Shhhh... They're Right In The Next Room. Can't Let Them Hear All Your Naughty Noises, Can We?

It's important to use eye contact to establish dialogue.

No matter the circumstances.

Missionary rape with forced eye contact >>>>>>

Looking him in the eyes, legs spread wide as he rapes your pussy >>>>>>

Okay, but the teasing continues there... acting like I can't find it, so I just start kissing and nibbling the lips, the thighs, the mound above... anywhere but right... where... you want... makes the inevitable conclusion so much more satisfying for both of us.

men who spread your pussy with their thumbs whenever they go down on you so they can lap at your clit better 😔

Very, INTENSELY, specifically relevant.

Shhhhh.... they'll hear you in the living room...

not my fault I can’t keep quiet

you found it disgusting and immoral i found it sexy and arousing that’s why i’m happier than you

you are not meant to be afraid of someone who loves you. if they have made you afraid of them, they do not love you.

It's good to be reminded that the dark places in my head are WANTED, and not to be shunned, so long as they were consented to.

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

I usually don't approve of welcome mats... but this, I'd lay out for special occasions.