Rotates Blorbos In My Mind (literally) (i Am Plural)

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BleedingHeartSymbous [Bleeding - Heart - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to bleeding hearts, the aesthetics of the bleeding heart flower, and the meaning of the bleeding heart, that being brokenheartedness.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

[ID: a rectangular flag of 6 even horizontal stripes, the colors go form top to bottom as turquoise, dark turquoise, black, dark matte red, and matte pale red./end ID]

2012endholic  [2012 - End - Hol(e) -ic]

A gender related to the conspiracy theory that the world ended in 2012 because the earth was sucked into a black hole and we just haven't realized it yet.

Colours based off of my associations with 2012 and black in the middle for black hole.

Coined for @beatlesgore's coining event for day two with the theme of favourite conspiracy theory.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

Thank you accessibilitea for the image ID

I've seen a few new, very aggressive anti-nondisordered plurality blogs pop up over the last week. Going out of their way to post anti crap in inclusive plural spaces. So I just want to remind everyone that:

No one knows you better than you.

No one knows what you're going through/experiencing better than you do.

There is no 'definitive 1000% way' to 'prove' someone is a system or not. It is a largely internal and subject experience. And that's absolutely ok.

You do not need other people's permission to exist.

You do not need to prove yourself/selves to others.

Your system's origins no matter what they are do not make you more or less of a systems.

You DO NOT have to relive or reveal any trauma/s you have suffered to prove your validity. And anyone who asks you to do so does not have your well-being in mind.

You aren't harming anyone by talking about your lived experience and seeking community with others that understand.

You are a human being who is deserving of respect and kindness.

Respect and kindness of someone else's lived experience SHOULD NOT be contingent on if they can scrounge up articles or peer reviewed studies on if an extremely personal experience is valid or not.

Over medicalization and pathologation of plurality as a whole is rooted in racism and colonialization.

Do not let others act as if they get to dictate who you are and what you experience. The only reliable witness/s to the inner workings of your own mind are those who reside in it. No one else can tell you how you think or what your internal experiences are.

(And its bonkers that some people try)

To any and everything system and plural out there regardless of origin:

You are amazing.

You are valid.

The world is a better place for having you in it.

[Image ID: A five stripe flag with the colors bluish grey, dark greyish teal, icy blue, dark icy blue, and light grey.]

Colisounesstruial [Col(d) - Iso(lation) - (Gro)un(d) - (Darkn)ess - (Des)tru)ction - Ial (having the characteristics of)]

A gender related to the cold but specifically in the context of The Dark, The Buried, The Lonely, and The Desolation from The Magnus Archives. Simultaneously the cold associated with darkness, the cold associated with being deep underground/in a cave, the cold associated with isolation, and the cold associated with destruction and ruin. It is also generally related to feeling lost.

Colours based off of my associations with the fear entities mentioned, as well as a middle layer for general cold and an overlay in the colour of the middle layer.

Coined for 9/4 of Felidaety's coining event with the prompt temperature.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea @felidaety

Thank you accessibilitea for the image ID

A note under the cut.

I don't have the words to say I'm sorry for the long name and oddly specific name. Probably because I'm not. Sorry and no offense, but I didn't make this for you. If you relate to it, great, you can use it, whatever, and honestly I'd think it'd be really cool if anyone else identified with this, but above all else I made it for myself.

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BlackCallaLilySymbous [Black - Calla - Lily - Symbous]

A term under the -Symbous system related to Black Calla Lilies, the aesthetics of the Black Calla Lily flower, and the floriography meaning of the Black Calla Lily, that being transformation and renewal.

Colours picked from an image of the flower.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

[ID: a rectangular flag of 6 even horizontal stripes, the colors go from top to bottom as ligh yellow to greenish muted yellow, medium light blue to dark blue gradient./end ID]

Bihomic [Bi (two) - Hom(e) - Ic]

A term connected to the disconnect one may feel with the concept of home because one has two (or more) places that are 'home'. This may be due to living in a dorm and viewing both one's dorm and one's family home as 'home', having parents who are divorced or otherwise don't live together and viewing both places as home, being in foster care, etc.

I would prefer if people who haven't experienced things like this don't use this term, but I don't mind if people who have hearthomes or exomemories and consider their current residence and their hearthome or home in exomemories their home do.

Colours taken from yellow, my association with the concept of home, and the inverted versions of the three yellows I used.

Coined for @svd-mogai's job quitting coining event for April 26 with the prompt of one's associations with what they consider home.

@spy-cr4b @banana634 @radiomogai @accessibilitea

Thank you accessibilitea for the image ID

people who leave nice tags ily

Wait Ik you said that no nicknames unless if I know ya'll personally but am I still good with using wifey/wife?/srs (sorry brain doing a dumb)

Dear- you do know us personally- we have been together for almost a year- you're good- also yes please call us wifey/wife <3 /lh

Hi!

We're The Song, The Sea, and The Stars (we have a whole paragraph of a name if you want to hear it lol)! Our collective names are Pearce, Tommy, Fraser, and more! Our collective pronouns are they/them, it/its, dae/daem, and end/endo/endoceras plus more! We're a minor, we will not disclose our exact age for our personal privacy.

The person who's probably gonna be on here the most is Leo, who uses exclusively he/him but can accept they/them. Leo is an adult in his 20s.

Pfp m/w @spy-cr4b (wife [male])

More info under the cut

Boundaries:

Keep discourse the fuck away from us. You may ask our thoughts on certain topics but we reserve the right to not answer.

Please don't use nicknames/petnames on us unless we know you personally

Don't send us NSFW.

You are allowed to ask questions here, if something confuses you, please ask so that someone can explain. Do not be an asshole to people who ask a question, unless the question is in bad faith.

Please use tone tags with us, we have issues understanding tone through text.

We can and will use slurs, including and especially qu--r (e), f-gg-t (a, o), and fr—k (e, a), which we won't censor outside of this post. But please don’t use slurs towards us unless we know you or have said it’s okay.

BYF:

We have AuADHD, multiple anxiety disorders, selective mutism, NPD, and we're plural, though that isn't everything.

Some of our Headmates have typing quirks, which likely won't be translated initially. If you ask we'll edit it to have a plaintext version. Please don't translate for us unless it has been specified as alright, because some members with typing quirks feel uncomfortable when people translate for them.

We will not engage in discourse most of the time.

We support all good faith identities.

Screw it, no DNI anymore, just obey your own, opinions listed later <3

why? Because people are gonna interact regardless of DNI.

I am:

pro-para (anti-contact for inherently nonconsensual paraphilias

pro-endogenic and otherwise non traumatic systems

anti-radqueer

anti-xenosatanism

anti-transids when those transids are being used in a harmful way (such as transabled (with the exception of people with BIID), transage (with the exception of Chronisian people and other ageweird people), transrace (with the exception of adoptees) and transdisordered)

anti-harassment

pro contradictory labels

pro self diagnosis

pro asexuals being a part of the LGBT+ community

pro non lesbian and non female/fem aligned femmes and butches

You can ask me about my opinions of you want, I might even make posts about them myself if I feel like it, just don’t be a jerk and I’ll answer.

Just ask like a normal person and I’ll answer, if you demand answers or treat me as less than human because I believe something then I won’t because it’s my blog and I do what I want.

post with headmate tags here

Fixushamic

A gender connected to trying to fix something but even though you do everything right and it ends up perfect people shame you for fixing it and claim that you broke it.