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“You will be too much for some people. Those aren’t your people.”

— Unknown

Hello Priestess, I just saw your bio and had a question about the way you connect with your online sub. If you're comfortable saying, how do you enjoy interaction online with them? Does it need to be video so you can see them? Does text work? I'm curious what the dynamic is like since you're not meeting them in person. Have you, or would you ever consider meeting them face to face, or is the relationship built on maintaining some degree of physical separation? Thank you for anything you can offer!

Thank you for the polite ask, it's appreciated.

For tumblr it's text only. I don't do videos, pictures or voice. My experience is people get carried away, sometimes in the moment, and it can go places you'd rather it didn't. And that's even when boundaries have been clearly communicated.

To me interaction with an online submissive is a very different one to real life, I know that's obvious but for some people they're using online to gain a real dynamic. That's not where I'm at, I have a satisfying real life partner and submissive and I'm part of my local bdsm community, including events. I have a trusted circle of people including my partner who I met online

Online submissives are generally more about variety, there are people who might intrigue me (especially women) but are so far away it's never going to happen. So submission in that context might be them taking instructions, behaviour modification, trance or relaxation using text and so on. But it can be time consuming so I'm choosy. I can be.

There are people who are open to meeting people from tumblr, I would always counsel caution, I've found it to be an unreliable source. Online sites including the well known fetish ones are generally safer, although a brain, common sense and safety measures should always be applied before you meet anyone or give access to images or videos of yourself.

Be safe, hope that was helpful

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Ok so ive posted on these before but it deserves a further post as the flowers have developed ... Stunning pink purple dragon mouths on the flowers (there probably a technical name) ... And planning to put the plant somewhere in my small border today where I sit out and have a cup of tea ... Or wine at the weekend lol. Beautiful

With the summer weather in the UK, the left

Which one do you prefer? <3

Forgot to post these.

The last time I tried making my stockings like this, I ended up with string, lol. Maybe it's time for another go ...

Oddly, whilenive heard of Sylvia Plath I don't believe I've consciously read her work, something to address ...

Spanking a boy over my lap is one of my favourite dominant act. Feeling him wriggle and seeing the effect on him just gets me so aroused, usually I have to make myself come while he's been made to stand in the corner so I can see his red ass as I give myself the biggest climax. No you can't look, be a good boy.

need to bend a pretty boy over my lap and spank him till he’s a struggling, teary-eyed mess, leaky cock between my thighs, groping his ass between each spank as he thanks me in a shaky voice <3

Hello Corvina

I was wondering how I should address you, I'm interested in talking to you about what submission might mean for online contact only.

You say to approach you politely but don't say any particular honorific?

Can I have this emoji please?

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Thank you for the polite approach.

Don't use Mistress, that's reserved for my partner, thank you for checking about it. I probably should put it on my bio but as I'm open about my age, I don't get a huge number of enquiries ... which kind of suits me as it filters out the twats.

What should you use? There are the usual options you'll see on tumblr. Why not try one out which gives me an idea where your head is at, I'll tell you very quickly if it's not acceptable. Follow your heart and polite approach and see what that tells you, and me.

Yes of course you can have that emoji

I do accept DMs once you feel a little more brave or do a non anonymous ask with your emoji so I can see your profile

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Aha ha. This is sooooo true.