"it'll be okay" and "you can do it" are phrases that sometimes fall flat. here's some things you may need to hear:
you're good enough
sometimes it's okay to not try so hard
it's okay to not always be strong
you don't have to be anything for anybody
don't be so hard on yourself
you're worth it
it doesn't make you weak to ask for help
let yourself cry
Cheeks!!
Little: *going through the kitchen happily, eating snacks and sweets while their CG is gone*
CG: *starts to unlock the front door*
Little: *freaks out and hides the food*
CG: “Hey baby! I’m ho-“ *sees their little standing there with innocent eyes* “Oh? Baby, why are you just standing in the kitchen?”
Little: “Wanted to!”
CG: *notices the littles cheeks are filled with food* “Honey. Were you sneaking snackies while I was away?”
Little: “Nuh uh!!”
CG: *giggles and rubs their little’s cheek* “Then why are these pretty cheeks so puffy hm~?”
Little: *blushes and swallows down the food*
CG: “I knew it, what a naughty little thing. Very cute~ but naughty. Cmon, you know sneaking sweets and snacks is against the rules.”
Little: *pouts and whines*
I thought this was only me, but I guess not. 😂🤣 I repeat fishies are friends NOT food, unless they're not real
When do we not need attention? („• ֊ •„)
As a wittel i aprovs tis mesage! Hehe😂
I don’t know why I found this so cute why scrolling I had to share it!🥰🥰🥰💜💜💜💜💜💕💕💕💕
Roadtrip hacks for littles 🚗❤️ This is one of my biggest fantasies! I’d love to strap my boy into a car seat and implement all the mommy hacks I’ve heard for a road trip like… ⭐ Pack surprise toys. Put them in gift bags and every few hours let them open one. ⭐ Bring an iPad with their favorite videos downloaded. Mount it on the back of the seat. Don’t forget a charger + car adapter. ⭐ Leave at a strategic time when you know your baby is going to nap. If you leave when they have a ton of energy they could get very fussy. ⭐Clip things to them and their seat. Paci, bottle, stuffed animals, or whatever. I know my boy loves to throw things to get my attention. If they’re clipped to him he can’t. ⭐ SNACKS. You can never have too many. My baby loves Puffs, Goldfish, and Cheerios. Put them in a spill-proof snack cup to avoid getting crumbs all over your car. ⭐ Prep multiple bottles or sippy cups before you leave the house. Mix their water with a little bit of juice to encourage them to drink more and stay hydrated. ⭐ Wear them out. If you stop for gas let them get out of their seat and walk around so they are calmer in the car. ⭐ Pack a cookie sheet with a lip around the edge. They can use it as a tray to eat, color, and play on. They’re also magnetic so you can glue magnets to the back of a puzzle. ⭐ If you want a mess-free alternative to painting, get one of those paint by water books from the dollar store, cut a sponge to fit into their snack cup, and add water. They can paint without the mess. ⭐ Bring a neck pillow so your little can sleep more comfortably without their head bobbing all over the place. ⭐ Have them go pants-less. They’ll be more comfortable and it will make it easier to reach back and check their diaper. ⭐ Stop to nurse when they get fussy. A hack for all you mommies out there. Nothing will calm a little down more than getting them a little milk drunk. Did I miss any? Have you ever had a chance to experience a road trip as a little? Comment below and let me know!
Tips on Little Space
Hey little friends! I get a lot of asks and messages from you all asking for advice on slipping into littlespace! Sometimes it’s hard for us due to stress, anxiety, or over thinking! So fear not, I’ve decided to make a little list with some helpful tips 💕 I hope this helps some of you, and feel free to add any tips of your own!
🍼 Start your littlespace adventure in a safe place where you know you won’t be interrupted! Most people choose to go into littlespace in the privacy of their home or in their bedroom with the door locked.
🌸 Set uninterrupted time where you can get lost in yourself without it disrupting grown up tasks! An hour or longer is preferred so that you can take time to relax into the right state of mind. Try not to set too short of a time to where you feel rushed.
🍼 Surround yourself with soothing audio. Turn on one of your favorite movies or cartoons. You don’t have to watch it, but the background sound itself could help bring you into the mindset. If you don’t have your favorite movie or show available, then try listening to children’s music. Like lullabies or Disney soundtracks.
🌸 Surround yourself with stuffies, dolls, and toys that remind you of how cute and little you are!
🍼 Maybe try laying down on the floor on your favorite softest blankies and a paci or soother if you have any.
🌸 Build a blankie fort with lots of blankies and pillows and fill it with tons of your toys!
🍼 Make sure to have at least one activity while in littlespace. This could be small activities like coloring with crayons, minor popsicle stick crafts with glue, beading necklaces and bracelets, building with legos or blocks.
🌸 Regress yourself further with speech! Even if you’re just babbling to yourself or verbally playing pretend with your stuffies and dolls, baby talking has been shown to really help Littles into their special head space.
🍼 Dress up! Wear what makes you feel most happy and feeling little. Whether it be your fav onesie, a big over sized sweater or your fav tutu!
🌸 Eat little-sized snacks and drinks! Use sippies/bottles, and colorful or cartoon oriented plates and plastic wear. Try eating and drinking things you enjoyed as a kid. For me, it’s things like gold fish crackers, mandarins and apple juice or chocolate milk. I’ve noticed finger foods make me feel the littlest!
💕 That’s all the tips I have! Just remember to be yourself, and try not to over think too much. We all have trouble getting into little space sometimes. It’s normal, and you aren’t any less valid because of it. Keep in mind, when you’re calm and relaxed in a safe place, slipping into littlespace will come with ease. Good luck lil angels💕
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