"it'll be okay" and "you can do it" are phrases that sometimes fall flat. here's some things you may need to hear:
you're good enough
sometimes it's okay to not try so hard
it's okay to not always be strong
you don't have to be anything for anybody
don't be so hard on yourself
you're worth it
it doesn't make you weak to ask for help
let yourself cry
I am very tired and I want to be held by someone who loves me
You’re doing great little one
Be as little as you want guys☺️✨
First off and foremost, this doesn’t go for everyone! Being little could also feel like hanging up band posters, painting a room grey, or only having a two stuffies. That been having said, I wrote what applies to me in hopes that other people relate too.
✨fairy lights!
✨fuzzy blankets + cozy things
✨painting your room your favorite color
✨including subtly “little” things - like adult color books and small stuffies (if you’re worried about people judging)
✨adding colorful rugs, playmats, etc.
✨candles with a childhood or relaxing scent
✨nightlight (pro tip: get an essential oil diffuser that could work as a nightlight and candle)
✨bulletin board of old favorite memories
✨redone, “adult” versions of classics - like Alice in Wonderland - I’ve found these at Barnes and Nobles
✨having things neat and tidy
✨having cutesy clothes or clothes that make you feel little
✨anything sparkly - especially the trend with the sequins that change color when you play with them
✨having crafts, letters, etc. that your caregiver wrote with you or things you’ve done together on display
✨anything else that makes you feel like the cutie you are!! :)
-Pumpkin 🧡
So cuuuuuuutttttteeeeee!!!!!!!!!!🐶🐶🐶🥰😊☺️
he’s trapped
I'm currently looking for some little friends to talk to and maybe hangout. 💜💕 She/Hers/Her, 22 y.o./U.S/ pansexual. If you have a question my DMs are always open.
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