Don’t tell your daughter that when a boy is mean or rude to her it’s because he has a crush on her. Don’t teach her that abuse is a sign of love.
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Heyo! With pride month starting, here's a quick comic on pride Etiquette, a short guide / general tips on treating lgbt+ people, for the new, curious, and those who forgot!
1) Treat people's identities as the indisputable truth. Even if you don't think they fit the definition, even if you don't understand (the identity), even if you think they're lying, even if they're a bad person. It's not your job nor your business to tell people what to call themselves. Unless they ask for your opinion, only the individual can make that decision.
*There's very few times when an identity can actually be harmful. This includes predatory labels, labels that are bigoted by definition, or people identifying with culture-specific labels when they're not part of that culture. Otherwise, leave them be!
2) Respect and use people's pronouns, regardless of how you feel about them! If you don't know how they work, ask! If you accidentally misgender someone, correct yourself and move on! No need for lengthy or dramatic apologies. However, also make sure to ask when it's appropriate to use them! Someone may not be out to parents, certain friends, etc, and will ask you to purposefully misgender them for safety.
3) LGBT+ people are not responsible for someone else's anti-lgbt+ views! Strange, unbelievable or confusing identities do not cause bigots to be bigots- the lgbt+ community was made because we don't fit society's box, don't fall into the trap of forcing people into another one! If they're not actually hurting anyone, then leave them be!
4) You're not expected to learn every single lgbt+ term / identity. Nobody knows all of them, not even lgbt+ people, so don't worry about it! Simply learn and ask questions as you go!
5) If you're curious about someone's identity, ask if they're comfortable with questions first! There's no harm in educating yourself, but sometimes we get tired of being walking encyclopedias!
Thanks for reading, and happy Pride!!!
To be accepted I propose warrior plague doctors, mini capes, lethal sacking stick, tight pants, and intimidation. It a full win here
Hey, you said you had a headcannon for your human desgin of Rem? I'd love to hear it if you still want to share it!
Yes, I have a headcannon for this version :3
Well, first of all, I would like to say that I am very glad that you liked my version of Rem's humanization, which was very nice of you. <3
About the headcannon, I mentioned that it's related to the hairstyle I gave him. As you may have noticed, they are quite long and they constantly interfere with him, but he refuses to get a haircut, because despite the inconvenience, he likes this hairstyle.
In addition, they are constantly confused, and a feeling of fluffiness is created. And when he is doing some business or work, they are very much in the way, so Ccino tries to comb it in the morning and braid it in a ponytail to make it more comfortable.
But Rem himself does not like to comb his hair and braid it in a ponytail.
That's why their mornings are usually like this:
Ccino: Rem please don't move, I can't brush you.
Rem: Please, dad, don't brush and braid my hair, it hurts!
Ccino: I understand that this may be unpleasant, but you will be easier with this hairstyle and your hair will not get in the way, please be patient for me.
Rem: *sigh* Ok dad.
In the end, Ccino was able to give Rem a comfortable hairstyle, but he still had to endure this discomfort for the sake of his father.
Ccino: Here, so much more convenient agree)
Rem: y-yeah..
Ccino: Thank you for being patient, honey * kiss on the cheek*
Rem: heh, everything for you dad. *slight smile*
In General, this is how I got a headcannon when I drew the humanization of Rem, I hope you like it. <3💜
I hate that people keep insisting that Kristen Stewart is a lesbian even though she's flat out said she's bisexual, that she sees sexuality as grey and fluid, that she's not strictly homosexual or heterosexual, and that she would definitely date a guy again; like the list goes on. I think it's the fact that she's also so visibly gnc and people still can't concieve that bisexuality isn't just gay lite? Like as much as she may "look" like a lesbian, she's a gnc bi woman and I think it's cool that there's that kind of rep bc a lot of the bi women the media puts in the spot light are mostly high fem. That doesn't mean that rep is meaningless but I can count on one hand the amount of andro/masc leaning bi women that are in the public eye.
I also know the other reason why a lot of people keep labeling her as a lesbian is because she's visibly only been dating women recently, but you don't have to switch the gender of your s/o every other month to prove you're still bi like. That's elementary basics of bisexuality. Especially if said person in question, again, has stated several times that they're not a lesbian or straight... 🤔
While I was lying in bed, I suddenly came up with a headcannon, (the night is bad for my sleep again heh). \(ОᗨО\ )
Ahem, in General, headkanon on Rem, perhaps somewhere similar was mentioned, or it looked so obvious that I did not notice it (ashamed), but I got such a head that Rem somehow tries to help Ccino cope with nightmares with his magic.
I will explain one thing, I do not know for sure if he can feel that someone is having bad dreams, but he checks his father's dream every time, and if everything is normal there, he either remains to watch and guard so that the dream does not turn into a nightmare, or leaves and returns after a while. Often, he can sneak into Ccino's room to be unnoticed by him to guard his sleep. He can sometimes lie down next to him, give him a light hug so as not to wake him up, or hold his hand, anything that could act as an external moral support. Sometimes he sneaks into his father's sleep while in this position, and when he's done checking on him, he stays with him a little longer and goes to his room in the so that Ccino doesn't catch him. (However, I think Ccino knows about his son's nocturnal adventures in his dreams.)
Yes, he can't always help his father with nightmares, given that he can't change dreams, but he can try to drive away the nightmare.(But this is not accurate)
[Rem by @thebluescreen]
[Delta99 by @thebluescreen & @help-im-a-gay-fish]
[Headcannon by me]
Here’s Rem! He’s a Ccino x Nightmare shipkid i’ve been working on for a little bit, and he’s one of Vanta’s close friends. Theres more info about him below if anyone’s intrested! Rem is also from the secondary ship kid verse me and @help-im-a-gay-fish have.
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Torvus having a post study snooze in his room. This started as a doodle and that was all I had planned it to be but then I kept adding to it and adding to it… pfft I clowned on myself.
One of the baristas at a nearby Starbucks makes me lose my mind every time I’m working there by saying things that are not outside the spectrum of normal human words but are just slightly off-the-wall.
Barista: Welcome to Starbucks, home of delicious, what deliciousness can I put in motion for you today?
Customer: … Can I get a trenta pink drink please?
Barista: Go big or go home, we here at Starbucks appreciate your commitment, what else can I get started for you?
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Customer: Nitro cold brew with shots of espresso please.
Barista: Brave of you to commit to staying awake for three days, anything else today?
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Barista: *slams open drive-thru window* HI HOW ARE YOU?
Customer: …I’m pretty good.
Barista: Are you ready to be even better? Because you’re about to be. *hands them their coffee*
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Barista, realizing that a drink was made wrong: *slams open window* SO how do you feel about surprises?
Customer: ….they’re okay.
Barista: Great because I’m about to give you one.
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Barista: You have two drinks so I am going to hand you two straws which means, FANTASTIC news, these straws double as drumsticks. / You have one drink so I am going to hand you one straw and, promise not to tell anyone, this straw doubles as a magic wand.
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Barista: Here are those cake pops, I plucked them fresh from the tree myself.
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Barista: *slams open window, holding drink* Amazing, fantastic, delicious, you are a very lucky man/woman!
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Barista, realizing drink is being delayed or remade: Looks like it’s gonna be just one minute so they have time to put the extra love in.
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Barista: I’ll be with you in one hot second. *beat* WOW that second sure was hot!
Anyway she has a few dozen catchphrases she rotates appropriately and it’s both distracting and fantastic to listen.