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INDEX: ˗ˏˋ꒰🎱꒱ self improvement ˗ˏˋ꒰📚꒱ studying & academia
˗ˏˋ꒰🎱꒱ Self improvement:
NOTION HABIT TRACKER (free!)
48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene — part 1 & part 2
Recommends: BLOSSLY
Chapter 5: May
May ins & outs
Chapter 6: June
My 2024 wrapped!
how to do things when you dont feel like doing them (ask)
how to stop sulking over your life and stop struggling with embodying your dream self (ask)
4:30-5:40 morning routine (ask)
how to make life a little better
gratitude baby!
how to get over negative experiences in your life
Cry about it, then come back stronger
lets talk: YOUR SCROLLING ADDICTION & how to fix it
Embarrassment is a choice
weltschmerz: the depression that arises from comparing the world as it is to a hypothetical idealised world.
How to achieve your goals using: S.M.A.R.T goals.
prioritising: how to prioritise + use it effectively to take over your life.
Hard work?? At least do work!
create a new identity
dont let your past affect your future
How I prepared for 2025
BECOME YOUR DREAM GIRL BY 2025
sleep tips
how to live a luckier life
journalling tips part 1
journalling tips part 2
SHADOW WORK journalling prompts
GIRL TALK #1: friends & feeling left out
GIRL TALK #2: dealing with hate + not caring about what others think of you.
dealing with stress, fear and anxiety (ask)
future nostalgia
sometimes, the people who've hurt you aren't horrible...
a girl's guide to getting a life ... coming soon
˗ˏˋ꒰📚꒱ School & education:
How to be more educated
(ask) how to work hard + actually study
Motivation: things to like about these subjects
How to be the it girl in school
recommended study video for upcoming exams
100/100 grades on exams (affirmations)
How to ACE your exams!!
Question bank study method
things to learn about on those afternoons you have nothing to do
racism
how to be smart (from pinterest)
it girl's guide to academics
tips for moving to a new school (ask)
studying for exam week
posts & socials:
me
youtube channel
how to live your life like the BRATZ ♡
leveling up to your dreamgirl version of yourself 2022 ♡
leveling up to your dreamgirl version of yourself part 2 ♡
small life lessons we can all learn from audrey hepburn ♡
how to study and excel like rory gilmore from season one of gilmore girls ♡
my dreamy guide to a luminous transition to fall ♡
a small guide for an instant mood lifter and an improved life ♡
saweetie on having a pretty aura ♡
dolly parton on being secure in yourself ♡
mini planner ♡
how to be successful and study like elle woods ♡︎
how to be fabulous like sharpay evans ♡︎
my bookclub ♡
my online magazine
popular asks:
how to live a healthy teenage girl life
how to balance books and boys
how to take care of yourself when you're sick
how to have soft skin and stronger lingering scents
how to give yourself a makeover to upgrade to the person you’ve always been plus some style tips
love,
do what you want and don't be afraid to do it alone. if no one else wants to go with you somewhere, or do something with you, learn to have that ability to do it alone. and obviously i don't mean illegal or bad stuff, but i mean if you've been meaning to try out a new activity but no one else seems interested, go do it on your own! when you start doing this it'll show people that whether they join you or not, you will still go and do things that make you happy.
say no. just say no. its not that scary once you start saying it often. you don't wanna do something? say no. you don't wanna give something? say no. you don't need to have a reason.
get a life outside of them or get a life outside of whats draining you. when your whole life is primarily centred around maybe a toxic friend, a job that drains you, something that makes you feel very anxious, then of course you'd be on survival mode 24/7. because all you're thinking and stressing about is that thing. so instead maybe after a long day of school or work, go home and do something you love. because remember, your life doesnt stop after school/ work okay?? you can go and actually DO STUFF to take your mind off things. you don't even need to go out of your house, you could have a cozy night in with yummy food and your fav movie, pick up a hobby or if you do wanna go outside your house, meet up with some friends, learn a sport, join a club, go paragliding or something- anything that makes you feel happy!!
refuse embarrassment. because you can. because torturing yourself over what happened in the past is doing you absolutely no good right now. just learn and move onnn- LEARN AND MOVE ON! if learning takes time, so be it but make sure that you're focussing on learning, on why you did that, and not beating yourself up for making a mistake. and also because when you show people you're not embarrassed about something, they'll realise that they cannot hold that over your head. now you have the power.
when you say you're gonna do something, DO IT. don't be all talk and no walk, people will lose respect and trust in you. don't say anything unless you are confident that you will actually do it. "do what you say but do not say what you do"- keep up to your promises you've made to others & yourself, but also keep private. what people don't know, they can't ruin.
staying and feeling clean and fresh⋆.ೃ࿔*:・🛁💕
HAVING GOOD SMELLING HAIR ;
having good smelling hair doesn't only boil down to the scented shampoos and conditioners you use in ur hair. odor in ur hair originates in ur scalp so by keeping a clean scalp -> your hair will smell better! if u have a dry scalp, oil your hair before washing it. oil breaks down oil. if u have an oily scalp, clarify ur hair once a week.
you can figure out what kind of scalp type you have with the quiz i'll link right here (♡) also, i find that how u wash ur hair makes SUCH a difference. i always shampoo twice and i use a bubble foamer to really emulsify my shampoo and that makes my hair feel SO much cleaner and softer so i highly recommend that.
so what i'll do, is i'll make my shampoo foam and put it onto my scalp and then use a scalp massager to REAALLLY get in there and clean my head. massaging my scalp during this time feels so nice. i massage the five different meridians on my scalp and just really enjoy this step. some other general tips include :
🫧 dont use regular perfume on ur hair bcuz the alcohol in perfume dries out ur hair, instead use a hair perfume
🫧 make sure that your washing your hair brushes every couple of weeks to manage the residual product and stop redistributing those oils back into ur hair
SMELLING GOOD ;
using glycolic acid on ur skin gets rid of odor that simply showering cannot. i wipe down with glycolic acid on my underarms once a week. another thing that helps with smelling super good is not rubbing ur perfume in! when u apply perfume onto ur wrists and u rub, ur just breaking them done and making them foggy and thats NOT hot.
dont ever rub, just let it sink into ur skin. also, applying it onto your pressure points (e.g. inner wrists, inner elbows, neck, in between ur boobs) makes all the difference bcuz when u sweat ur body releases heat from here, emitting ur perfume.
ORAL HYGEINE ;
🫧 floss every single night and tongue scraping in the morning! its a non-negotiable
🫧 brush ur teeth 2x a day
🫧 oil pulling 1-2x a week to whiten my teeth and for general oral health (i oil pull with coconut oil)
SHOWER ROUTINE ORDER ;
bar soap (if i need to i'll use an antibacterial one) -> body wash -> OUT OF THE SHOWER -> body oil -> lotion/body butter (keep in mind the body oils and butters go on while ur skin is still slightly damp) -> perfume 🛁💕
GENERAL TIPS AND CHARTS ;
🫧 i use exfoliation gloves/african net sponge every single day, it keeps my skin super duper soft and my skin isnt highly sensitive so i can take it.
🫧 make sure that you use scents that layer well together and blend nicely. dont use a pineapple scented body wash and use a chocolate scented body butter! then you're gonna smell a mess.
🫧 dont use an antibacterial bar soap every single day because its superrr drying for your skin.
(None of these photos are mine)
“Let’s do those things that we’re scared of doing. Let’s do the really important things—and not give a ✌to what people think.” - Vita Sidorkina
1. 10 MINUTE AB WORKOUT | Alexis Ren
2. 30 Minute Full Body Workout | Move With Nicole
3. 10 Minute Everyday Full Body Workout | Lidia Mera
4. INTENSE (beware) 35MIN Workout | afit
5. 15MIN Fully Body Pilates Burn Workout | Madeleine Abeid
6. 10MIN SLIM FULLY BODY WORKOUT | Shirlyn Kim
"Just get up in the morning every day, do you, be you, and just do what you want. Honestly, just be at ease, be free.” Lais Ribeiro
Remember to take time for yourself and to stay pretty 💗
Xoxo, Arielleslipgloss 💋🎀
Any money making tips?
Have a side hustle - There are so many side hustles that you can get into to make quick + extra money.
Start a shop on Amazon or Etsy
Start a YouTube channel
Help tutor or do 1 on 1 classes
Sell your old clothing
Deliver food + groceries
Start a blog
Offer freelance services
Invest - One of the best ways to make money is to invest it!
Invest in stocks
Invest in quality products
Invest in yourself
Invest in experiences + education
BUDGET!!!! - My #1 tip when it comes to making money and saving it involves budgeting + making a budget plan!!
Understand budget categories: food, pets, fun, children, education, home, utilities, insurance + etc.
Research budgeting methods and use one that fits you and your lifestyle. There are lots to choose from like the 70/20/10 method or the cash envelope method.
Prevent over spending - Over spending is a big challenge for a lot of us when it comes to money. Understanding how to prevent it can help save lots of $ over time.
Wait before making big purchases
Use a spending tracker
Set a spending limit
Use cash
Create shopping lists
Avoid browsing online shops
Save your money - Know when and how to spend + save your money!
Meal prep
Buy in bulk
Save coupons
Try a saving challenge
Get cash back rewards
Know your spending triggers - Figure out what can cause you to spend a lot of your money. Some triggers could be:
Boredom
Social media
Stress
Sales
Peer pressure
Some ways you can overcome these triggers are by unsubscribing from marketing emails and by making a solid plan before going through with a big purchase.
Make good spending habits - Pick up on habits that will help you get ahead in your finances!
Spend less than you earn
Maintain an emergency fund
Invest in yourself
Fix your bad habits
These are just the basics when it comes to personal finance. Hope it helps! Xoxo. 💸💓
guide to a evening routine 𝜗𝜚⋆₊˚ 🐈⬛🎀✨
your night sets the tone for tomorrow, which is why having a peaceful and intentional evening routine is so so important. its your special time to unwind, reset, and wind down. of course you can do these steps in whatever order feels right for you, your routine should soothe and support your needs. a good evening routine helps improve your sleep, lowers stress and creates a space comfortable for mindfulness, self love and peace. sweet dreams and enjoy! 🎀
UNWINDING:
unwinding at night is all about slowing down and letting your body know it’s time to relax. i love dimming the lights, playing soft music or subliminals, lighting a candle and just breathing. you can journal, reflect on your day, or just lay in bed and check in with yourself. your energy deserves softness after a long day.
SKINCARE:
your skincare routine should feel like a ritual—not a chore. it’s a moment just for you. cleansing the day away, moisturizing, and pampering yourself makes you feel clean, dolly, and cared for. even just washing your face and applying your favorite serum can boost your mood.
STRETCHING + YOGA:
doing 5-10 minutes of gentle yoga or stretching at night can completely shift your energy. it helps calm your nervous system, release tension, and reconnect with your body. plus, it feels so good to move with intention.
READING:
reading before bed instead of scrolling is such a dreamy habit. it calms your mind and helps you fall asleep easier. you can read anything you like—romance, fantasy, a cozy self-help—but even a few pages helps. it feels so much better to end the day with words than a screen.
WARM BATH OR SHOWER:
a warm bath or shower is one of the best things you can do for your body and your mind before bed. it literally rinses the stress off you. add bubbles, oils, salts—whatever makes it feel soft and special. when you step out clean and cozy, it’s like becoming a new version of you, ready for rest.
GRATITUDE:
before sleep, take a few moments to say thank you. list three things you’re grateful for, even tiny ones. this shifts your mindset into peace + abundance. it’s such a simple thing, but it makes a huge difference. gratitude reminds you how amazing life already is.
xxx, belle
Hydrate like your life depends on it, because your enjoyment of life sure does.
Get an expensive, high-quality multivitamin. Drugstore brands don't cut it.
Put on sunscreen before your face is ever hit by rays, and watch your bedroom shades. I've received a sunburn from the morning sun peeking through before!
Research retinoids like retinol & tretinoin, and why mega-dosing vit A can function similarly. Don't forget your neck if applying topically.
Find out what you're allergic to. Eliminate all the common allergens for a week - wheat, dairy, sugar, nuts, shellfish, eggs - and then reintroduce them one at a time. Your skin and gut will tell you if something is harming you if you're patient and LISTEN to your body.
Environmental allergens will kill your skin too - get tested for allergies to pet dander, mold, dust mites, etc. especially if you wake up with mucus habitually or feel tired a lot.
Fill your diet with antioxidants.
Quit using lip balms that make your lips more chapped and switch to applying oils.
Hi! I'm LovelyLavDolly, u can call me lav 4 short, I'm 20 years old & neurodivergent, This is a girly, nerdy, cutesy, purple blog♡
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