I don't want to put the OP on blast but there's a post I've seen go around a bit about doing a CNC scene where they have to safeword twice for you to actually stop, or have the dom/me roll a dice to see the number of times you have to safeword before they'll stop and it really rubs me the wrong way
like I get what it's going for I do, for CNC the idea of somebody not stopping when you tell them to is very hot. but you already have ways of doing that? like saying "no" and "stop"?
The post bugs me because it feels like it just doesn't understand BDSM safety and you REALLY need to understand BDSM safety if you're doing hard kinks. A safeword is what it says in the name, it's for SAFETY. You need to have a word that means "stop right now, immediately, no questions" as a SAFETY precaution so you don't cause real physical or mental harm. Imagine if say a rope was cutting into your flesh in a dangerous and painful way and you have to do this stupid exercise of safewording 5 times to make it stop
It also feels like it's implying that the scene always goes until someone safewords? which, again, no? Ideally you shouldn't safeword at all. Ideally you've discussed what you're going to do and finish the scene without anybody having to suddenly stop it.
idk man. sometimes I worry there are a lot of young inexperienced people on here getting into hard kink without doing the work to learn how to do it safely first.
“go on baby, do it. mark your territory” while pounding them to the point of pissing on my cock <3
the trans girl estrogenized puffy nips are some of the hottest things to ever fucking exist and you will never convince me otherwise
"You're not my father 🙄" -> "Don't you take that tone with me, boy" -> pushing my face into the bed while he fucks me hard until I learn to listen to my dad
I woke mummy up with head n she pulled me away by my hair so now I've decided I'm not a good enough kid foe her
Sometimes I think about putting my age as 18 on apps to just see what creeps message bc I haven't been 18 in a while
I feel so babied today, mummy came on my face and cleaned me up very gently with a wash cloth and told me im her little handsome man
Story time:
When I was in college I was the only one in the dorm with a car which made me VERY popular, but more importantly because I was so fucking down bad for my next door neighbor, I volunteered to drive her to church [literal actual baptist church my jewish ass had balls of fucking steel to walk into that bitch every week drooling after a hot femme lordt]
This went normal and fine for about three weeks until one time her roommate had a dude over and she was like "can I stay in your room tonight so I actually get some sleep before church 🥺?"
So I let her stay in my bed and well. Folks. She didn't sleep. But we DID play "how many orgasms does it take to make you pass out?" And it turns out the answer was 15 sometime around 3am the next morning. We obvi wake up RUSHINGGGGGGG to church the next morning, and when we arrive looking frazzled, the pastor looks her up and down and asks how she's doing and is she having a tough time with finals? And she just goes "no, I just didn't get a lot of sleep last night, we were studying." And the pastor goes "oh yeah, what are you studying for?"
And without missing a beat my dyke ass says "Bible Study."
If looks could kill, I think she would have ended me on the spot, but four hours later she was calling me god in the backseat of my car while I ate her out sooooooooo pretty sure the moral to this story is that pre-marital lesbian sex is fine as long as you can emotionally scar an old man in the process.
im easily manipulated and have a poor memory btw