Hello Corvina

Very much me!

There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.

It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.

Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.

Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre

Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough

don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.

I love this, says it all really, femininity nurtures the land and gives life to it, and takes pleasure in that giving (c) corvina fae text, image unknown origin.

Hello Priestess, I just saw your bio and had a question about the way you connect with your online sub. If you're comfortable saying, how do you enjoy interaction online with them? Does it need to be video so you can see them? Does text work? I'm curious what the dynamic is like since you're not meeting them in person. Have you, or would you ever consider meeting them face to face, or is the relationship built on maintaining some degree of physical separation? Thank you for anything you can offer!

Thank you for the polite ask, it's appreciated.

For tumblr it's text only. I don't do videos, pictures or voice. My experience is people get carried away, sometimes in the moment, and it can go places you'd rather it didn't. And that's even when boundaries have been clearly communicated.

To me interaction with an online submissive is a very different one to real life, I know that's obvious but for some people they're using online to gain a real dynamic. That's not where I'm at, I have a satisfying real life partner and submissive and I'm part of my local bdsm community, including events. I have a trusted circle of people including my partner who I met online

Online submissives are generally more about variety, there are people who might intrigue me (especially women) but are so far away it's never going to happen. So submission in that context might be them taking instructions, behaviour modification, trance or relaxation using text and so on. But it can be time consuming so I'm choosy. I can be.

There are people who are open to meeting people from tumblr, I would always counsel caution, I've found it to be an unreliable source. Online sites including the well known fetish ones are generally safer, although a brain, common sense and safety measures should always be applied before you meet anyone or give access to images or videos of yourself.

Be safe, hope that was helpful

This is so very me...

Omg this is so true. I could have avoided a failed marriage, divorce and an exposure to a narcissistic parter if I'd realised this earlier. I'd then also not ha e two children I dearly love though, so out of some dark traumas come wonderful things.

Why are you a gothic priestess?

It was mainly a bit of fun lol

But I do have a certain standing ... I'm strongly dominant in BDSM relationships and enjoy adoration.

Are you wanting to do so?

Spanking a boy over my lap is one of my favourite dominant act. Feeling him wriggle and seeing the effect on him just gets me so aroused, usually I have to make myself come while he's been made to stand in the corner so I can see his red ass as I give myself the biggest climax. No you can't look, be a good boy.

need to bend a pretty boy over my lap and spank him till he’s a struggling, teary-eyed mess, leaky cock between my thighs, groping his ass between each spank as he thanks me in a shaky voice <3

I love this ... Which explains to me why the most mundane acts with someone can be so hugely charged, whereas with someone else a beautifully crafted scene can sometimes fall flat ...

Adélia Prado, The Mystical Rose: Selected Poems, from “Dysrhythmia“ tr by Ellen Watson

I'm busy ... finally getting my mojo and finishing off journals, diaries and other lifestyle aids for my chosen clan - Gothic and Alternative - if that wasn't clear. Links and examples coming soon, so forgive me in the meantime for posting less relevant stuff, just getting my creative juices flowing and feeling a bit more confident as i step out ...