I Am So Ridiculously Happy For Kazuyuki Ishihara Winning Both Gold And Best In Show ... His Reaction

Oh my this was so relevant this weekend, and the narcissistic, irrelevant and boring opinions from people who used to have a claim on my life. No more, I've forgiven them, moved on, and have no real thoughts of them anymore except as a fact just happens to be a small part of my story...

Yes I'd happily have it as a weekend and holidays house, complete with bat roost to feed off ignorant male tumblr blogs who randomly messaged you with inane questions. Mind you it might not be kind to the bats

I love wild garlic season soooo much

Netherlands by Marina

What's your favourite position, and how may I serve you mistress?

First point, I'm not your Mistress, I'm only that to one person and that's cos he's my partner, beloved submissive and an amazing man.

How you can serve? You can serve yourself by educating yourself to be a little more original or informative in an ask.

My favourite position right now is sat with the cat on my lap, listening to the rain and drinking a cup of tea.

One of those days where standing up for yourself, having difficult conversations and being authentic is hard, but absolutely the right thing to do. Go me.

Gothic. Creator of lifestyle aids for the gothic/emo woman or girl.

I identify as strongly dominant female, active in my alternative and BDSM community in the southwest UK. 45.

I'm Bi. I have a partner but am poly, i currently have 2 others sub, one who i see in real life, one is a female sub online.

If you're interested in submitting then ask away, politely, it doesn't mean you'll get an answer.

See links coming soon for Amazon products … be good …

Reblog if you’re polyamorous, support polyamorous people, or think polyamorous people and relationships are valid

Reflecting on the pleasure of getting to know someone new, and how adorable young women can be, especially when you find a polite, interesting and respectful one

There's a truth to this. Those of us with the H of ADHD can easily overthink but that's very different to when we experience rejection sensitivity. Rejection Sensitivity Disorder is more prevalent in hyperactive leaning neuro divergent people, and recognising you have that tendency can be a real gift.

It's not that it's a label to shove in peoples faces but rather should be an aid to you (and maybe shared with your trusted close ones) that you can feel apparently rejection keenly.

Spot it early, don't let it spiral.... its easy for a poorly judged action or comment from others to trigger a reaction.

Try to be mindful of your inner voice, if it starts catastrophe talk, shut it down, practice some mindfulness actions and re centre

Sounds easy but for me it's been a practice that's taken ages to at least attempt to adopt ... I'm still learning and practicing from my mistakes when I dont catch it early enough

don’t tell me i’m overthinking. i’m overfeeling and it’s not the same.

Hello Priestess, I just saw your bio and had a question about the way you connect with your online sub. If you're comfortable saying, how do you enjoy interaction online with them? Does it need to be video so you can see them? Does text work? I'm curious what the dynamic is like since you're not meeting them in person. Have you, or would you ever consider meeting them face to face, or is the relationship built on maintaining some degree of physical separation? Thank you for anything you can offer!

Thank you for the polite ask, it's appreciated.

For tumblr it's text only. I don't do videos, pictures or voice. My experience is people get carried away, sometimes in the moment, and it can go places you'd rather it didn't. And that's even when boundaries have been clearly communicated.

To me interaction with an online submissive is a very different one to real life, I know that's obvious but for some people they're using online to gain a real dynamic. That's not where I'm at, I have a satisfying real life partner and submissive and I'm part of my local bdsm community, including events. I have a trusted circle of people including my partner who I met online

Online submissives are generally more about variety, there are people who might intrigue me (especially women) but are so far away it's never going to happen. So submission in that context might be them taking instructions, behaviour modification, trance or relaxation using text and so on. But it can be time consuming so I'm choosy. I can be.

There are people who are open to meeting people from tumblr, I would always counsel caution, I've found it to be an unreliable source. Online sites including the well known fetish ones are generally safer, although a brain, common sense and safety measures should always be applied before you meet anyone or give access to images or videos of yourself.

Be safe, hope that was helpful