The absence of overthinking prevents the need to have to explain myself to people whose opinions you really do not care about, aiding in a happier, easier, prettier life.
Killing your ego means no longer having to prove yourself by doing things you really don’t want to do. Facts are facts. Doesn’t matter what anyone has to say about said fact. It doesn’t change. You can question that the sky is blue, doesn’t mean the sky was or ever will be another color.
Arguing only validates the opposition. You know who you are and what you want. They don’t.
When you’re thought free, nothing is out of the realm of possibility. Anything, including landing a dream career, having an abundance of disposable income, a man falling into an endless love with you just based off of your beauty, or living a leisurely life. Have the audacity. Be delusional. Be entitled to what you want.
Removing yourself from areas of the world where difficult topics are often discussed is freeing. I’m pretty. I don’t argue about antivaxxing, problematic celebrities or etc. Those topics are bad and bring me down so I don’t know what they are.
Don’t argue with men. Any man. If a man won’t treat me with respect that’s not the end of my world. I’m literally obsessed with myself so how could he even bring me down? The effort he is putting into a conversation/argument with me only affirms how obsessed he is with me. Don’t meet him half way.
Being pretty is a meal ticket. Everywhere. People are nicer, they try to understand more, they make excuses for mistakes. They treat me like an Angel, just because my face is pretty.
The lack of thoughts means the lack of worry. No more (preventable) anxiety. If I can’t control it, it doesn’t exist to me and I will be fine.
I don’t get embarrassed. Whatever happened, happened and I’m not thinking about it. Not thinking about anything but me. Whats there to be embarrassed about? Your obsession with me?
Literally never answering a question I don’t want to answer ever again. It’s my business. You can get met with a blank stare, a smile and an “I don’t know, lol.”
Yes I do always have to look like a doll. It’s inevitable because I am one. The effort I put into my look is essential to who I am and the ease of how I live my pretty life. Pretty face, hair, beautiful clothes, mani and pedi, lashes, pouty lips, no waist. The color pink. My signature <3
I’m only ever thinking about things that make me happy because nothing makes me unhappy. If I don’t like it, it doesn’t exist in my world.
I love myself so much. No one can extract any false insecurities, or relatable humbling out of me, in order to bring me down to their level of overthinking and plainness. I’m focused on me at all times. Always affirming everything I like about myself, I have no time to pick myself apart.
No longer going to stress, or even think, about the way someone talked or looked at me. That’s a them problem. Nothing for me to worry about. That’s time I could be spending thinking about me!
Being thought free doesn’t equate to not being intelligent, but it does mean not breaking your neck to assert how smart you are. I know I’m intelligent and I use my intelligence, along with my beauty and peace of mind to get ahead on life. <3
inspo: gsgetlonelytoo
We’re all experiencing life differently. Never take anything personally. Stay in your own lane. Do what makes you happy and give others the same grace.
Skincare Routine and Product 101 🧖♀️🫧🧴💕
Morning Routine:
Cleanser: Gently cleanse your face with a mild cleanser to remove sweat and oil.
Toner: Apply a alcohol-free toner to balance your skin's pH levels.
Serum (Optional): Apply a serum with antioxidants or specific skin concerns (e.g., Vitamin C for brightening).
Moisturizer: Use a lightweight, non-comedogenic moisturizer to hydrate your skin.
Sunscreen: Apply broad-spectrum SPF 30+ sunscreen to protect your skin from UV rays.
Evening Routine:
Makeup Removal: Use a gentle makeup remover or cleansing oil to remove makeup and sunscreen.
Cleanser: Cleanse your face again with a mild cleanser to remove impurities.
Exfoliating (1-2 times a week): Use a gentle exfoliant to remove dead skin cells and promote cell turnover.
Toner Apply toner to balance your skin after cleansing.
Serum: Apply a serum with ingredients like hyaluronic acid or retinol (if suitable for your skin type).
Eye Cream (Optional): Apply a lightweight eye cream to moisturize the delicate skin around your eyes.
Moisturizer: Use a slightly thicker night cream or moisturizer to deeply hydrate your skin.
Descriptions:
Cleanser:
Purpose: Removes dirt, oil, and impurities from the skin's surface.
Types: Gel cleansers, foaming cleansers, cream cleansers, oil cleansers.
Toner:
Purpose: Balances the skin's pH, preps for other products, and provides light hydration.
Types: Hydrating toners, exfoliating toners (with AHAs/BHAs).
Serum:
Purpose: Concentrated formulas targeting specific skin concerns (e.g., hydration, brightening, anti-aging).
Types: Hyaluronic acid serums, vitamin C serums, retinol serums.
Moisturizer:
Purpose: Hydrates and seals moisture into the skin, creating a protective barrier.
Types: Gel moisturizers, cream moisturizers, oil-based moisturizers.
Sunscreen:
Purpose: Protects the skin from UV rays, preventing sun damage and premature aging.
Types: Physical sunscreens (with zinc oxide or titanium dioxide).
Exfoliant:
Purpose: Removes dead skin cells, unclogs pores, and promotes cell turnover.
Types: Physical exfoliants (scrubs), chemical exfoliants (AHAs, BHAs).
Mask:
Purpose: Provides a concentrated treatment for specific concerns (e.g., hydration, acne).
Types: Clay masks (absorb excess oil), sheet masks (hydrate and soothe), sleeping masks (overnight treatment).
Eye Cream:
Purpose: Hydrates and addresses specific concerns around the delicate eye area (e.g., dark circles, puffiness).
Spot Treatment:
Purpose: Targets individual pimples or blemishes with concentrated ingredients.
Makeup Remover:
Purpose: Effectively removes makeup, sunscreen, and impurities from the skin.
Cleansing Oil:
Purpose: Gently dissolves makeup and sunscreen, leaving skin clean and hydrated.
Micellar Water:
Purpose: Cleanses and removes makeup using micelle molecules, requires no rinsing.
Essence:
Purpose: A lightweight, hydrating step that prepares skin for subsequent products.
Ampoule:
Purpose: A highly concentrated serum for intense treatment of specific concerns.
Facial Oil:
Purpose: Nourishes and adds extra hydration to the skin, especially for dry or mature skin types.
Your skincare routine should be tailored to your individual skin type, concerns, and preferences. Start with the basics and gradually introduce new products to observe how your skin responds.
Levelling up means becoming the best, healthiest, most successful version of yourself. Here's some ways to do that:
Read books (education, flow state, calms and slows the mind)
Daily exercise (30 mins or more)
Listen to positive, uplifting music
Have creative hobbies (painting, pottery, sewing, etc)
Get rid of negative/toxic friends
Choose healthy, beneficial relationships
Therapy
Learn new languages
Meditate
Go outside and into nature
Spend time with animals (calming)
Positive affirmations
Keep your living space clean and tidy
Drink lots of water
Daily stretching
Prayer, gratitude, journaling, etc
Eat a healthy, nutritious diet
Reduce internet time and start physical hobbies (e.g. art, dance, surfing, gardening, etc)
Get 8 hours of sleep
Always take care of yourself first.
Mia.
10 model-approved beauty secrets 💄
here will be a list of 10 beauty secrets i've learned from a model who's been in the industry for over 10 years and also studied from some of our beloved top name models in the industry. we all love good beauty hacks and tips that won't take much effort or drain our pockets. so here are the secrets.. :
LESS IS MORE. less enhances rather than overwhelms. opt for a lightweight foundation of your choice, such as charlotte tilbury or a skin tint, like fenty beauty to avoid cakey makeup. and effortless elegance, looking without seeming overly done, makes you feel beautiful and is truly captivating. — think "clean girl aesthetic" or "french beauty" philosophy. this is also good for skin health, too many products may be bad for your skin.
daily facial massages and sculpting. using a guasha, jade roller, face roller, etc. has many beauty benefits beyond just self-care. using these tools on your face daily can reduce puffiness, lift and tone facial features, deliver oxygen and nutrients to the skin, giving it a natural, radiant glow. try massaging your face daily with your knuckles and apply a serum your skin likes.
jewelry is the way to enhance any look. jewelry adds polish without trying too hard, it enhances features, earrings highlight cheekbones, necklaces draw attention to the collarbone, rings add elegance to hand gestures.
try not to draw on brows. this beauty secret says that you should only fill in the sparse areas of your brows, outline, and blend. harsh or overly defined brows can make your facial features look rigid. try brow gels, powders, or even a light-handed pencil. do what you love but it's all about technique.
rub ice over your face before applying makeup. this beauty hack is good for those with oily skin. the ice minimizes pores, reduces puffiness and redness, and helps makeup last longer. wrap the the ice cube in a cloth or use an ice roller.
wear almond, oval, or short square nails. these nail shapes are universally flattering and effortlessly elegant. they are versatile for any style, whether you prefer minimal or bold nail art, or even french tip nails are a classic in beauty. very low maintenance and can still do everyday tasks while looking polished.
use castor oil to help grow your lashes. castor oil is rich in nutrients and deeply conditioning, with tons of growth benefits and non-chemical. use a clean spoolie or cotton swab to apply a thin layer before bed.
let concealer sit for 2-3 minutes before blending. letting the concealer marinate gives fuller coverage and grips the skin better. use this technique for under eye circles and blemishes.
find a makeup routine that enhances your natural features. celebrate your unique beauty instead of masking it! a more natural look is lower maintenance, feeling comfortable and fresh. opt for cream products, lightweight foundation, tinted moisturizer, and apply concealer only where needed.
skincare is EVERYTHING. skincare is important because it lays the foundation for healthy, radiant skin and confidence. when your skin is properly cared for, it helps with everything—texture, hydration, barrier strength, and even long-term anti-aging benefits.
Your romantic partner defines your reputation. You’re telling the world that this person represents you. Who you are, what you tolerate, what you believe you deserve & your self esteem
charlotte tilbury k.i.s.s.i.n.g. collection ❤︎︎
accessorizing like an it girl⋆.ೃ࿔*:・👛💕
accessories are the most important aspect of any outfit. they can take an outfit from 0 -> 10/10 literally instantly. when it comes to dressing, its all in the little details. it'll make u look like a bratz doll so lets talk about how to accessorize like an it girl…💬🎀
♡ statement sunglasses that SCREAM diva
go for the oversized sunglasses, that are embedded with rhinestones. and dont feel awkward if ur wearing sunglasses when the sun isnt even out because its more about what it does for your OUTFIT instead of how practical it is. remember, what it does for your outfit > practicality.
♡ layered jewelry bcuz every girl deserves her bling
when it comes to jewelry, the more the better! necklaces, bracelets, anklets, rings, earrings. the whole nine yards. for bracelets i rly love charm bracelets and chunky bangles. i love to layer my bracelets and my necklaces too.
for earrings i love everything! it all depends on the outfit ur wearing. for a casual glam look go for hoops or diamond studs! if ur going to an elegant event and u wanna look like a princess go for delicate chandelier earrings.
♡ dont sleep on hair accessories
headbands, butterfly clips, ribbons and bows and ball hair accessories. i remember looking for those ball hair accessories for the longest time cuz i used to wear pink fluffy ones when i was little, but i didn't know what they were called in english. but if u just look up "ball hair accessories" you'll find them.
♡ tiny bags - practical AND cute
Hi! I'm LovelyLavDolly, u can call me lav 4 short, I'm 20 years old & neurodivergent, This is a girly, nerdy, cutesy, purple blog♡
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