[Image ID: A Five Stripe Flag With The Colors Dark Red, Dark Grey, And A Three Stripe Gradient From Beige

ough thinking about making a gender system but idk if I have motivation…

[No image ID, sorry]

BlackPetuniaSymbous [Black - Petunia - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to black petunias, the aesthetics of the black petunia flower, and the floriography meaning of the black petunia, that being the mysterious and unknown.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

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p-did ask game! :3

if a p-did system reblogs this, they'll for sure get an ask! (from yours truly 💚)

1) is the host able to switch out of front at all? or only partially? or not at all?

2) does the host have any other role?

3) has there ever been a host change, ever?

4) other than the host, do you have other frequent (co-)fronters? or headmates who frequently go into co-con with the host?

5) why do headmates typically co-front/co-con?

6) how long do non-host headmates co-front/co-con on average?

7) does your system go through stages of inactivity? (no headmate interaction at all, just the host)

8) what is the most common role in your system?

9) how distinct are you all from eachother?

10) do you have some headmates who are more or less distinct from the others?

11) do you have any funny stories of your headmates passively influencing your decisions?

12) do you have a headspace/innerworld?

13) is the host able to access the headspace/innerworld?

14) do you use simply plural, pluralkit, or anything else?

15) how emotionally close is everyone in the system? do you feel like family, or are you like strangers to eachother?

16) how easy or hard is internal communication for your system?

17) do you ever want to come out as a system to anyone in your life? (who don't already know)

18) how do you feel about being the host? is there anything you want people (in system and out) to know about it?

19) how do you feel about being non-host headmates in the system? is there anything you want people to know about it?

20) a fun one! if you have a system name, how did you all decide on it?

[1st ID: A four stripe flag with desaturated and very dark colors, which are light greenish yellow, green, teal, and dark blue.]

[2nd ID: A four stripe flag with very dark colors, which are light yellow, orange, reddish orange, and dark red.]

Ihatethisgender [I - Hate - This - Gender]

A gender related to hate and anger, specifically hating your gender (or at least this specific gender)

Yes, this is completely serious.

Colours on the left flag are based off of my personal associations with hatred, and the colours on the right are based on 'traditional' colours associated with hatred.

Eye strain flags under the cut, you have been warned.

Coined for 10/4 of Felidaety's coining event for acidity. Using it metaphorically but not sure if it really 'counts' so I have another too.

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[3rd ID: A four stripe flag with saturated, slightly dark colors, which are yellowish green, dark green, dark teal, and dark blue.]

[4th ID: A four stripe flag with saturated, slightly dark colors, which are yellow, orange, red, and dark red.]

[Image ID: A five stripe flag with a gradient from light greyish brown to dark brown.]

Trapdergender [Trap(ped) - (Un)der - Gender]

A gender related to being deep underground; specifically being trapped deep underground but whether or not that is a part of somebody's gender and meaning of this term is up to them.

Colours are based off of dirt and darkness.

Coined for 12/4 of Felidaety's coining event with the theme of altitude.

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Sorry I've not posted anything ;-; I lost all of motivation to do anything but I'll eventually post again- /lh

-Leo

[Image ID: A five stripe flag. The colors from top to bottom are dark red, light purplish blue, lavender, pink, and white. In the center is a lavender circle with a white symbol of a hand holding a sprout planted in dirt.]

AnemoneSymbous [Anemone - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to the Anemone flower, the aesthetics of the Anemone flower, and the floriography meaning of the Anemone flower, that being sorrow and pain.

Colours picked from images of the plant/flower. I tried to capture the range of colours within the Anemone flowers. If you'd like to make your own flag or request one of a specific colour, feel free to.

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Thank you accessibilitea for the image ID

To me, You are really both crow and Cat. Aside from the puns. You are both crow and cat. You are so loving for the ones that know you, not all will see you for the lovable being to which you are.

Like the crows, so associated with death, they are abhorred, omen, fowl, dark. They are however not, They hold funerals for their lost, or an autopsy depending on how you think of it. they remember and don't, they are so silly and yet so wise. they soar and rule the sky not from force by presence, small but determined, and treasure all their shinies for the value they gleam, and not the kind assigned, to love all, regardless of the worth the world has assigned to them. Coir or diamond, they shine and you love them

that or your my cat, sometimes you seem to share the same braincell.

either way, I love you and will continue to, perhaps a shiny in your hoard, or a part of your flock, however you will have me that is how I'll be

<3

I am your cat and I will bite you /pos

once again, wuv you tiny

I'm on a gender making spree! /pos

I've seen a few new, very aggressive anti-nondisordered plurality blogs pop up over the last week. Going out of their way to post anti crap in inclusive plural spaces. So I just want to remind everyone that:

No one knows you better than you.

No one knows what you're going through/experiencing better than you do.

There is no 'definitive 1000% way' to 'prove' someone is a system or not. It is a largely internal and subject experience. And that's absolutely ok.

You do not need other people's permission to exist.

You do not need to prove yourself/selves to others.

Your system's origins no matter what they are do not make you more or less of a systems.

You DO NOT have to relive or reveal any trauma/s you have suffered to prove your validity. And anyone who asks you to do so does not have your well-being in mind.

You aren't harming anyone by talking about your lived experience and seeking community with others that understand.

You are a human being who is deserving of respect and kindness.

Respect and kindness of someone else's lived experience SHOULD NOT be contingent on if they can scrounge up articles or peer reviewed studies on if an extremely personal experience is valid or not.

Over medicalization and pathologation of plurality as a whole is rooted in racism and colonialization.

Do not let others act as if they get to dictate who you are and what you experience. The only reliable witness/s to the inner workings of your own mind are those who reside in it. No one else can tell you how you think or what your internal experiences are.

(And its bonkers that some people try)

To any and everything system and plural out there regardless of origin:

You are amazing.

You are valid.

The world is a better place for having you in it.