I've seen a few new, very aggressive anti-nondisordered plurality blogs pop up over the last week. Going out of their way to post anti crap in inclusive plural spaces. So I just want to remind everyone that:
No one knows you better than you.
No one knows what you're going through/experiencing better than you do.
There is no 'definitive 1000% way' to 'prove' someone is a system or not. It is a largely internal and subject experience. And that's absolutely ok.
You do not need other people's permission to exist.
You do not need to prove yourself/selves to others.
Your system's origins no matter what they are do not make you more or less of a systems.
You DO NOT have to relive or reveal any trauma/s you have suffered to prove your validity. And anyone who asks you to do so does not have your well-being in mind.
You aren't harming anyone by talking about your lived experience and seeking community with others that understand.
You are a human being who is deserving of respect and kindness.
Respect and kindness of someone else's lived experience SHOULD NOT be contingent on if they can scrounge up articles or peer reviewed studies on if an extremely personal experience is valid or not.
Over medicalization and pathologation of plurality as a whole is rooted in racism and colonialization.
Do not let others act as if they get to dictate who you are and what you experience. The only reliable witness/s to the inner workings of your own mind are those who reside in it. No one else can tell you how you think or what your internal experiences are.
(And its bonkers that some people try)
To any and everything system and plural out there regardless of origin:
You are amazing.
You are valid.
The world is a better place for having you in it.
You remind me of a crow. Instead of taking the shinies though, you give em, and the shinies is just gender and no gender.
the no gender is you stealing their gender like a seagull would take someone's fries on a beach
I literally do take shinies tho
also I eat your gender nom nom it gone no gender it in my belly
[Image ID: A six stripe flag. The colors are reddish pink, black, very dark blue, dark blue, dusty red, and reddish pink.]
Moucidtter [Mou(th) - (A)cid - (Bi)tter]
A gender related to, in any way, consuming something and feeling like it's literally or metaphorically eating through your throat/organs [can be related to spice, acidity, or anything else] [This gender is not inherently intended to be related to eating disorders or disordered eating, and I am not trying to encourage eating disorders with this term, but I don't have a problem with people using it in these contexts as long as they are not encouraging harmful behavior.]
Colours on the top and bottom are intended to mimic the colour of the inside of a mouth, and the blues and blacks are meant to represent pain and things that hurt to consume for any reason.
Coined for 10/4 of Felidaety's 100 follower event with the prompt acidity.
@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea @felidaety
Thank you accessibilitea for the image ID
[ID: A rectangular flag of five even horizontal stripes, in the center is a medium muted yellow circle that connects onto the center stripe with a light yellow symbol of a hand holding a sprout planted in dirt. The colors of the flag go from top to bottom in a gradient as gold to light yellow./end ID]
BirdsFootTrefoilSymbous [Birds - Foot - Trefoil - Symbous]
A term under the -Symbous system related to Birds Foot Trefoil, the aesthetics of the Birds Foot Trefoil flower, and the floriography meaning of Birds Foot Trefoil, that being revenge.
Colours picked from an image of the flower.
@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea
Thanky accessibilitea for image ID
[No image ID, sorry]
BlackPetuniaSymbous [Black - Petunia - Symbous]
A term under the -Symbous system related to black petunias, the aesthetics of the black petunia flower, and the floriography meaning of the black petunia, that being the mysterious and unknown.
Colours picked from an image of the flower.
@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea
Shout-out to all my sad gays.
Shout-out to every lesbian not from Lesbos.
Shout-out to all my bi's who are just one person.
Shout-out to all my pans who prefer to hit people with pots.
Shout-out to all my polys who are one sided.
Shout-out to all my average omnis.
Shout-out to all my aros who can barely use a nerf gun, let alone a bow.
Shout-out to all my aces who aren't athletic.
Shout-out to all my trans folk who need to get something off their chest (or don't, shout-out to y'all too).
Shout-out to all my grays who are multicolored.
Shout-out to all my demis that are whole.
Shout out to all my aspecs that are part of absolutely nothing.
Shout-out out to all my unlabeled folks who are limited by their lack of motivation.
Shout-out to all my apls with food allergies.
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Shout-out to all my heteros that are carbon copies of another hetero.
Shout-out to all my cats.
(edit) So, this ended up way more popular than I anticipated. So, here's a few more, and they're all equally bad, as you'd expect.
Shout-out to all my xenos that're native to their countries.
Shout-out to all my cis comrades that are a part of the opposition.
Shout-out to all the external Indigiqueers (this only makes sense if you know the etymology for indigenous that's my bad)
And of course,
To me, You are really both crow and Cat. Aside from the puns. You are both crow and cat. You are so loving for the ones that know you, not all will see you for the lovable being to which you are.
Like the crows, so associated with death, they are abhorred, omen, fowl, dark. They are however not, They hold funerals for their lost, or an autopsy depending on how you think of it. they remember and don't, they are so silly and yet so wise. they soar and rule the sky not from force by presence, small but determined, and treasure all their shinies for the value they gleam, and not the kind assigned, to love all, regardless of the worth the world has assigned to them. Coir or diamond, they shine and you love them
that or your my cat, sometimes you seem to share the same braincell.
either way, I love you and will continue to, perhaps a shiny in your hoard, or a part of your flock, however you will have me that is how I'll be
<3
I am your cat and I will bite you /pos
once again, wuv you tiny
[Image ID: A flag with eight equal stripes. The colours of the stripes from top to bottom are: desert orange, dark red, bright orange, salmon pink, saturated green, yellow, orange, and red. End ID]
Autimainarcharacter [Auti(sm/stic) - Main - Narc - Character]
A term [can be whatever the user likes] related to the song The Main Character by Will Wood, one's Autism, and one's NPD.
Exclusive to people with Autism and NPD, you don't have to be diagnosed, we aren't, but we've researched enough that we believe we have both
Colours are taken from the album cover, a picture of the narcissus flower, and one of the Autism flags with the colours burred together.
Coined for a headmate
@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea
Thank you very much for the image ID deoxysandthesolarsystem /gen
Yeah, I must admit to y'all that I do
[PT: Good news (three exclamation points) /END PT]
I'm probably gonna be posting more gender today !!!
[PT: Bad news (three exclamation points) /END PT]
It's because I'm incredibly unstable and got informed of something very distressing and I'm either experiencing a distinct depressive episode or having a narc crash !!!
Might not coin tmrw if it stays this bad or gets worse because arm hurt :( [sad face]
[PT: Ouchies /END PT]
Did a school event thing today where we basically go out and do yardwork and other physical jobs for people who struggle to do it themselves from 8:30ish to 16:30ish and ough im pain
I didn’t even participate for like a third of our jobs because we can’t rake bc of back pain, but mgh ouchy wouchy :( [sad face]
Just wanna ramble ig bc it hurty :( [sad face]
on an unrelated note pls let me know if I’m doing PTs right because I’m worried I’m not even though I think I am
Plural system of many, might tag off who makes a post, we'll see | You can request things but idk how long it'll take for us to get to them-
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