sometimes you just have to let yourself be a bit neurodivergent.
i hate going out, it gives me a lot of anxiety and sensory input that i dont like, and i am often forced to talk to people.
so i do this thing on more difficult days, or sometimes just for fun, where i "bring a fictional character with me". i walk and imagine Fictional Character walking next to me. they talk to me, reassure me, hype me up, whatever i need them to do.
today dean winchester came christmas shopping with me. he went over the list with me of stuff i needed to get, told me i was doing a good job every time i finished in a certain shop, reminded me to take a deep breath when i got a little overwhelmed.
and yea. its kinda silly. and i know its just me talking to myself in a different voice, but it Works! especially since all of my special interests/hyperfixations tend to be tv/movie related.
so do what you gotta do to Get Shit Done. stop holding yourself to neurotypical standards. if you need Fictional Character to tell you you're doing a good job, do it! if you need Favourite Singer to walk you to school, do it! yea it might feel silly but you're literally fighting against your own brain to get stuff done every single day. you can have a little self indulgent daydream, as a treat.
The Glamorous Library: 2nd room
-> Introduction
-> room 1: self improvement / studying
-> room 3: confidence + self love / manifestation + LOA / socialising
INDEX: ˗ˏˋ꒰🎀꒱ girly things ˗ˏˋ꒰💅꒱ fashion & beauty ˗ˏˋ꒰ 💌 ꒱ minis + moodboards:
˗ˏˋ꒰🎀꒱ girly things
Teenage guide to a HOT GIRL SUMMER
Elegance & grace (how to be elegant)
forgiveness to others
unique compliments to give people
how to have the ULTIMATE SELF CARE NIGHT!
how to survive the cold weather & be super cozy
delulu vs unhealthy obsession w/ a crush
2025 is for...
my 2025 mantras!
sleepover essentials for teens!
hobbies masterlist
BRATZ: the bold, stylish & unstoppable!
happy february girlies!
a guide to lorelai gilmore
🎀 GLAM MAGAZINE; january issue | barbie edition!
🎀 GLAM MAGAZINE | february issue
🎀 GLAM MAGAZINE | march + april issue
˗ˏˋ꒰💅꒱ Fashion & beauty
simple ways to look more attractive without makeup!
barbie's signatures
hygiene tips
full guide to winter fashion & outfits
˗ˏˋ꒰ 💌 ꒱ minis + moodboards:
minis:
true love (with myself)
always improve.
how to become the best version of you
life is so big and unserious
Be grateful!
grateful, gorgeous, glowing
Create a life worth living
pretty girl affirmations/ paragraph
you're a fun person to be around.
seeking validation & witholding from real love
she cares for herself
quotes:
Gina linetti quotes
elle woods quotes
Yoda quote
Lavender haze, Taylor Swift quote
I forgot that you existed, Taylor Swift quote
Thewizardliz quote
Moodboard:
Moodboard #1 - academic weapon
Moodboard #2 - orange/ vanilla girl academia
Moodboard #3 - spring/ morning inspired
Moodboard #4 - spring inspired
Moodboard #5 - pink academia
Moodboard #6 - barbie inspired!!
Moodboard #7 - Elle woods inspired
Moodboard #8 - academia & Elle woods inspired + QUOTE
Moodboard #9 - Blair Waldorf inspired + QUOTE abt how ur just better
Moodboard #10 - healthy lifestyle pink inspired + QUOTE for if you’re going thru a hard time
Moodboard #11 - queen energy inspired + QUOTE on being a queen
Moodboard #12 - pink outfit inspired
moodboard #13 - pink productivity inspired
moodboard #14 - motivation + quote
thewizardliz moodboard
reading moodboad
pink & black aesthetic
new york moodboard!
pink bombshell moodboard/ wallpaper
born 2 be spoiled n’pampered like the princess I am ♡
first two dividers @lavendergalactic
I love being a girly girl !!! I love sipping on my cute overpriced drinks & re applying lip gloss every five minutes. I love buying things just because they’re the right shade of pink. I love love loveee spending time on my appearance, always making sure my hair and nails are pristine, lathering my body in sweet smelling lotions and oils & doing my skincare to look like the cutest glazed donut ♡
I'm gonna have the purple one it's so cute! ♡
The Glamorous Library: 1st room
-> Introduction
-> room 2: girly things / fashion & beauty / minis + moodboards
-> room 3: confidence + self love / manifestation + LOA / socialising
INDEX: ˗ˏˋ꒰🎱꒱ self improvement ˗ˏˋ꒰📚꒱ studying & academia
˗ˏˋ꒰🎱꒱ Self improvement:
NOTION HABIT TRACKER (free!)
48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene — part 1 & part 2
Recommends: BLOSSLY
Chapter 5: May
May ins & outs
Chapter 6: June
My 2024 wrapped!
how to do things when you dont feel like doing them (ask)
how to stop sulking over your life and stop struggling with embodying your dream self (ask)
4:30-5:40 morning routine (ask)
how to make life a little better
gratitude baby!
how to get over negative experiences in your life
Cry about it, then come back stronger
lets talk: YOUR SCROLLING ADDICTION & how to fix it
Embarrassment is a choice
weltschmerz: the depression that arises from comparing the world as it is to a hypothetical idealised world.
How to achieve your goals using: S.M.A.R.T goals.
prioritising: how to prioritise + use it effectively to take over your life.
Hard work?? At least do work!
create a new identity
dont let your past affect your future
How I prepared for 2025
BECOME YOUR DREAM GIRL BY 2025
sleep tips
how to live a luckier life
journalling tips part 1
journalling tips part 2
SHADOW WORK journalling prompts
GIRL TALK #1: friends & feeling left out
GIRL TALK #2: dealing with hate + not caring about what others think of you.
dealing with stress, fear and anxiety (ask)
future nostalgia
sometimes, the people who've hurt you aren't horrible...
a girl's guide to getting a life ... coming soon
˗ˏˋ꒰📚꒱ School & education:
How to be more educated
(ask) how to work hard + actually study
Motivation: things to like about these subjects
How to be the it girl in school
recommended study video for upcoming exams
100/100 grades on exams (affirmations)
How to ACE your exams!!
Question bank study method
things to learn about on those afternoons you have nothing to do
racism
how to be smart (from pinterest)
it girl's guide to academics
tips for moving to a new school (ask)
studying for exam week
Hi! I'm LovelyLavDolly, u can call me lav 4 short, I'm 20 years old & neurodivergent, This is a girly, nerdy, cutesy, purple blog♡
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