t any less valid because of it. Keep in mind, when you’re calm and relaxed in a safe place, slipping into littlespace will come with ease. Good luck lil angels💕
Cheeks!!
Little: *going through the kitchen happily, eating snacks and sweets while their CG is gone*
CG: *starts to unlock the front door*
Little: *freaks out and hides the food*
CG: “Hey baby! I’m ho-“ *sees their little standing there with innocent eyes* “Oh? Baby, why are you just standing in the kitchen?”
Little: “Wanted to!”
CG: *notices the littles cheeks are filled with food* “Honey. Were you sneaking snackies while I was away?”
Little: “Nuh uh!!”
CG: *giggles and rubs their little’s cheek* “Then why are these pretty cheeks so puffy hm~?”
Little: *blushes and swallows down the food*
CG: “I knew it, what a naughty little thing. Very cute~ but naughty. Cmon, you know sneaking sweets and snacks is against the rules.”
Little: *pouts and whines*
🌷- you have a super sweet smile
🍄- Let’s hold hands & explore for hours
🌿- you don’t realise how beautiful you are
👋🏻- I wanna be your friend
🎧- you have great taste in music
🍒- you’re such a tease
🌎- why are you so far away?!?!?
🌶- I find you verrrry sexy
🌻- I could talk to you for hours
💐- you’re a total cutie
🍂- I wanna lay in bed and cuddle you
✌🏻- Netflix n chill?
🌸- I think about you a fair bit
🌞- I wanna make out with you
🌚- I’d totally fuck you
💫- I wanna talk to you but i’m too shy
🌈- we have lots in common
☂️-we have nothing in common
💥- you’re really damn annoying
🌧- I find your blog boring
🥀- you’re dead to me
👻- I wish I never met you
🐳 Take a nap with your stuffies. It’ll help you if your energy is running low.
🐬 Do some drawing to let out your feelings. It doesn’t need to look perfect but sometimes it helps to put it on paper and express yourself.
🐟 If you’re feeling like you wanna destroy something, get some Play Dough. Throw it on the table with all the anger you have. Slice it with a ruler, stab it, tear it apart, squeeze it until it comes out between your fingers. Hurt the Play Dough, not yourself.
🐠 Let yourself cry. Baby’s are allowed to cry and scream and so are you, let it out.
🐡 Distract yourself. Watch your favorite little movie even if you aren’t feeling very little. They are often colorful, uplifting and have a good message. That can influence your mood and distract you from bad thoughts you might be having.
🐙 Built a pillow fort and hide in it. If the world is overwhelming you then hide in your pillow castle/fort like the little royalty that you are. Take some time to just snuggle up and relax. Maybe look at a cute book or something if you need distraction.
B-but I will s-still treat you like a king I p-promise!🥰🤗💕
Things that take time & many tries to get right:
learning to be a good friend/partner
healing from depression, failures or heartbreak
becoming amazing at an art or skill
overcoming anxiety, insecurities and low body image
overcoming the need to isolate yourself
changing self-hating thoughts to kinder ones
making a real connection with someone
overcoming self-defeating and self-sabotaging thoughts
learning how to study effectively
finding a sense of stability and calmness at your core
quitting habits or addictions
leaving people and behaviours that turn you into the worst version of yourself
getting used to healthier coping mechanisms & mindsets that feel fake
treating yourself like you truly care about yourself
becoming the person you always wanted to be
“You don’t always win your battles, but it’s good to know you fought.”
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The bookstore itself, excluding the building that now houses it, originated in the international bookstore of Ernesto Chardron, founded in 1869 in Rua dos Clérigos.
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