Getting Dolled Up Feeling Like A Sweet Macaron In The New Estée Lauder X Ladurée Collab 🎀

Bimbofication + Pretty Privilege 4 Me!

The absence of overthinking prevents the need to have to explain myself to people whose opinions you really do not care about, aiding in a happier, easier, prettier life.

Killing your ego means no longer having to prove yourself by doing things you really don’t want to do. Facts are facts. Doesn’t matter what anyone has to say about said fact. It doesn’t change. You can question that the sky is blue, doesn’t mean the sky was or ever will be another color.

Arguing only validates the opposition. You know who you are and what you want. They don’t.

When you’re thought free, nothing is out of the realm of possibility. Anything, including landing a dream career, having an abundance of disposable income, a man falling into an endless love with you just based off of your beauty, or living a leisurely life. Have the audacity. Be delusional. Be entitled to what you want.

Removing yourself from areas of the world where difficult topics are often discussed is freeing. I’m pretty. I don’t argue about antivaxxing, problematic celebrities or etc. Those topics are bad and bring me down so I don’t know what they are.

Don’t argue with men. Any man. If a man won’t treat me with respect that’s not the end of my world. I’m literally obsessed with myself so how could he even bring me down? The effort he is putting into a conversation/argument with me only affirms how obsessed he is with me. Don’t meet him half way.

Being pretty is a meal ticket. Everywhere. People are nicer, they try to understand more, they make excuses for mistakes. They treat me like an Angel, just because my face is pretty.

The lack of thoughts means the lack of worry. No more (preventable) anxiety. If I can’t control it, it doesn’t exist to me and I will be fine.

I don’t get embarrassed. Whatever happened, happened and I’m not thinking about it. Not thinking about anything but me. Whats there to be embarrassed about? Your obsession with me?

Literally never answering a question I don’t want to answer ever again. It’s my business. You can get met with a blank stare, a smile and an “I don’t know, lol.”

Yes I do always have to look like a doll. It’s inevitable because I am one. The effort I put into my look is essential to who I am and the ease of how I live my pretty life. Pretty face, hair, beautiful clothes, mani and pedi, lashes, pouty lips, no waist. The color pink. My signature <3

I’m only ever thinking about things that make me happy because nothing makes me unhappy. If I don’t like it, it doesn’t exist in my world.

I love myself so much. No one can extract any false insecurities, or relatable humbling out of me, in order to bring me down to their level of overthinking and plainness. I’m focused on me at all times. Always affirming everything I like about myself, I have no time to pick myself apart.

No longer going to stress, or even think, about the way someone talked or looked at me. That’s a them problem. Nothing for me to worry about. That’s time I could be spending thinking about me!

Being thought free doesn’t equate to not being intelligent, but it does mean not breaking your neck to assert how smart you are. I know I’m intelligent and I use my intelligence, along with my beauty and peace of mind to get ahead on life. <3

inspo: gsgetlonelytoo

This Bratz doll makeup is everything ✨

Fabulosity Reset

Happy New Year favs!!! The New Year is a time of awakening, evolving, and improving and this post is to help you all get a reset on your life. 2020 was a rough year in general but this year can be a turn around for you personally if you start designing your dream life and stay committed.

Create Your 2021 Vision Board

Take the time out to map out everything you want in the upcoming months. EVERYTHING! Make it as pretty as possible. This can include things like a dream car, a new job at your favorite store, closer relationships with loved ones, and a polished cohesive appearance. Start with a positive, attracting thought process. Doubtful thinking will not aid in whatever it is you’re trying to attract. Take magazine clippings and print out inspo photos. Write out affirmations and speak as if. Write in future tense as if you’ve already obtained everything you’re asking the universe for. Take a picture of your new pretty vision board and look at it everyday, on your phone and in person.

Dream Girl Journey by Me

Law Of Attraction Tips by Isabel Palacios

Leveled Up Mindset by The Luxe Feminine

LOA by @babyphat05

Return To Self by @thevirgodoll

My Process

Meditating

Journaling

Scripting Affirmations

Clipping Photos

Make Board

Take Picture of Board

Daily Reminders/Affirmations

Diet and Health

What are your health concerns? Go to the doctor and find out where you stand physically. Do your research on nutrition and vitamins (and their purposes). Doctors are very helpful in this regard because the ready to go vitamins may not be anything that serves you and as humans we all need different properties (different demographics, genders, races, weight, height, conditions, etc.) Create a strict vitamin regimen and get any shots/treatments that are necessary. Drink more water/non-processed beverages. Eat more clean food and meat. It’s unrealistic to say “I’m not drinking any pop, or eating any fast food.” These are pleasures to some, and living in luxury means enjoying all life’s pleasures. However, too much of a good thing is *say it with me* a bad thing! Moderate moderate moderate!!! Let moderation be your best friend this year and your health will thank you!

What I Eat in a Day by Briana Monique

Work Towards Your Goal Physique

Stop telling yourself the body you want is unrealistic!!! Chances are it’s attainable, but by working for it. Having a beautiful figure aides in pretty privilege and getting more out of life. When you wake up confident in your skin, life is much easier and opulence is more plausible. Having a nice body also sends the signal you have your life together. You have goals, you’re active and healthy, you care about your appearance, etc. You don’t even have to get a gym membership. Invest in supplies that will help your individual goals. I have a waist sweat band, a stretch band, and ankle weights because my main goals were toned legs, small waist, and flat stomach. Everyone’s journey will be different but it’s good to incorporate multiple facets of life into your body image goals. For example, not only do I do yoga, but I do cardio, and I drink protein shakes and have a weekly carb goal. (ps. if you want more noticeable curves, FOCUS ON PROTEIN. if being leaner is the goal, focus on reduced carbs and lean meats)

Burn Belly Fat by Chloe Ting

Ultimate Workout by Love Your Natural

Workouts by @angeldiscovery

Pretty Girl Smarts

A smart girl is a beautiful girl. Read books on self help, finances, nutrition. It’s such a wonderful feeling to be the one people ask about everything, because they know you’ll know something. Take a class, any class that suits you. I took a fashion class last year and learned a lot. I loved the experience. If you’re in traditional school, set high goals and accomplish them. Once you do, reward yourself. Take immaculate notes and study hard to retain all the info you’re learning. If you’re in high school and know what you want to be your career, start educating yourself on it NOW! Keep a career notebook and research on the field and topic. Find out more about international events and cultures. This will help keep you well versed. Teach yourself another language. Start reading your dictionary and thesaurus. A leveled up woman is intelligent and comes off as such. Learning is enriching. Education is a privilege that we all should be taking advantage of.

TED Talks

CrashCourse

Khan Academy

Forbes

Asap Science

Psych 2 Go

Stay Organized

GET A NEW PLANNER! Plan out your weeks and months regularly. Being overbooked is mentally taxing and avoidable by organizing every commitment you make. I recommend The Happy Planner, or Erin Condren. You could even create your own using a pretty journal, a calendar, and planner stickers. I recommend this regardless of your lifestyle. You can plan out time for pampering and you time. No matter how busy you are you can block schedule your days to keep from overworking yourself. Clean your phone out. Delete any unused apps, clutter contacts and useless screenshots. Organize your photos by category if you have too many. Make physical notes of any important texts and delete your text threads. Deep clean your home/room and throw away everything causing clutter. Sort out your clothes. I personally sort by season, then goodwill, sell, and throw away.

My Planner and Accessories

@angeldiscovery’s Angel Planner

Planner Set Up by Belinda Selene

Dream Girl Mentality

Find your confidence. Tell yourself regularly how beautiful, kind, intelligent, and fashionable you are. Never ever let your crown slip. Stay unfazed by the opinions of others. People are gonna look at you crazy for having the audacity to love yourself and want a beautiful life and to them; say nothing. Embrace your individuality. Be charismatic and like able but never sway from your true personality. People will be enamored with your social skills. Maintain yourself frequently, pamper yourself, spoil yourself and love yourself. Set goals and be ambitious this year! Keep said goals to yourself. Not only because of the evil eye, but when you talk to people about what you want, their opinions can sway your mindset. This destroys the law of attraction. Start whatever you’ve been wanting to start, but have made excuses for this far. The world is at your fingertips, literally so get what you want out of it.

Confidence Tips

Charisma Tips by @thevirgodoll

Applying Pressure by @prettyvixenavenue

What Makes a Muse

Maintaining Yourself

Keep everything highly maintained. No matter your financial situation, this is possible. Invest in cute loungewear, activewear, ensembles, and nightwear. You deserve to look great at all times. Get your nails done every 2-3 weeks. Mani and pedi. Maintain it at home with a mani kit. You’ll need a file, cuticle pusher and oil. Keep your body soft and smooth. Develop a strict self care regimen. Create a skin care routine tailored to your concerns and stick with it, twice daily. Get your brows and lashes done and keep them up at home by handling your lashes carefully. Get full body waxes once or twice a month. The smallest details make the hugest difference in a woman’s looks. These include things like white teeth, groomed brows, shaped nails, clean clothing, moisturized skin and posture. Get those six together and watch how different you feel.

My Self Care Routine

Loving Your Appearance by @angeldiscovery

Quarantine Self Care by Maya Galore

0-100 Glow Up by Ashley Devonna

Summer Glow by Ashley Devonna

Establish Your Style

A woman with a sense of self has a distinctive look. She’s recognizable by a particular set of aesthetics. Reevaluate your closet. Are you happy in these pieces? Do they make you feel powerful and confident? Do the clothes wear you? If so, get rid. Will it be extra and glitzy? Or preppy? Or minimalistic? What’s your dream lifestyle? Are you a real life supermodel or CEO? Any style you like most is attainable at any budget. Once you’ve developed your style create a signature color scheme. This doesn’t mean you can never wear anything outside of it, but what colors are you going to want to be instantly recognizable in? What textures and patterns are you into? These are the questions costume designers ask themselves to develop an assigned character sense of style and their personality too. For example, when you look at Samantha from SATC, you can tell what her personality is without watching the show. Very alpha, sexy, mature and bougie. Often times style is executed through accessories and supporting pieces. You can make two totally different look with the same shirt and pants with different jewelry, belts, handbags, etc. You can create scrapbooks, mood boards, Pinterest boards, etc. to help you along your way.

Example Aesthetic Board

Example Style Outline

Dionne’s Outfits in Clueless by ModernGurlz

Monica Colby Style Analysis by Clever & Chic

Rebuilding My Wardrobe by Coco Chinelo

New Signature Look

Finally let’s develop your signature touches on your look. Every woman I know who has life figured out has trademark factors in her appearance. This often coincides heavily with your aesthetic. These include handbags, scent, jewelry, hair, nails, a color scheme and makeup. My signature is medium length pink/nude gel nails, white toes, a silk pressed blowout, Chanel Chance Eau Tendre, hoop earrings, long lashes and glossy pink lips. I’m consistent with it. I’ve had a manager tell me “wow, you always have those hoops on, that’s so cute!” This is the goal. You want to be instantly recognizable by these attributes. Women often have a piece of jewelry they never take off that serves as their signature piece. Your signature look can be anything you want as long as you can be consistent with it.

My Aesthetic

My Style Breakdown by Anaya Ivy

I know last year was difficult, but we honestly are all so blessed to be here and able to continue our journeys. Every day is an opportunity to craft the life you want. Use this post and all the resources linked to get closer to your inner dream girl. My asks are always open if you need anything from me personally, it’s my pleasure!

-xoxo, DreamGrlArchive

At Home Workouts To Do When Your Leveling Up (Part 2)

(None of these photos are mine)

“Let’s do those things that we’re scared of doing. Let’s do the really important things—and not give a ✌to what people think.” - Vita Sidorkina

1. 10 MINUTE AB WORKOUT | Alexis Ren

2. 30 Minute Full Body Workout | Move With Nicole

3. 10 Minute Everyday Full Body Workout | Lidia Mera

4. INTENSE (beware) 35MIN Workout | afit

5. 15MIN Fully Body Pilates Burn Workout | Madeleine Abeid

6. 10MIN SLIM FULLY BODY WORKOUT | Shirlyn Kim

"Just get up in the morning every day, do you, be you, and just do what you want. Honestly, just be at ease, be free.” Lais Ribeiro

Remember to take time for yourself and to stay pretty 💗

Xoxo, Arielleslipgloss 💋🎀

Found another photo of that tracksuit I posted about a little while back! Imma see if I can find it it's soooo cute! ♡

Laduree x Hello Kitty collaboration in Tokyo 🎀

Namie Amuro Style Guide: How to Become an Amuraa (アムラー)

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