I have no money 2 help op but I'm reblogging 2 boost this soother people can see this
Well, we lost our means to log in, check mails and work online this December.
I don't have to tell you how much this has impacted us.
We did not reach our goal, we were unable to pay some bills that are now overdue, we probably have food for 3 days.
Monty lost his job, still waiting for the 2-3 months of payment they owe him, which is about $90 total cause he only had 1 class.
I really need my meds, I don't like being in pain all the time or going to the ER and getting treated like shit because "I do not take care of myself" when we can't afford the things I need to not hurt myself further.
I'm tired of limping all the time because walking is hell, I've tried warm salt water and massage my feet, legs and hip and Diclofenac gel but it hurts so bad.
I want to be able to help my partner earn money.
I want my family to stop living with mold.
I want to survive till January.
And for the repairs:
@helppeople @socalgal @tariah23 @mousedetective @paparoach @transmutationisms @virovac @autisticmudkip @nervdamage
🎀 i’m rich in time.
🎀 i’m rich in love.
🎀 i’m rich in family.
🎀 i’m rich in health.
🎀 i’m rich in gratitude.
🎀 i’m rich in experiences.
🎀 i’m rich in blessings.
🎀 i’m rich in prayer.
🎀 i’m rich in mind.
🎀 i’m rich in knowledge.
🎀🩷💕🐰
social media can be our best friend, and our greatest enemy. but there's a way you can mindfully alter your use of social media to benefit your improvement journey.
let's make our online presence as intentional as our offline one. here's how to create healthier social media habits while staying connected~
morning routine:
no phones first hour
check notifications once
respond mindfully
set daily time limits
positive feed curation
content consumption:
follow inspiring accounts
unfollow negative energy
save posts for later
engage meaningfully
share with purpose
digital wellness:
regular feed cleanse
turn off notifications
set boundaries
scheduled breaks
mindful scrolling
engagement tips:
genuine comments
support others
share knowledge
spread positivity
be authentic
mental health checks:
notice emotional triggers
compare less
practice gratitude
take regular breaks
offline activities
social media should add value to your life, not drain it. it's okay to step back when needed and create boundaries that protect your peace.
virtual hugs, mindy
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dealing with the blues : how to manage negative emotions and more ૮꒰◞ ˕ ◟ ྀི꒱ა rotting vs resting
i know how upsetting life can be sometimes. you want to get better but something happens and life just keeps pushing you down, and you fall further and further into a rut. and because of that, you start to feel even worse. "why am i not doing as good as the others?" , "why am i so xyz?" , "why am i not like her?" etc etc. cmon my love. this isn't the time to compare yourself to others and feel even worse but to slowly dig up the soil, and find out what is actually going on. ♡ just take a day off, babe seriously. sometimes you just need to let yourself be upset and be unproductive yk? there is nooo shame in being unproductive as hell for a day or two. take your time and have a good break. now talking about breaks, we have a problem. are you really resting or rotting? RESTING makes you feel good, happy and energised ROTTING makes you feel guilty, unproductive, sluggish a lot of the times, instead of resting and recharging our minds, we are feeding our minds with lots and lots of brainrot, indulging in bad habits in the name of "resting", avoiding important work etc which in return make us feel even worse! well, resting isn't supposed to do that, right? resting is supposed to recharge you, get you ready to fight again. so next time you choose to 'rest', be mindful. do not indulge in things that you know will make you feel worse. doomscrolling is not resting. stalking your friends is not self care. intentionally avoiding important work is not self care. binge watching series by wrecking your sleep schedule and then feel guilty abt being on your phone all day is not self care. self care and resting is doing things you love which will nourish your mind and distract you for a little while, so that you can take a step back and just be aive for a bit.
an example of a day off could be smth like this ( just an example, please remember that everyone's life is different and so is yours. adjust accordingly ) : ʚɞ do not set any alarm, let yourself wake up naturally and when you do, pick up that book you have been meaning to read for a long time. ʚɞ have breakfast ʚɞ do 1 thing you really love and which makes you super happy (dancing, singing, acting etc) ʚɞ talk to someone or write abt how you are feeling ʚɞ try to create smth. a quick diy project, a lil sketch, crochet, a new dance move, a song cover, a poem, a video, photography etc ʚɞ do 1 imp work which you have been putting off (homework, stdy for a test etc) ʚɞ delete instagram for a bit and surround yourself with positivity. use tumblr, youtube, pinterest instead. ʚɞ go outside, even for just 5 minutes. ʚɞ maybe call up your friend/s and play smth ʚɞ take cute pics of urself ʚɞ maybe post smth cute on tumblr wink wink ʚɞ have a cute night ritual and then go to bed. ₊⊹ monitor what you have been consuming lately what you feed your mind and body actually matters (lol what a shocker). so tell me, have you been eating well? sleeping well? surrounding yourself with positivity? or have you been consuming content which further degrades your mental and physical health? try to replace unhealthy junk with healthy stuff. fix your fyp, choose "not interested" for posts which no longer resonate with you. declutter and reorganise. i really, really suggest trying a quick digital detox for a day. ⸜(。˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡ talk to someone who you feel safe with. you can even text me, ill try my best to respond <3 please talk to someone when you feel upset, communicate bbgs, communicate! even if it is hard and uncomfortable. if you feel like you have no one to talk to, talk to a stuffed animal or a tree or yourself. let those thoughts and feelings out, don't hold them inside your body. release them. observe them. try to understand them. but never let negative emotions become a part of you. they come and go, like any other emotion. you will be just fine. even when it feels like it is the end of the world love you always,
@deardiarywrites
So I made up this ritual/ mindset and it’s called the Princess ritual/ mindset. ☺️☺️☺️.
Here’s how it goes.
💘 First, pick out a dress or article of clothing you love, and put it on.
💘 As well, pick out something that could be your crown. I have a literal crown made from yarn that I wear, but it could be something else you hold or can wear or possibly some makeup that you put on.
💘 Okay and then while you’re wearing it, be in the Princess mindset.
💘 The Princess mindset basically means that you don’t let negativity of any kind bring you down. You don’t react to negativity. This causes you to focus more on things that make you happy/ you love.
💘 If you do react to negativity, then when you catch yourself, don’t react to it.
💘 Do activities that boost your confidence/ let you know that you are worthy/ validate to you that you are beautiful and awesome etc. like saying affirmations, journaling, taking selfies, etc.
💘 It can be hard to stay in Princess mindset sometimes, but we all make mistakes and you can try again.
💘 And that’s basically all there is to it. Don’t feed in to negativity of any kind, only focus on positivity of any kind.
💘 The Princess ritual/ mindset has been very helpful to me sometimes, like when I start getting upset.
💘 The Princess mindset is helpful all of the time to be in. The dress & crown helped me to remember that I was in it.
I hope it helps you too.
😇🥰☺️.
Love,
Pure Love with Horns - The Pure Love Devil - Lucy S.
💘😇⚡️🌹🔥🧸🐉🗝🐳💙🕷🎀💗✌️.
Hi! I'm LovelyLavDolly, u can call me lav 4 short, I'm 20 years old & neurodivergent, This is a girly, nerdy, cutesy, purple blog♡
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