nintendog charms! ᐡ(•ܫ•)ᐡ‹𝟯
(from my mercari jp haul)
I just wanna lie down and color with chunky crayons
where it doesn’t matter if I scribble over the lines
because im far too little to worry
spreading some positive words for my age regressor / dreamer followers...
it's OK if you start the day off feeling little but the feeling fades away later in the day.
it's OK if your regression fluctuates throughout the day. you may feel little in the morning, big in the afternoon, and little again at night.
it's OK if your regression fluctuates throughout the week. maybe one day you feel small but the next you feel big, and another day you feel small again.
it's OK if your regression comes and goes every month or so. you may go through a period where you're regressing a lot. and maybe the next month, you're not as regressed or you don't regress at all!
you are allowed to cope whenever you need it. you are allowed to be little whenever you want to.
regression comes and regression goes and it's OK if it's frequent or infrequent 𓂃⊹
reposted blog ~ credits
"age regression is a trauma coping mechanism, why don't people post about their trauma regression, why is regression seen as cute and fun always, there's not enough posts about trauma regressors! regression is becoming a hobby now >:(!"
LET PEOPLE REGRESS FOR FUN AND ENJOY THEIR CUTESY REGRESSION, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. if your regression is purely negative and trauma based, then fine! you post about it! but everyone knows regression isn't always cutesy and aesthetic - you don't need to bash people who regress for fun or enjoy said aesthetics, paci edits, etc, just to get a point across that the agere community as a whole already knows. because we all know that agere isn't all sunshine and rainbows already.
some people want regression to be their hobby, or for fun, or because they enjoy cutesy things. heck, my regression is also heavily linked with trauma and coping - but forgive me for not wanting to post about my literal trauma and the negative parts of my regression for people online to see, and instead focusing on the positives of my regression and cutesy aesthetics i enjoy whilst small.
there's nothing wrong with regressing just because you want to, as a hobby, or because it's fun. just because someone doesn't regress due to trauma, or they do but they'd rather not focus on that aspect of it, doesn't make their regression or their content any less valid. we don't have to be sharing our traumas or the bad parts of our regression in order to be taken seriously or seen as valid regressors if we don't want to. thanks.
Shout out to my fellow regressors who don't like the usual foods everyone always recommends!! I'm not a fan of mac n cheese and dino nuggets, which most food rec posts contain, I eat more "adult/healthy" things when regressed and I LOVE to cook and can do so without much trouble, even things like grilling and using a stove/oven :)
I know there's definitely other regressors who don't like that stuff too (not to mention the vegan/vegetarian regressors, and the ones with food allergies/those whose disabilities prevent them from eating certain things too!!) and I just want everyone to know that no matter what you eat, you're completely valid!!
Feel free to share your favorite non-traditional foods/recipes in the notes, I'd love to hear and am always up to trying new things :D
i really want to tell mine, and i've gotten close before, but i was just never brave enough to do it. and i know that in reality she'd probably accept me. i know it's something we could work through together. i'm just scared that she wouldn't understand or that she wouldn't want to work with me anymore. and then i'd have to find a new therapist and i'd have to come up with a reason why to my parents and UGH. i just wish i could not be so afraid.
does anyone have any advice? >.<