Die French

love this animals

the yuck

one thing i need to start living by is “become the thing that you want” if i want friends who throw themed parties maybe i should start throwing those parties. if i want someone who writes me love letters maybe i should start writing letters for the people i love. if i want to hang out at museums and pretty cafes maybe i should invite my friends to these places. and maybe even then i won’t find the kind of people i want to be around. but then i would have become the exact person i want to be around. and maybe that’s good enough.

Show up as her

Just one day as HER. Then another day, then another day again.

Incarnate HER.

SHE is your ideal self, SHE is the one you thrive to be.

SHE will make everything happen so SHE stays HERSELF. SHE knows what crap habits to avoid, what people to block, what actions to do. Trust yourself in HER.

SHE has a certain lifestyle that's just perfection to you. If SHE isn't happy about your current lifestyle, SHE knows what to do, say, ask, give, cut, get, receive so SHE can have that lifestyle SHE wants and desires, instead of festering in your misery soup.

I ask you...

What's HER name? Certainely a powerful one, that makes your very soul shake and be inspired. HER name makes spirits rise up, revitalizes you and other people, perhaps inspires an admirative fear in everyone. .

Who are HER inspirations? The people SHE vibes well, and is at the same level as those people. Who SHE is most similar to? Why are those people amazing? Ponder for a while and note down your guesses.

What does SHE looks like? HER fashion sense is absolute perfection to you, maybe is it perfect sleekness, relaxed chicness? Accumulate fashion and makeup that remind you of HER.

Light up an candle and assemble several objects that remind you of HER and visit that shrine you built to HER and to YOU. Think hard about HER. Try to think, breathe, talk, laugh, act, write like HER every single day. One day, with consistent meticulous care and application, SHE will be you and you will be HER.

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ND culture is being so very tired of hearing NTs say that they know more about autism than you do...an actual autistic.

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Maybe someday we will be two people meeting again for the first time.

Unknown

“After a while you learn the subtle difference Between holding a hand and chaining a soul, And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning And company doesn’t mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts And presents aren’t promises, And you begin to accept your defeats With your head up and your eyes open With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child, And you learn to build all your roads on today Because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. After a while you learn… That even sunshine burns if you get too much. So you plant your garden and decorate your own soul, Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure… That you really are strong And you really do have worth… And you learn and learn… With every good-bye you learn.”

— Jorge Luis Borges, You Learn