Avoid wasting time, energy and money like I did. I heard someone say once that most of leveling up is just having the money to do so. Since not everyone has 10,000$ to drop on an overnight physical glow up, it has to be done in phases.
When I started leveling up I was so overwhelmed with all this information I didn’t what to do with. I spent the first year wasting resources on steps I wasn’t ready for. Only to have to step back and start over at the beginning of 2021. I didn’t even have an idea of what I really wanted at the end of my journey. Physically, romantically or career wise. I just knew I wanted to be rich and different than I started.
The glow up is a journey so it may take over a year or so to complete fully but it’s so worth it.
This is in order of what should be done and cost.
Workout routines 3-4x a week at home that you are excited to do!
Get in the habit of drinking 2 liters of water a day
Fix your sleep schedule! 8hrs a night.
Nails grown and done yourself
Pick 5 hairstyles to rotate
Eyebrows waxed, tweezed, or threaded.
Have makeup and makeup remover.
For now just use drug store makeup. As long as it looks good and doesn’t break out the skin no one can tell where you got it from. Besides drug store makeup has gotten much better over the years.
Makeup needed: Foundation, primer, mascara, eye liner, lip liner, blush, contour, lashes, concealer, eyeshadow, setting spray/powder + Brush set.
Daily makeup style picked out
Learn to sew and fix your own clothes to fit properly
Get a notebook to track every single expense for the glow up journey
Take online free courses/lessons. Pick up like 4 or 5 new skills to beef up your resume or your social intrigue.
Sit down with a snack, a pen, a notebook and read the blogs you look up to.
What’s the point of having access to all these tips, tricks and life hacks if its just a reblog to be tagged and forgotten or worse lost in the shuffle of your blog?
Read.
Just in general. Read for fun. Whether its good, bad, trashy, or so bad it’s good. All reading is time well spent.
Also read self improvement novels.There are so many of them. Pick a category (ex personal finance, emotional growth, eating well, beauty, nutrition, time management, persuasion, procrastination, seduction, romance, friend making, mental wellness, strategy, investing) and go wild. Finish at least 2 a month. 1 a month if taking notes.
Cost: 87$ max
Make an emergency fund of 1,500$. 3,500$ would be ideal.
1,500$ for real emergencies only! 1,500$ saved in 1 year is 30$ a week. 60$ a week for 6 months. 107$ a week for 14 weeks.
2,000$ for later upgrades. It’s a slush fund so you don’t have to worry about finding money for whatever you need later.
To save 3,500$ in 1 year 67$ a week or 135$ biweekly or 291$ a month. In 6 months 582$ a month, 270$ biweekly, 134$ a week.
There’s no reason to look like a million dollars and have 5$ in my bank account. Priorities.
This can be done while in the General level up and Polish phase.
Cost: Time. Discipline needed.
New outfits that compliment your body shape.
I will continue to sing the praises of capsule closets. Its the easiest way to go shopping and have a bunch of outfits for next to nothing. I recommend 23 pieces: 3 pants, 4 dresses, 3 skirts, 7 shirts and 2 jackets/coats and 2 pairs of shoes.
2 quality purses (1 large/1 small)
Consignment stores have luxury bags at 50-75% off.
Gym membership (paid off for a full year)
Take some pressure off your own shoulders by paying for it in full. Planet fitness 10$ a month, 10$ down + fees comes out to 180$ a year.
Go 3-4x a week. For at least 30 mins of sweating.
2 perfumes for your signature scents.
One for casual day to day wear to work, to the store, to school, to hobby classes. One for special occasions like dates, events, company parties.
Quality Makeup that works with your skin type.
Oily, dry, or combination. Your face is your baby. Treat her well.
New glasses that fit your face shape or contact lenses.
Keep up with your nails, hair, eyebrows and healthy habits.
Cost: $$$
Lifestyle (diet) change.
Research and experiment until you find one that keeps you full, satisfies you and allows you to eat your favorite snacks/meals in moderation.
Skincare routine
Makeup remover, cleanser for morning and night, toner, serum, essence, anti-aging creams, moisturizer, sleep mask, exfoliator, sunscreen.
I started with the Korean 10 step skincare routine to find what worked for me and got rid of the steps I didn’t like or didn’t need. Like sheet masks, and essences.
Full Body Beauty Routine put together:
Skincare, shower routine, haircare, nail care, below the neck skincare.
Upgrade your room, sleepwear and loungewear!
Invest in a room you actually want to work and relax in.
Map out that business you wanna start.
Business plan, website content, business cards, goals, products, licenses needed, social media presence. Look into grants to get your funding.
Write down short term and long term savings goals
Saving mindlessly makes people more likely to spend it because its money in a jar, coming out of their check for no defined reason. Give yourself a reason and you’ll be less likely to mess up your own progress. Examples of goals:
3-6 months of emergency savings- long term
Retirement- long term
Business start up- short term
Last round of upgrades- short term
A house- long term
Investing money- short term
Vacation money- short term
Make a budget and start saving in earnest!
Set aside time for studying, reading, relaxing and recharging daily.
Make a vision book/board
Make a lookbook of outfits, makeup styles and aesthetics you love
5-10 year goals written down
Pick out any further degrees, certifications, licenses you want for your career.
Pick up new hobbies.
Keep reading, learning and gaining skills from free courses.
Research different personas and brands to find which you want to represent.
Clean up your social media presence.
Cost: Time, patience and $$$
Get a lock box for your birth certificate, SSN, check book, warranties, and receipts.
Get your teeth straightened and whitened.
Braces, wisdom teeth pulled, veneers, filled in crowns ect. The smile is the most inviting thing about the face. Make it pop.
If you wear glasses or contacts: laser eye surgery.
Body hair removal. Laser or Electrolysis.
Both work. Electrolysis destroys the hair follicle but the sessions take longer and may cost more because it may take 6 or visits to do the full area. Laser is cheaper but most women have to continue to go back for maintenance and its easy to burn black women, even in an office. Home laser devices usually don’t service brown to dark skinned women.
Start seeing a dermatologist, nutritionist, and personal trainer monthly
Get a passport booklet
If you want plastic surgery, start saving/get it done.
Start that business! Order the business cards, design the website, create the products.
Get a closet full of clothes that matches your persona or personas.
Sets of outfits for Work, Casual, & Formal settings. You can pick different styles for each type- Cottage core casual, business barbie for work, and 1950′s pinup for formal events.
This is where you go all out. Nothing but quality fabrics, statement pieces, and jewelry that will last at least 2 years or more.
I’d go with a 40 piece capsule closet: 10 tops, 10 skirts, 10 Dresses, 5 Jeans/pants, 3 shoes, 2 Jackets.
Don’t forget stockings, panty hose, breast pasties, and bra strap holders.
Examples of styles: Cottage core, classic feminine, sexy, cute, alternative, sporty, business, y2k, 70s, 80s, 50′s, soft glam, barbie/bratz doll. Ectera.
Take those hobby classes
Get your scholarships, degrees and certifications
Pick a persona and create the social media, and irl community presence.
Keep track of your costs!
Treat it like a business and you’ll see where you’re wasting money, how you can improve and create a budget for future use.
Keep notes too- what brand was the lipstick you bought, what color, how did it feel on you, did it look good, how long did it last, did it come off easily when eating, would you buy it again?
Sections: One time static costs. Recurring costs, Product page with notes.
Cut out toxic people.
Anyone that makes you feel less than or perpetually uncomfortable should have their access to you provoked.
“I did XYZ to better myself, and this is how they treat me?”
It’d be like paying 2,500$ for a seat at the La Scala, Milan for the best classical music concert in the world only to be behind a pillar in the corner with someone next to you on their phone all night.
Or applying for a job after you got the highest degrees available in your field, were valedictorian, and only applied for established multimillion dollar companies. Only for them to offer you 10$ an hour on a position worth 50$ an hour.
This one is last for three reasons. One it’s not always as simple or easy as blocking them and never speaking again, an exit strategy may be necessary. Two sometimes it pays, literally, to have these people around. If they have contacts I want I’ll get them before I go. If being around them cuts down the costs of something significant in my life I save the extra money while I plan my exit strategy. By the time I’ve left I’ve gotten my payment for any sabotage they’ve thrown my way. Three it’s an ongoing process. New friends can turn to new enemies in the right conditions. You may never be 100% free of having any snakes in your garden so it’s good to stay vigilant.
Cost: Time, Patience, Empathy for yourself, $$$$$
A long organized list of all of my pop culture spells organized.
Updated as of: 4/9/2020
🌟 “88 Call” Friendship Spell (Funbeemon Inspired) to strengthen the connection between your friends
🌟 Lilithmon’s Wicked Beauty Glamour Spell (Digimon Inspired) to appear dark, captivating and mysterious
🌟 Kudamon’s “Cool Under Fire” Spell (Digimon Inspired) to remain calm during trying and stressful times
🌟 Kyukimon’s Winds of Offense Protection Spell (Digimon Inspired) air spell that is both defensive and offensive to keep supernatural forces at bay
🌟 “Ocean Love” Binding Spell (Marin Angemon Inspired) to remove hostility from another individual or group
🌟 “Sunshine Beam” Enchantment Spell (Sunflowmon Inspired) to enchant an object with the energy of the sun
🌟 “Swipe Steal” Hex (Fangmon Inspired) to cause a target to misplace and lose things
🌟 “Almost There” Career Success Spell (Disney Inspired) A spell to bring success and advancement in your job
🌟 Aurora’s Love Dream Divination Spell (Disney Inspired) A spell to help one dream of future romantic partners
🌟 “Honor to Us All” Honor Spell (Disney Inspired) a spell to have your peers show you respect
🌟 “Kiss the Girl” Glamour Spell (Disney Inspired) to encourage a consenting person to kiss you
🌟 Voice Theft Curse (Disney Inspired) a spell to stop hateful words and send the negativity back to the person
🌟 “Din’s Fire” Toxic Person Banishing Spell (Legend of Zelda Inspired) a spell to cut ties from toxic and draining people
🌟 “Nayru’s Love” Parasite Warding Spell (Legend of Zelda Inspired) a spell to deter and ward against emotional leeches and leeching spirits
🌟 Grey Paint Brush Hex (Neopets Inspired) a small hex to give someone a bad day
🌟 Psellia’s Winds of Protection Warding Spell (Neopets Inspired) air spell to create a safe and protected space for magic and rituals
🌟 Sasha’s Emotional Strength Spell (Neopets Inspired) to help one endure brutal emotional trials and times
🌟Shadow Usul’s Night Invisibility Glamour Sachet (Neopet’s Inspired) glamour to help one go unseen and unnoticed at night time
🌟 Taelia’s Winter Cleansing Spell (Neopets Inspired) a spell to cleanse oneself during winter time
🌟 Vira’s Toxic Kiss Curse (Neopet’s Inspired) a curse to cast onto cheaters and adulterers
🌟 Give Heart (Ni No Kuni Inspired) to bring a friend joy and uplift them
🌟 Blood Money (Pathfinder Inspired) spell to bring financial gain
🌟 Blur (Pathfinder Inspired) to go unnoticed by others
🌟 Enshroud Thoughts (Pathfinder Inspired) protects oneself from divination and scrying eavesdropping of others
🌟 Invisibility (Pathfinder Inspired) spell to go unnoticed and travel unseen
🌟 Itching Curse (Pathfinder Inspired) cause a person to feel the discomfort they have caused you
🌟 Nightmare Curse (Pathfinder Inspired) cause a person to suffer nightmares
🌟 Shield of Wings (Pathfinder Inspired) to guard against negative words and comments
🌟 Tears to Wine (Pathfinder Inspired) turn one’s sadness into happiness
🌟 Aroma Veil (Pokemon Inspired) A spell to protect user from negative people and attract the attention of positive people
🌟 Aromatic Mist (Pokemon Inspired) to bring protection to a loved one
🌟 Aqua Ring (Pokemon Inspired) A bath spell to bring emotional healing and emotional serenity
🌟 Bubble (Pokemon Inspired) A spell to send your wishes out into the universe to seek for them to be answered and granted
🌟 Chandelure’s Hypnotic Flame Curse (Pokemon Inspired) to make another’s life go dull and for them to lose enjoyment in things
🌟 Charm (Pokemon Inspired) A spell to improve your charms and flirting
🌟 Cosmic Power (Pokemon Inspired) Cosmic spell to prepare you for divination and/or astral projection
🌟 Dazzling (Pokemon Inspired) to dazzle and stun someone trying to bring negativity to you and redirect it back
🌟 Endure (Pokemon Inspired) to give you emotional strength
🌟 Fairy Aura (Pokemon Inspired) to bring your inner beauty out to the surface
🌟 Flower Shield (Pokemon Inspired) to bring a space protection from malice and negative forces
🌟 Future Sight (Pokemon Inspired) improve psychic clarity while doing divination work
🌟 Gravity (Pokemon Inspired) a curse to weigh someone down emotionally
🌟 Heart Stamp (Pokemon Inspired) a spell to strengthen passion between you and a consenting lover
🌟 Heatproof (Pokemon Inspired) to help you remain strong under pressure and stress
🌟 Honey Gatherer (Pokemon Inspired) to encourage others to compliment you
🌟 Leer (Pokemon Inspired) to bind a person who is trying to intimidate you
🌟 Lock-On (Pokemon Inspired) to make another more vulnerable to your curse
🌟 Lunar Dance (Pokemon Inspired) banish negativity from yourself after a bad day
🌟 Metal Claws (Pokemon Inspired) to protect against baneful magic
🌟 Milk Drink (Pokemon Inspired) promote beauty
🌟 Moonblast (Pokemon Inspired) to make your target more vulnerable emotionally to the mundane and curses
🌟 Morning Sun (Pokemon Inspired) a spell to lift your spirits
🌟 Moxie (Pokemon Inspired) to bring the caster self-confidence
🌟 Musharna’s Vivid Dreams Spell Sachet (Pokemon Inspired) to bring vivid dreams to one’s sleep
🌟 Phantom Force (Pokemon Inspired) a curse to return all of the negative things someone has caused you back at them
🌟 “Powder Snow” Spell Jar (Pokemon Inspired) to remove one’s own romantic feelings for an ex or a toxic lover
🌟 Purugly’s Spell for Intimidation and Protection (Pokemon Inspired) to protect oneself from threats and danger by making oneself appear intimidating and not worth it to approach
🌟 Quilava’s Flames of Intimidation Spell (Pokemon Inspired) to make the user appear more intimidating and ferocious
🌟 Rest (Pokemon Inspired) bring deep, restful sleep
🌟 Saladit’s Ward Breaking Spell (Pokemon Inspired) to weaken and break wards of others
🌟 Serene Grace (Pokemon Inspired) to boost the effects of a positive spell such as a healing or calming spell
🌟 Shell Armor Warding Spell (Pokemon Inspired) to ward yourself from curses and baneful magick
🌟 Soundproof (Pokemon Inspired) to keep harmful words and rumors from affecting you
🌟 Sunny Day (Pokemon Inspired) a spell to bring a sunny day
🌟 Sweet Scent (Pokemon Inspired) To attract a new friend
🌟 Zapdos’s Thunderstorm Power Storage Spell (Pokemon Inspired) to cast during a thunderstorm to gain power from it and store it into a rock to use for later
🌟 Deep Submerge (Sailor Neptune Inspired) to submerge another in their own negativity
🌟 Passion of the Rose Spell (Tuxedo Mask Inspired) a spell to increase passion between consenting lovers
🌟 Pink Sugar Heart Spell (Mini Moon Inspired) a spell to promote cuteness and radiance
🌟 Sailor Uranus and Neptune Soulmate Attraction Spell (Sailor Moon Inspired) to help attract one of your soulmates into your life
🌟 World Shaking Curse (Sailor Uranus Inspired) cosmic curse to emotionally shake and shatter someone
🌟 Parabatai Spell (Shadowhunters Inspired) a spell to forge a bond with another consenting person to always be connected
🌟 “The Force” Energy Work Preparation Spell (Star Wars Inspired) a spell to help prepare for intense energy work
🌟 Like a Comet (Steven Universe) to motivate self in achieving and reaching for goals
🌟 Open Your Mind Peridot Spell (Steven Universe Inspired) a spell to open your mind and relieve stubbornness
🌟 “Strong in the Real Way” (Steven Universe Inspired) spell to bring you emotional strength and courage
🌟 Anti-Gravity Propulsion Ring (Totally Spies Inspired) enchant a ring to aid you overcome obstacles and challenges
🌟 Butterfly Barrette Bomb Enchantment (Totally Spies Inspired) a portable, wearable protection ward
🌟 Chameleon Eye Shadow (Totally Spies Inspired) a spell to evade unwanted attention from others
🌟 Cherry Lip Bomb (Totally Spies Inspired) to bring confidence in your voice and to overcome vocal obstacles
🌟 Ice Queen Breath Spray (Totally Spies Inspired) a spell to halt someone’s romantic feelings for you
🌟 Lip Stick Glamour Spell (Totally Spies Inspired) to help make your words ‘stick’ with people
🌟 Red Hot Lozenge (Totally Spies Inspired) makes your words more fiery and intimidating
🌟 Retractable Razor Nail Spell (Totally Spies Inspired) a spell to unbind yourself
🌟 Spiderclaw (Totally Spies Inspired) grab the desire and attention of others
🌟 Breath of Spring Offensive Spell (Winx Inspired) to stop and deter a specific target from harming or manipulating another
🌟 Dazzling Spiral Defensive Spell (Winx Inspired) to deflect negative entities who are trying to invade your home or personal dwelling
🌟 Golden Pollen (Winx Inspired) binding to prevent another from doing things to emotionally harm you
🌟 Illuminate (Winx Inspired) A spell to bring light to a situation (done before divination)
🌟 Shield (Winx Inspired) a spell to guard against offensive magic
🌟 Sound Cage Binding Spell (Winx Inspired) A spell to keep someone from being heard
🌟 Web of Confusion (Winx Inspired) cause confusion to anyone trying to pry into your life after you asked them to stop
🌟 Hay Lin’s Carefree Flyer Dream Spell (W.I.T.C.H. Inspired) a spell to bring on dreams of flying and weightlessness
🌟 Irma’s Fog Calling Spell (W.I.T.C.H. Inspired) a spell to conjure up some fog
🌟 Power of the Heart Self Love Spell (W.I.T.C.H Inspired) a spell to open your heart up for self love
🌟 Taranee’s Fire Divination Spell (W.I.T.C.H. Inspired) A spell to improve and empower fire divination/pyromancy
🌟 Graceful Charity Spell (Yugi-Oh) to bring good fortune in desperate/hard times
*All are from my digital and physical grimoires, all spells written by me
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Abundance comes from within. Let go of all the limiting beliefs you’ve got about money. Money is energy. Money is always available. You just need to align your energy with the energy of money. You can’t expect to be abundant if you hate money, or if you think that you don't deserve money, or if you think money is evil.
In order to live a more abundant life, you need to start working on your abundance mindset. What are your dominant beliefs about money? Are they serving you? Or are they preventing you from connecting to the universal flow of abundance?
Money is always available. Open to it. Invite it to your reality. Change your thoughts about money. Start repeating that money comes to you easily and effortlessly from multiple expected and unexpected sources. Visualize living a life you want to live, a life full of abundance at all levels.
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Success story
Hi, witchy! I remember asking you for advice a few times and I once promised to come back with a success story. In fact, many of my imaginal acts included me sharing my success on your tumblr. I'm glad I'm able to say they are no longer just "imaginal acts". I hope you like to read because I'm about to spill all the tea.
To give a bit of context, I had never been in a romantic relationship before and all of my knowledge was based on other people's experiences, social media, sad movies, and as you can guess, it was pretty toxic. I met my SP last year (2020), I manifested him without knowing. I literally created him in my mind, he was all I ever wanted in a partner, except he came a little bit earlier than I thought, haha. When I first started talking to him things were so magical, I honestly couldn't be more thankful. He was mature, kind, respectful, I was feeling a connection I had never felt with anyone before.
But my fairytale started it's conflictive part when the pandemic hit my country and we were quarantined. Even with the quarantine we were still talking and we were basically dating. Not officially, but the only thing missing were the tags. Unfortunately I may have shared a bit too much with some of my friends who then started to reflect my inner fears in regards to relationships. I started questioning my SP and wondering if all of this was real or just me falling into a fuckboy's trap. My friends kept fueling my fears and although I had no evidence of him being a fuckboy, I was definitely considering him to be one. Also at that time, an old trigger of mine resurfaced. Ghosting. I was so worried that because he couldn't see me in person, he was going to get bored of me and eventually ghost me... as the master manifestor I am, you can guess that I got exactly what I was persisting on. He ghosted.
I had been ghosted before, but this was the only time that I was actually hurt. I could feel the pain in my chest and couldn't hold my tears back. I even cried infront of my parents. I started receiving therapy and I wanted to give up on my SP, because I found out I was codependent, and he was "bad" for me. I was constantly watching videos on how to get over someone. I knew about subliminals and was using one to get over him. Here comes the fun part... thanks to subliminals youtube started suggesting me videos of the law of assumption. To be honest, the first manifestation coach I saw talking about EIYPO was Roxy Talks and when miss girl said that "anything others do is basically your own manifestation" I WAS OFFENDED. I wanted to sue Roxy, but another part of me was recalling my thoughts before my SP left, AND IT MATCHED. He did nothing out of the script. Everything he did, I had imagined. My wig was snatched, besties. Now I was both, sad and happy. Sad because I didn't know how to change that shit, happy because I didn't have to hate him. Out of everything, having to hating him was what hurt me the most. It was the same as with our pets, no matter what they do, we cannot hate them. I couldn't hate my SP because deep down in me, I genuinely believed he was a good person.
I was still not fully grasping this concepts tho, that's when witchysleepingbeauty comes into my story, and let me tell you, I WAS OFFENDED AGAIN. If you want tough love, witchy is your person. No bs allowed. I started doing exactly what she said. For the first time I was putting in the work.I have to be real honest, I didn't know what I was doing, it was not natural for me to think that everything works my way, and it made me feel weird at the beginning. I did some forgiveness meditations (Ho'opponopono specifically) to help me let go of the old story. I have to admit that it was until I was able to forgive myself and him, that things started to shift. I was no longer thinking about the past, and I was not thinking of him as a piece of ****. In new years, he came back for the first time, he texted me out of nowhere, and disappeared again. I was cool, I kept doing my shit. He then reached out a few other times but nothing consistent. Now this is when it got tough and I couldn't persist, I was bored and wanted to move on from him. I couldn't handle his inconsistency. I started talking to someone else and truly giving myself the chance to fall in love again, and try again with someone new. I was not even thinking about my SP during this time. I was all in for new beginnings, but I was not really feeling it.
This guy was cool, he was handsome, fun, but I was not into it. You could say he was basically an upgrade, even my friends liked him and told me I was finally getting someone better HAHAAA. I kept trying, but at some point I was just feeling like it was a loss of time (for both of us). So I decided to leave it there. I didn't go back to manifesting my SP tho, I started focusing solely on self concept. Enjoying being single, feeling like an actual goddess queen. Not needing anyone or anything in my life. I had a feeling while doing this, that my SP was going to come, it was natural, I was not forcing it. I was not even affirming for him. Like two weeks into this mindset and this bitch (my sp) texts me again out of fucking nowhere, joking like we never stopped talking, and this time it was consistent af. I hadn't even responded to his texts, when he was already answering back. I was taking hours to answer, and he kept answering me within seconds. He was acting all sweet, romantic and even asked me out on a date, haha!! I was hella nervous about the date, because we had never interacted in person. We had seen eachother but never interacted.
My first date with him was not perfect, I have to be honest about it, even the food was trash. It was a mess, but in hindsight it was cute because were just too nervous to be with eachother for the first time. Some great things I can recall from that date is that he was a gentleman, he even asked my parents for permission to take me out when he picked me up at my house. He admitted to be nervous about doing that, but the fact that he still did it makes my heart melt. No one had ever done that for me before, haha. After that one date, he started making more plans to hangout and showing so much interest in me. I have been feeling so good lately, and I just know that there is so much more for us to experience together. I'm glad I could find the law, and your amazing blog. You really helped me during this journey. I was watching so many videos, but it was until I found you that everything clicked for me. Everything started to make sense, and thanks to your tough love I was also able to leave the bs in the past.
*I did have undesirable circumstances once he was back, my only advice and the only thing there is to do, is to keep persisting. Be firm in your mindset. Most importantly, be happy, do what feels good. If at any point you don't feel like you're getting what you want, do not settle.
**Also this is living proof that circumstances do not matter, EVER. Trust me. I had so many circumstances that sometimes made me question if this relationship was even possible.
***Self concept did wonders for me and it's truly all I needed in my life to accomplish what I wanted. My biggest advice for people manifesting an SP (or anything really) is to focus on self concept, and start embodying the person that you desire to be. Usually when we are aiming for love, we tend to forget ourselves in the way, and focus mostly on the other person. Do not forget you should be your main priority all the time.
I’m jumping in to add some comments here guys:
First of all I loved reading your story, though it was on the longer side it was very exciting and I love the way you write!
Second, the part where you said you were offended had me crying 😂. Guys it’s so important to take responsibility for the shitty things that happen to us because then we know we can create good things if we put our mind to it!
I am so happy to hear that I could help you! People don’t usually come back to share their success but it’s honestly so nice when they do because it shows me I’m doing something right and I’m actually helping you guys!
Finally I know manifesting is a lonely journey a lot of times because most of us don’t share it with our friends or family. In case you didn’t have anyone tell you this: you did such an amazing job. I am very happy and proud of you. 💖
From now on you’ll be able to find all success stories under the hashtag #success stories
The Nano-Mind Technique
Infoglut - static information; Infobahn - moving information; Infonesia - forgetting information
Information (sigils; words; thoughtforms) may be used to project information outside of one’s Head for another Head to notice. Maybe that other Head will take enough notice to reproduce a similar Idea.
Information magic, at first, is not meant to control but to introduce a concept for possible results. Art is a beautiful way to spread Ideas.
Knotting a crystal net is very easy if you are able to use your fingers for this kind of crafting.
They are often called crystal "wraps" and many tutorials can be found on Youtube.
There are many, many ways to make a crystal net. The style you use determines the final appearance. More importantly for us, the style you use determines how many knots there will be, and their size.
We can draw on four common elements of magic: Crystal/mineral correspondences, color correspondences, numerology, and knot magic.
The stone (or other object) is like the battery which holds and radiates power. The object you net should correspond to your core intent.
The color of cord or thread you use can modify or hone your intent. For example, if using clear quartz, the color correspondence might be doing most of the work.
Then again, this spell will work with cotton twine and a river stone, so just do whatever suits you.
The total number of cords you use dictates how many knots total will exist in your spell. Crystal nets are made by tying two strands of cord together. If you use four cords, you will have eight working ends, and therefore you will tie four knots per row. If you have five cords, you will have ten working ends, and you will need to tie five knots per row. I align my numerology to the number of knots, not strands, because the knots themselves are holding the magic.
The knots are used to tie intent and bind power. I create most of my charms in a style that has one big starter knot at the top and one big finishing knot at the bottom. There are tons of ways to utilize knots in this project. The first knot can hold the only intent, while the rest bind powers to support it. Or the intent can be split into its composite parts and each part gets its own knot. Or every single knot can have something unique, or they can all be identical... lots of options.
Conceptually, the inner object is the focal point or battery of the spell. The knots can be understood as tools that the object uses to carry out your will, instructions to guide the object in its work, vessels that carry additional power (like tidepools on a beach), or tangles that capture and bind up unwanted forces.
1. Learn how to make the nets first from an arts and crafts perspective :) you can cut the cording off to re-use the same stone later. It is really frustrating to try and do a craft in a ritual headspace if you have to learn the craft simultaneously!
2. Gather up your cording and object to be netted. Do any ritual techniques you prefer to prepare them.
3. Decide how you want your intent to be tied in. Do you want to use the same phrase for each knot? Do you want to chant your intent continuously while you do many knots? Etc.
4. Make the crystal net in your ritual headspace/magic zone. Pour your intent into each knot in whatever methods you choose.
5. I recommend making the final knot of your project into the seal which completes and finishes the amulet ("so mote it be," "as my will it has been done," etc).
6. If you did not raise and direct energy during the spell, ensure the amulet is charged afterwords. Like all amulets and talismans, it requires feeding and repowering as time goes on.
Elizabeth Olsen in Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness (2022)
your mind is always supposed to be a bit ahead of your 3d. there’s nothing wrong with not seeing something play out in your 3d immediately. keep your eyes on the prize. focus on the end. you’re doing everything right.
some of my favorite spooky ladies + flowers and bouquets 🌹💐
idc what this blog told you about needing a ‘perfect self concept’ to manifest nor do i care about that other blog telling you you have to stay still to get to the void, or the blog that told you it takes at least 1 day to manifest, or the blog saying affirming is the only way to manifest etc…
just because they think it is true for them (+is, but in their reality) doesn’t mean it has to be true for you.
YOU CAN CREATE YOUR OWN RULES
you wanna breakdance while entering the void? okay do it yay.
you think you can manifest in a second? okay go babe.
you don’t want to have a ‘perfect self concept’ to manifest? YESSS.
there is nothing impossible for the law!
so please stop asking blogs on how to manifest this and that, when you can just create your own rules. realize how much power you have! YOU ARE A FUCKING GOD BABY
(also im not saying these blogs are wrong, it’s obv true for them👍👍👍)