Octanaut - The Octanaut's Deep Dive

What did you think would happen, strutting around in that little black dress

you found it disgusting and immoral i found it sexy and arousing that’s why i’m happier than you

It's good to be reminded that the dark places in my head are WANTED, and not to be shunned, so long as they were consented to.

Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop

I’m okay

I love you

Thank you

It’s alright

I’m not hurt

I’m not hurt too badly

You’re lovely/wonderful/kind

I enjoyed it

It was worth it

Take your time

Do you need anything?

Do you want a cuddle?

Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?

Do you want to talk about it?

I’m here

You’re not a bad person

Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.

Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.

two way corruption kink where we're both just making each other grosser

Reblog if it's okay to invade your ask box

Always

<3

you don’t owe people an explanation of your boundaries.

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“that’s right, princess. fight back. make it difficult… give me a reason to get rough.”