a lot of vivziepop designs just feel like they want to have his swag but can't quite manage it
Now that it is officially Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week, I want to talk about this!
I find that, as an aroace myself, I am constantly grasping at good representation and coming up empty— it usually ends up in one of two ways.
One: the character is portrayed as emotionless, cold, and robotic in nature. It’s the question aromantic and/or asexual people are often asked: “Are you heartless?” The answer is no, of course, but general media makes it out to be the opposite.
Or two: Their lack of attraction is seen as something to “fix” because they “haven’t found the right one yet”, and they end up with a partner as a “happy ending”.
It frustrates me greatly because of how little people actually see aromanticism or asexuality as a true part of the LGBTQIA+ community.
So when I watched Hazbin Hotel, and I found out about Alastor being aroace, I was over the moon. I was on cloud nine. I also saw how his voice actor has looked up the term as an attempt to learn about aroaces, which makes me OVERJOYED?? Amir is truly a blessing, and I love that he’s proud to embody a character that’s part of our community. It’s so beautiful to finally have a proper character, a fan favorite at that, who just so happens to be aroace— and that’s another thing I love about this.
It’s never explicitly stated in the show (though it is stated in interviews), but it’s rather clear when you’re watching, isn’t it? Alastor’s aversion to any sort of sexual advancement, coupled with Rosie’s blatant “I know you’re an ace in the hole” comment sort of spell out his asexuality pretty clearly, as well as what side of the spectrum he falls upon. In addition, his Valentine’s day card was strictly platonic, which caters to his aromantic side. It feels so validating to finally be represented, to finally have a character in media who shares the same lack of interest in romance and sex as I do.
When I entered the fandom to look for more content, I kind of expected to see the same respect for Alastor’s orientation there too. But that… wasn’t the case? I am fully aware that aromanticism and asexuality are both spectrums— of course, aromantic and/or asexual people can enter those kinds of relationships. I’m not denying that and they belong in the community as much as anyone else on the spectrum.
But, the more I see the same line again and again and again, the more it feels like an excuse to just ship what you want.
Usually I don’t mind shipping? I’m often a firm believer in people shipping what they like as long as it’s harmless and they don’t go crazy over it. I also know for a fact that Viv doesn’t have a problem with people shipping her characters. They are fictional, after all.
But in this case, people are ignoring the very thing that makes Alastor a part of the aroace community! People are ignoring his lack of romantic or sexual attraction!
Is this not the same as changing a gay character’s orientation to suit a straight ship? If not, how so? I’m told that we are a part of this community, so why aren’t we being treated like it? Why is it so hard to accept the people on the end of the spectrum who aren’t interested?
Something I’ve been noticing throughout my life is that society has not exactly progressed very much on the idea of accepting asexual or aromantic identities. Maybe we have, a little, since the old days— but hell, people in “the old days”, which in truth wasn’t very long ago, believed that asexuality was a medical condition to be “fixed” by taking the right medication or having sex. That’s a pretty low bar to clear. And on the romance side, you’re seen as a “late bloomer” or “boring” if you don’t express interest. These days, being friends with someone is treated like a gateway to them possibly becoming a lover. Not getting married, not going on dates, not wanting a partner— it’s all treated like a crime when it’s not.
Maybe I’m selfish, or sensitive, or I’m butthurt over nothing, or I’m making it all about me. Maybe I’m gatekeeping or whatever the term is. But please, please, please, I just want an aroace character like me who simply is not interested in sex or romance.
And I want fandom to respect that. I admire the creations that fans make— the art, the animatics, the writing and the character analysis. And I want people to keep creating because creation is indeed a beautiful thing.
But I really would like people to treat aroace identities like they’re important. Like it’s more than just a spectrum to get wiggle room to wrangle in another ship.
counterpoint, I'm too stupid to notice if you posted the same thing twice
Was no one gonna tell me that I posted the same thing twice
I'll miss you my blorbos in the reblogs I had to delete the doppelganger
Tried my best to mimic the cookie run art style and I think I did ok with making him
This is Sprinkle Squire Cookie, He's my personal take on one of Silent Salt Cookie's minions before anything officially drops. Funny little cookie run oc..
can you draw loop getting hugged?
Perchance.. just don’t tell the cops.
tfw you start asking a higher power to show you which person to Bless because there's a maniac with god-like powers coming to your home and the answer drops right in your lap
I'm not saying Euphrasie thought Siffrin was a bad choice to be the savior of Vaugarde but by the stars in the sky he was not her first choice but who are you to argue with the Universe!
are you ready to see some shit
bet you weren't fucjkign readty
Hello Tumblr, have a doodle dump!
The first one is a silly with some peeps in the massive monster server @masochistinhell (red guy with 12 legs) and @eldritchbanana68 (purple dude with the bow)
Second one is my sona/skin with buttercup or earthy vibes! Bc I really like those skins and emphasis on flowers
The rest are random things I found in my phone and some more!
Thank you to Adrienne who made this wonderful game, thank you to this wonderful fandom for helping me figure myself out a little more than before, and thank you In Stars And Time for being another pillar game of my life.
I'm so glad to see the deserved recognition this game got, and I cannot wait to see more to come from this wonderful community!
Happy one year anniversary, In Stars And Time!✨
Oh hey someone I know has suddenly posted about In Stars and Time.
also I am moving out of the way you got this
isabeau and loop is my transition goals everyone get out of the way
Your local, professional idiot.he/they, aroace. amateur at many things.PFP by @shandziiBanner is art from the opening cutscene of In Stars and time
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