Shout-out To All My Sad Gays.

Image IDs

we’re really sorry none of our posts have them but whenever we try it just completely drains us mentally and we don’t know where to start (yes, we know there are whole posts and other things made to help it’s just unbelievably hard for us even with those)

there are things that we want to coin but it just feels impossible for us to even start again because we’re scared people will get mad at us because we don’t- but it’s not because we don’t want to- we’d love to have image IDs for every post we just never feel like it’s gonna be good enough or right enough and it makes us want to cry

might just post things without ids because it’s either that or not post at all

we just feel so bad because we know that image ids are necessary for a lot of people because of various things, but it just feels impossible for us because of our own various things

honestly I see the most complaints about blogs that have energy to make super fancy themes and dividers and coloured text but then don’t have energy for image ids but honestly we don’t even have energy to coin most of the time which is why we haven’t and then it’s hard to make flags and then it’s hard to even try to make ids and it just spirals down and down and more and more roadblocks until simply said nothing happens

I just feel like we’re being horrible for not being accessible even though there’s not really anything we can do to fix it because of our own needs and disabilities and we don’t know who if anyone we could ask to help and then that throws us into even more roadblocks which don’t help anyone…

might just make things and post without, because at least then it would be posted I guess

[ID: A rectangular flag of five even horizontal stripes, in the center is a medium muted yellow circle that connects onto the center stripe with a light yellow symbol of a hand holding a sprout planted in dirt. The colors of the flag go from top to bottom in a gradient as gold to light yellow./end ID]

BirdsFootTrefoilSymbous [Birds - Foot - Trefoil - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to Birds Foot Trefoil, the aesthetics of the Birds Foot Trefoil flower, and the floriography meaning of Birds Foot Trefoil, that being revenge.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

Thanky accessibilitea for image ID

[No image ID, sorry]

BlackHenbaneSymbous [Black - Henbane - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to black henbane, the aesthetics of the black henbane flower, and the floriography meaning of the black henbane, that being rage and insanity.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

[Image ID: A flag with eight equal stripes. The colours of the stripes from top to bottom are: desert orange, dark red, bright orange, salmon pink, saturated green, yellow, orange, and red. End ID]

Autimainarcharacter [Auti(sm/stic) - Main - Narc - Character]

A term [can be whatever the user likes] related to the song The Main Character by Will Wood, one's Autism, and one's NPD.

Exclusive to people with Autism and NPD, you don't have to be diagnosed, we aren't, but we've researched enough that we believe we have both

Colours are taken from the album cover, a picture of the narcissus flower, and one of the Autism flags with the colours burred together.

Coined for a headmate

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

Thank you very much for the image ID deoxysandthesolarsystem /gen

Hi!

We're The Song, The Sea, and The Stars (we have a whole paragraph of a name if you want to hear it lol)! Our collective names are Pearce, Tommy, Fraser, and more! Our collective pronouns are they/them, it/its, dae/daem, and end/endo/endoceras plus more! We're a minor, we will not disclose our exact age for our personal privacy.

The person who's probably gonna be on here the most is Leo, who uses exclusively he/him but can accept they/them. Leo is an adult in his 20s.

Pfp m/w @spy-cr4b (wife [male])

More info under the cut

Boundaries:

Keep discourse the fuck away from us. You may ask our thoughts on certain topics but we reserve the right to not answer.

Please don't use nicknames/petnames on us unless we know you personally

Don't send us NSFW.

You are allowed to ask questions here, if something confuses you, please ask so that someone can explain. Do not be an asshole to people who ask a question, unless the question is in bad faith.

Please use tone tags with us, we have issues understanding tone through text.

We can and will use slurs, including and especially qu--r (e), f-gg-t (a, o), and fr—k (e, a), which we won't censor outside of this post. But please don’t use slurs towards us unless we know you or have said it’s okay.

BYF:

We have AuADHD, multiple anxiety disorders, selective mutism, NPD, and we're plural, though that isn't everything.

Some of our Headmates have typing quirks, which likely won't be translated initially. If you ask we'll edit it to have a plaintext version. Please don't translate for us unless it has been specified as alright, because some members with typing quirks feel uncomfortable when people translate for them.

We will not engage in discourse most of the time.

We support all good faith identities.

Screw it, no DNI anymore, just obey your own, opinions listed later <3

why? Because people are gonna interact regardless of DNI.

I am:

pro-para (anti-contact for inherently nonconsensual paraphilias

pro-endogenic and otherwise non traumatic systems

anti-radqueer

anti-xenosatanism

anti-transids when those transids are being used in a harmful way (such as transabled (with the exception of people with BIID), transage (with the exception of Chronisian people and other ageweird people), transrace (with the exception of adoptees) and transdisordered)

anti-harassment

pro contradictory labels

pro self diagnosis

pro asexuals being a part of the LGBT+ community

pro non lesbian and non female/fem aligned femmes and butches

You can ask me about my opinions of you want, I might even make posts about them myself if I feel like it, just don’t be a jerk and I’ll answer.

Just ask like a normal person and I’ll answer, if you demand answers or treat me as less than human because I believe something then I won’t because it’s my blog and I do what I want.

post with headmate tags here

Generalizing Communities and Harassment

[PT: Generalizing Communities and Harassment /END PT]

I don’t really do discourse [Not that this is discourse, I’m just not sure how to refer to this situation.] but I have opinions and need to share them.

I would like to preface this with I do not know Till/idwl or really anyone in mogaiblr personally but I’ve interacted with faer on multiple occasions (on anon) and even if void did something wrong [which, let’s be clear, I don’t believe void did], it’s not okay to harass void or anyone else accused of unfounded or even founded bullshit. I, admittedly, am a person who, when I get especially upset with things I see, has said that mogaiblr sucks, but I acknowledge and know that I meant that the parts that condone harassment and the people who harass suck.

Harassment even if ‘deserved’ is never okay. If you have a problem with someone, just talk to them, because it’s often a misunderstanding, but harassment and bullshit ‘callouts’ ESPECIALLY when there is LITTLE TO NO EVIDENCE supporting them are bullshit and will just hurt innocent people. Being a cunt to people, even if those people are actually bad, which they often aren’t, is just an excuse to hurt people and be a cunt without feeling bad about it.

Why can’t people be given the benefit of the doubt anymore? In the US, which I know a fair chunk of mogaiblr users are from, it’s innocent until proven guilty, so why in this community is it guilty even once proven innocent?

The fact anyone has to say harassment isn’t okay is ridiculous. It is not and has never been okay and it never will be okay no matter who it’s directed towards.

I do my best not to hate people because of my belief system, but I have no problems saying that I hate the choices that people have made to harass Till and anyone else who’s been driven out of the community or hurt by it in any way. These things are not okay and even if the accusations were true [Which, clarification, again, I don’t believe they are.], it wouldn’t excuse harassing faer or anyone else.

Obviously not all of mogaiblr supports or condones harassment, in fact, most of it doesn’t, but I do understand why people would think that way and sometimes I myself even think that way because of just how loud and pervasive harassment and hate can be. [Not saying that I or anyone else /should/ think that way, but I feel it’s important to not act like I don’t or haven’t.] But we should all at least acknowledge that most of the community aren’t like that and it’s not okay or right to act like it is.

TLDR; Harassment is bad even if someone did actually do something, especially when the person being harassed didn’t do anything wrong.

[No image ID, sorry]

BlackRoseSymbous [Black - Rose - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to black roses, the aesthetics of the black rose flower, and the floriography meaning of the black rose, that being mystery and farewell.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

[No image ID, sorry]

BlackPetuniaSymbous [Black - Petunia - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to black petunias, the aesthetics of the black petunia flower, and the floriography meaning of the black petunia, that being the mysterious and unknown.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

Dotaniridian

A gender connected to being a mideval plague doctor who died from the plague but was reanimated to rid the world of the plague that humanity has become.

Uhmmmmm hi, also it Fraser wife but uhhh ja I here now <3

Hello darling <3